I mean permanately....not breaks
It's almost a contradiction - I believe the hobby is an addiction.
I totally agree that to quit ones needs strong motivation to do so.
Could you ever give up this Hobby?
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I totally agree that to quit ones needs strong motivation to do so.
Thats good adviceYou could date an ex-sp
Lol, the guy I am seeing right now can't even handle my blowjobs
I have to stop and let him breathe for a bit
^^^ Go easy on him Miss Mae & keep 911 on your speed dial lol
Just do you...the people who belong in your lifestyle will be there doing their thing, too. All you need is the confidence and social skills to make a connection, platonic or otherwise.
Being happy with yourself and doing what you love radiates from you; others will be drawn to your charisma.
I voted maybe because my wife has lost her libido, we've been intimate only once in the past three years. Before, when she was sexually active, I enjoyed the times we had together and the thought of visiting SPs never crossed my mind. It was this drought that led me to look for an oasis to quench my thirst. Like many of you, I feel extremely fortunate to have met a few lovely and intelligent women through hobbying. For a while, I was seeing only one sp and felt a strong attachment until she retired and wanted to distance herself from the hobby. I've been seeing another sp this past year and have others on my tdl. If my wife ever rediscovered her sex drive again I would try to stop hobbying, however, now that I've tasted the fruit I'm not confident that I could stop.
I suppose I could give it up if I had to, but why? I have pretty much given it up in Banada not wanting to run afoul of the law. But I figured out I could afford to have a different girl almost every day for the rest of my life overseas, so WTF not...plus the experience is 100x better then a quickie 30 min or even 1 hr date here.
Well, funny this post comes about this time in my life. I had a wild wild sex ride within and outside this hobby for about 15 years. The last couple of years, I really toned down.... saw only 1 SP... we really had chemistry sexual and otherwise. The only girl I've seen in the last two years in the industry......... Trouble is.... in real life I met the girl of my dreams.... going out with her for approximately 2 years as well. We have realized we are very serious now at this next stage after dating. She is perfect for me (nymphomaniac like as well), and I am realizing this girl is what I really want and I am going to give a serious relationship a serious effort. It is tough not seeing my SP friend because we have become such close friends. But I know the real life girl is too good for me to lose, so I have to act accordingly.
When those waves come along in life, you have to ride them. Even if you know they are unlikely to last forever.
