I hear people have had success on PlentyofFish and well the paid ones like SexyAds are just rubbish for certain cities like Toronto.
I got a response from
Ashley Madison from just registering but never followed it up by paying to see the ad of the next person and message etc.
Yes men who go on these sites may not be the most wealthy or best looking etc but apart from women setting their standards very high so maybe they could at least not fall too far below, I find most women as usual still look for the fairytale requirements without quite taking a good look at themselves and their own shortcomings and why they have to resort to online dating and so I am weary of this as many of these women go for the obnoxious lowlife guys in real life and sometimes online and often gauge all other prospects on their previous bad decisions thus having negative preconceptions about guys they meet online before dating.
A lot of women online also have issues and have to resort to online dating cause after a guy meets her and gets to know the real her, subsequent meetings with the same guys are pretty much nil.