Some GOOD Anal Sex info (Female specific)
Go slow. Lots of lube. Wear gloves and use condoms (even on toys). Start with a finger. Regulate your breathing. Don't expect everything at once, try and pace the introduction over a number of sessions. STOP IF IT HURTS. Anal sex should not hurt.
The are plenty of places to find good info to prep for anal sex.
Sexuality.org my favorite (and first) place to do all investigation related to sex. It is a great resource.
There are plenty of good books dedicated to the topic. "Loving your Anus" is one.
IF you are in Toronto, "Good For Her' is a female owned and operated sex store on Harbourd. They are wonderful and offer workshops. they will also help you choose an APPROPRIATE toy for anal sex. Do not use a regular vibrator -- they are not designed for it. And remember that toys designed for men will be different than toys designed for women (since we don't have a prostate gland)
Some quick sites:
www.sexuality.org
http://www.newshe.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000942.html (Womens sexual health network forum - anal sex thread)
http://www.loverschool.net/female/asex.shtml
http://www.sexforwomen.info/anal_sex.htm
Go slow. Lots of lube. Wear gloves and use condoms (even on toys). Start with a finger. Regulate your breathing. Don't expect everything at once, try and pace the introduction over a number of sessions. STOP IF IT HURTS. Anal sex should not hurt.
The are plenty of places to find good info to prep for anal sex.
Sexuality.org my favorite (and first) place to do all investigation related to sex. It is a great resource.
There are plenty of good books dedicated to the topic. "Loving your Anus" is one.
IF you are in Toronto, "Good For Her' is a female owned and operated sex store on Harbourd. They are wonderful and offer workshops. they will also help you choose an APPROPRIATE toy for anal sex. Do not use a regular vibrator -- they are not designed for it. And remember that toys designed for men will be different than toys designed for women (since we don't have a prostate gland)
Some quick sites:
www.sexuality.org
http://www.newshe.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000942.html (Womens sexual health network forum - anal sex thread)
http://www.loverschool.net/female/asex.shtml
http://www.sexforwomen.info/anal_sex.htm
