confirm confirm confirm!!!!!!!

[Ladyraven]

Other posters have mentioned in previous threads that Ladyraven is often difficult to contact. I believe she does not accept telephone calls and all requests for information, appointments, etc need to be made by text, email or TERB PM. Given that these are, for the most part, not interactive, it is, perhaps, not surprising that the odd mix up will likely occur.

While Ladyraven, no doubt, has her reasons for not taking telephone requests, most providers seem to prefer that method and often specifically state they will not respond to texts and emails. Her present method of operation does sometimes make getting an appointment a bit of a chore.

Anyone who has followed Ladyraven's posts during the last year or so would likely not have too much difficulty determining her incall location. She regularly posts her menu, rates and general availability.

I prefer people not to listen in on my calls.. it happens I take calls when I know there is no chance of over hearing .. and if there was a time confirmed I would not turn you away unless it was important on my end.. you do not just show up . a time was suggested .. suggested . not confirmed. rates were not addressed. address was not given .. Don't just ASSUME!!!

 

[harryass]

whats so overly difficult of confriming? Agree its common sense.

Even if you had several correspondances before, just reconfirm a day ahead of the schedule day and time or the day of again.

 

[MrBingo]

i was so horny that forgot confirm

 

[MrBingo]

but to be honest last time i was really horny that phone lady told me she wil confirm 1 hour before meeting but i called her 3-4 more times to confirm....

 

[Ladyraven]

If you want a client to reconfirm an appt they have already made then you need to tell them to do so at that first communication . Dont assume they know this , every Escort handles her business the way that works for her . Not every gentleman that hobbies knows of or is on terb to know what your requirements are so its your responsibility you advise them of your protocol . IMO if you have the same location and an appt . was made then there should be no need to reconfirm unless you both discuss ahead of time that 1 or the other of you wants to reconfirm . Most businesses that use appts to book work that way .

Before I retired I used to let gents know when they booked that I had to travel to my location so if they were not able to make there appt. or if something happened on my end we would be courteous enough to let eachother know . I only remember it happening on 1 occasion when a gent called to say he got held up at the border and I never had to call any of them to cancel or tell I was running late . I was fortunate to have regular clients that would often book 2 or 3 weeks in advance and we would sometimes stay in touch on between so it was never an issue .

Just a side point ....I work in a service oriented business unrelated to the sex industry and when I book appts. I always ask if they want a reminder text or call the day before the appt . some say yes , others I see them write the appt down on an appt book . Why not ask if they want you to do the same and call or text them the day before there appt . this will cut your no shows down and your just show ups as well . Yes life does happen but there should be no way we could not get a hold of someone when life does happen , cell phones , texting , emailing its almost impossible anymore to not be able to communicate when we need too . And yes it should work both ways ! Misty

the appt was not made.. read the whole thing

 

[grooverider]

the appt was not made.. read the whole thing

If there was not an initial appointment made, then confirming is not the issue. The issue is having a random person show up at your place without calling first. The title of this thread should be, "Make an appointment before showing up".

As for confirming, if the appointment is made a day or more in advance, I would put the onus on the SP to confirm. If the client does not confirm, then the client risks that the appointment may get lost because the SP may have forgotten about the appointment.

Without confirmation the SP loses cash, while the client loses the session. The client will spend their money elsewhere while the SP has to make up that income.

Always in the Groove...

 

[MissCroft]

Maybe it's just me.

When I make an appointment with any other professional, it's ASSUMED to be confirmed once we've exchanged information and agreed on a date and time. I don't, for example, have to call my Dentist again the day of the appointment to ask if I'm still on the schedule.

In my professional life, I book meetings or get invited to attend others on a regular basis. Once the invitation and acceptance e-mails have been sent, it's ASSUMED that the appointment is on unless otherwise notified.

Sure, in the Hobby world, it's appropriate to call or text before showing up (this applies to both SP and client, depending on who is "in") . Certainly it's appropriate for one to advise the other if there's been a delay. If the appointment needs to be changed for some reason, it's only polite to notify the other part as soon as possible. However, how many times do I have to "confirm" my appointment?

If I make a date with a lady in advance (which i usually do) and she tells me the day-of that she's made other plans because I didn't "confirm" after all the plans were already made and agreed, I would consider her unprofessional and not seek to see her again.

I somewhat agree with you but I feel like it's comparing apples and oranges in a way. I think some men tend to take work/medical/dental appts. more seriously than SP ones. It's great that you take it very seriously. But a lot of guys book on a whim and then change their minds. And they don't always let you know this. It can and does happen where a guy books an appt. for a certain date and time and then you never hear from him again. I think a lot of us (both SPs and clients) feel more at ease when we get that confirmation.

If a client books me in advance and then it's the day of our date and I haven't heard anything yet, I start to worry. And if I have another potential client asking me for a date for the same time, I don't always know what to do. I don't want to double-book. I have never double-booked even though there were times when I probably should have because one of the clients fell through. Sure, you lose money but it's not a good way to conduct business for sure. So it just makes me feel much more comfortable with the confirmation.

And my dentist actually does often call patients a few days in advance to confirm the appt. Especially when it's made a lon time in advance.

Chloe

 

[Stoo]

And don't you love when they don't confirm, show up anyway, then blame it on you? That's a personal favourite of mine

Strange... I meet with perhaps 30 clients a week. The meetings are generally set a week or more in advance. I show up (or they do) at the prearranged time and place. The only time we talk a second time is if someone can't make the meeting or needs to change something...

With everyone using Smartphones and crap these days, scheduling an appointment is pretty damn simple.

 

[doggee_01]

I somewhat agree with you but I feel like it's comparing apples and oranges in a way. I think some men tend to take work/medical/dental appts. more seriously than SP ones. A lot of guys book on a whim and then change their minds. And they don't always let you know this. It can and does happen where a guy books an appt. for a certain date and time and then you never hear from him again. I think a lot of us (both SPs and clients) feel more at ease when we get that confirmation.

If a client books me a week in advance and then it's the day of our date, I start to get worried. It just makes me feel much more comfortable with confirmation.

Chloe

have to agree with you here. i almost allways book a few days in advance but a confirmation when i get booked in to my hotel is the norm. from the lady's point of view she is travelling (some times quite a way) to the hotel it is nice to know the guest is registered! and on my part i like to know the lady has not "forgotten" also think it is just common curtisy

 

[MissCroft]

i'd like to confirm my rimjob

lol.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

I know where you are. Can I just show up for some head games.