A female friend of mine is in a relationship with a guy who seems a little strange. She describes him as extremely jealous, quick tempered, high stress. He's a successful businessman, but seems less able in his personal life. The relationship is marred by continual fighting and break ups and she seems to be the one who makes all the compromises.
To give some of the flavour, I ran into her last weekend and we chatted for a while on the street. Just shooting the shit like old friends. When I got home, I had two very weird voicemails from the guy, essentially ranting and not-quite-threatening me. He called me a piece of shit and her a two-bit stinking whore. He then phoned the cops and attempted to have me charged with the crime of "chatting to his girlfriend". The cops simply cautioned the guy against doing anything silly and told him to calm down.
She reconciled with him the next day and told me he seems a 'little volatile" but is basically a good guy. This is not an isolated incident with this couple.
I want to bail on the situation and get as far away from it as I can. But I thought I should recommend my friend that they go to couples' counselling with a diagnostic element, as I think he probably suffers from low end clinical paranoia.
Is there such a service and if so, can I get some recs? The guy is loaded and can certainly pay.
To give some of the flavour, I ran into her last weekend and we chatted for a while on the street. Just shooting the shit like old friends. When I got home, I had two very weird voicemails from the guy, essentially ranting and not-quite-threatening me. He called me a piece of shit and her a two-bit stinking whore. He then phoned the cops and attempted to have me charged with the crime of "chatting to his girlfriend". The cops simply cautioned the guy against doing anything silly and told him to calm down.
She reconciled with him the next day and told me he seems a 'little volatile" but is basically a good guy. This is not an isolated incident with this couple.
I want to bail on the situation and get as far away from it as I can. But I thought I should recommend my friend that they go to couples' counselling with a diagnostic element, as I think he probably suffers from low end clinical paranoia.
Is there such a service and if so, can I get some recs? The guy is loaded and can certainly pay.