dancers are fair game?

[iamfezzik]

Hi, OK -- perhaps I'm a bit naive. I've always gone into clubs fantasizing about leaving with a dancer but I've never got the nerve up to ask one. Now, reading this forum, I see that it's not just a possibility but a likelyhood. Is this really the case?

Is there some sort of secret handshake or phrase to use or is a simple "wanna come home with me?" sufficient?

Thanks!

 

[Never Compromised]

Hi, OK -- perhaps I'm a bit naive. I've always gone into clubs fantasizing about leaving with a dancer but I've never got the nerve up to ask one. Now, reading this forum, I see that it's not just a possibility but a likelyhood. Is this really the case?

Is there some sort of secret handshake or phrase to use or is a simple "wanna come home with me?" sufficient?

Thanks!

Secret handshake

Order a drink for the dancer. Leave the wallet on the table. Make sure she can see that it is stuffed with $50's and $100's.

 

[oldjones]

Any polite question will likely get a polite answer; whether it's the one you want will depend on how well you picked the party you asked. There are no guarantees. Still, you can be pretty sure it won't be the first time she's been asked, and she's unlikely to slap you and stomp off, screaming for the bouncer.

 

[LordLoki]

Fair game, yes

But liscence to get one is expensive

 

[bangcamaro]

If you have money, anything is possible.

 

[AdrenalinJunkie]

It depends on the dancer. During dances, you may get hints as to what may be available. But, go by the old saying, "It never hurts to ask". Answers will range from I don't do that, to I need to get to know you first (probably a ploy for repeat visits) to yes. Pricing is a tricky issue, since officially you can't talk about it.

 

[The Bandit]

Just don't get your hopes up too high.

 

[skypilot]

It can be very expensive. They will usually ask more than some of the top SP's. And some people will pay it.

 

[Bear669]

Yup

Any polite question will likely get a polite answer; whether it's the one you want will depend on how well you picked the party you asked. There are no guarantees. Still, you can be pretty sure it won't be the first time she's been asked, and she's unlikely to slap you and stomp off, screaming for the bouncer.

Pay for several private laps, be light and joke a bit. Helps to have a bi SP with you!
Wear clean clothes! As has been posted countless times, a big issue for SPs is male hygiene. The dancers dont even get a chance to send you to the showers!

Ask politely, offer your phone number. I have only been to clubs a few times in recent months (first since hobbying) and batting .333. (Darn good GFE too)

 

[C Dick]

I have found that there are three types of dancers when it comes to take-out: some say yes to most guys who meet basic criteria of money, hygiene, safety, etc. Some say no, no matter what, even if basic criteria is met, regardless of money. Then there are some that say yes sometimes, but only when they feel like it, you are their type, etc., more than just the basics.

But whichever they are, if you get some dances first, and are respectful, and ask if they would like to (as opposed to assuming and asking how much), the worst you are likely to hear is no. Price can range from $200 to your car, but if she is charging too much, it is less likely she is motivated, so you will likely have a less good time, not more.

 

[Hard Idle]

Possible? Yes.
Likely? No.

 

[LazMan]

Always had good luck with the "do you do private shows?" opening... But I'd like to think I have the other 3 bases covered, too (clean, polite, well funded).

I did have one dancer (and how great is this for the ego?) - who, after giving me a lapdance said "I'm off in 15 minutes, do you want to go somewhere?" - I told her I was interested in a business transaction, she put her hand on lil' Laz and said it wasn't money she was after. Wow! But out of probably 100's of trips to SCs- that's a one-time thing for sure.

 

[james t kirk]

The trick is to pick one up and take her home for free.

Done it once and only once.

 

[amber-jade]

Helps to have a bi SP with you!

that always works for us


.

 

[juanbrujo]

Money makes the monkey dance.

 

[AdrenalinJunkie]

Alcohol or drug intake could make a difference. Thoses who don't partake, or only have a glass of wine per shift, tend to be more in control of themselves, and are likely less likely to partake in extra curricular activities.

 

[frankcastle]

Are you asking if she will come home in the free or paid sense? Both are possible but......

if you're hoping for free..... you'll have an equal to easier time in a bar, club or other social setting.

if you're looking to pay..... take a look at the outcall and incall sections they tend to be of equal or cheaper price (for the ones willing to provide a private show).

there are probably at least four categories of dancers.....
1) ones looking to party so if you have the substance of interest you might have a chance
2) ones looking for money (gee guess what you'll need)
3) ones that you genuinely click with (rare since they are working and not necessarily looking to hook up)
4) ones that just aren't interested in you (probably the majority)

 

[bangcamaro]

Are you asking if she will come home in the free or paid sense? Both are possible but......

if you're hoping for free..... you'll have an equal to easier time in a bar, club or other social setting.

if you're looking to pay..... take a look at the outcall and incall sections they tend to be of equal or cheaper price (for the ones willing to provide a private show).

there are probably at least four categories of dancers.....
1) ones looking to party so if you have the substance of interest you might have a chance
2) ones looking for money (gee guess what you'll need)
3) ones that you genuinely click with (rare since they are working and not necessarily looking to hook up)
4) ones that just aren't interested in you (probably the majority)

Great post. I like those four categories, definately agree with them and can relate to a few... mostly number 4 but a few... heh

 

[ASYLUM]

i guess it depends on the girl. Some girls can't be 'bought'

 

[frankcastle]

i guess it depends on the girl. Some girls can't be 'bought'

I agree they would be category 4 (just not interested.....maybe I should have added in "in any way, shape or form" )