Cute or Hot?

HaileyGirl

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What do these words mean to you? If you say a girl is CUTE what exactly are you thinking about her? If you say a girl is HOT what is the difference? Which is better? I realise that they are both positive but which is a better compliment?
 
HaileyGirl said:
What do these words mean to you? If you say a girl is CUTE what exactly are you thinking about her? If you say a girl is HOT what is the difference? Which is better? I realise that they are both positive but which is a better compliment?

When I refer to a girl as cute or as hot, in either case it is very likely that I would like to jump both of them. The nuance is that the hot girl is oozing sex, in how she acts, what she wears, her overall personna. The cute girl, on the other hand, is facially stunning and attracts you like a magnet.

But Hailey, let's hear from you. Women refer to men as "cute" and as "hot". What's the difference in your opinion?
 
HaileyGirl said:
What do these words mean to you? If you say a girl is CUTE what exactly are you thinking about her? If you say a girl is HOT what is the difference? Which is better? I realise that they are both positive but which is a better compliment?

Cute is a term used with girls up to a certain age to generally define a youthful, fresh-faced look that is appealing, innocent and not overtly sexual. I think of "hot" as a more conscious effort to emphasize the sexual element - more of a style than a look - makeup, hair, clothes as much as the underlying physical features.

You dont call a 28 yr old woman "cute" and expect her to take it as a compliment. But there ARE 18 yr old girls (Yorkdale Mall on a Saturday) who dress or carry themselves in such a way that you would say "wow, that's hot".

Either can work with the right girl, but most girls can't be both.
 
Height comes into play here. I've never heard short girls in the 5'1" - 5'2" range or short guys in the 5'4"-5'5" ranged called hot, cute yes but never hot.
 
Cute is the one you take home to show mom.
Hot is the one you take to show your friends.
 
MuffinMuncher said:
You dont call a 28 yr old woman "cute" and expect her to take it as a compliment. But there ARE 18 yr old girls (Yorkdale Mall on a Saturday) who dress or carry themselves in such a way that you would say "wow, that's hot".

Either can work with the right girl, but most girls can't be both.

Not sure I agree. It's all in the way you say it. You can call a 28 yr old woman cute and make it sound very sexy. Inflection is everything.
 
stang said:
Cute is the one you take home to show mom.
Hot is the one you take to show your friends.

LOL Best answer

Here's another

Cute - makes you want to cuddle and kiss.
Hot - makes you want to fuck her n the ass and blow a load on her face as she swallows.
 
HaileyGirl said:
What do these words mean to you? If you say a girl is CUTE what exactly are you thinking about her? If you say a girl is HOT what is the difference? Which is better? I realise that they are both positive but which is a better compliment?

To me, "cute" doesn't necessarily imply any sexual attraction, but could. When a woman has called me "cute", I've always thought she was attempting to compliment me while leaving herself some flexibility as to how "into me" she really was. Btw, the comment about size coming into it is incorrect in my experience. I'm much too large to be "cute" on that poster's suggested criteria.

"Hot" however, definitely communicates sexual attraction.

As to which is better, I think it depends on the type of relationship that you want. If you want a woman to like you, and to have that feeling last a long time, it might be better that she thinks you're cute. Whatever it is that makes you cute probably won't dissipate that quickly. If you want to head to the sack as fast as humanly possible, and don't care how long the relationship lasts after that, I think you'd prefer to be "hot". Everyone's "hotness" winds down over time, at least in the eyes of one individual.
 
stang said:
Cute is the one you take home to show mom.
Hot is the one you take to show your friends.

I think this is the best answer!

I think they both are hot... But cute is a different way of handling yourself
 
elmo said:
Cute - makes you want to cuddle and kiss.
Hot - makes you want to fuck her n the ass and blow a load on her face as she swallows.

I think you're being unfair to all the cuties. No reason why they shouldn't get a good ass fucking and a facial too.
 
MuffinMuncher said:
Cute is a term used with girls up to a certain age to generally define a youthful, fresh-faced look that is appealing, innocent and not overtly sexual. I think of "hot" as a more conscious effort to emphasize the sexual element - more of a style than a look - makeup, hair, clothes as much as the underlying physical features.

You dont call a 28 yr old woman "cute" and expect her to take it as a compliment.

Well, I'm 30 and I still get called "cute" all the time, LOL. I've never been thrilled with being called cute but now that I've read some of your opinions on the term, I guess it's not that bad anymore.:)

to-guy69 said:
Height comes into play here. I've never heard short girls in the 5'1" - 5'2" range or short guys in the 5'4"-5'5" ranged called hot, cute yes but never hot.

I think this is true. A guy once told me that I could never be considered "hot" or "beautiful" no matter what I did because I'm too short (5'1"). His opinion was that a woman had to be at least 5'6" to ever be considered beautiful. (He was a bit of a dick).
 
The Crunge said:
But Hailey, let's hear from you. Women refer to men as "cute" and as "hot". What's the difference in your opinion?

I dont think I have described a guy as cute since I was about 15.

For girls though, I was having a discussion with a few friends of mine and some girls think that being called cute is not so complimentary and definately a lesser ranking than "hot". I just wondered what men thought ;)
 
Cute includes looks and personality. Hot is purely physical.
 
Cute to me indicates an attractive girl under 25 who is a girl next door type. Not Playboy model, but fresh, young and somewhat innocent and inexperienced looking. She might be at the mall in a pack of girls shopping, or walking one of those genetically altered mintaure designer dogs down the street, or washing cars at a HS charity event.

I wouldn''t have sex with a cute girl per se, since, as Hailey Girl pointed out, often 'cute' girls are under 18...mosty range from 14 to 20. When I see a 'cute' girl I tend to think "wow, when she grows up/turns 18 she will be HOT."

Hot to me indicates a girl any age over 18 who exudes sex appeal, is attractive, and who I'd have sex with if she was okay with it.
 
Hi,

Cute to me refers to someone in a nonsexual way, I see it as a synonym for pretty.

Hot is purely sexual in nature, as in; "she is a hotwife". "She has a hot bod". "That babe is so fucking hot". "I wanna fuck that hot MILF".

EU:)
 
stang said:
Cute is the one you take home to show mom.
Hot is the one you take to show your friends.

Cute - makes you want to cuddle and kiss.
Hot - makes you want to fuck her n the ass and blow a load on her face as she swallows.

Yup, those two about sum it up. Typically, I prefer cute more than hot, but every once in a while, only hot will do.
 
There's a huge difference between cute and hot

Cute = young, short hair (usually), girlish features.

Hot = sexy, nice body




Angelina Jolie is hot, but not cute.



Some have both qualities (e.g. Jessica Alba is both cute and hot).