cold sores

popper123

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I have a cold sore on my lip. I want to know if these are contagious and so will they affect the other person when i kiss and daty. Thanks.

Oh yea, I had my first outcall. Is it normal to not have enough steam for a 2nd go around in a 1hr session? I'm in my twenties, so I didn't think it would be a problem. But apparently it was. Thanks again.
 
Why would you want to do daty when you have a exposed wound on your lips? Ever heard of AIDS? STD?
 
YES it is contagious, it is called herpes you dumb a$$.

Do us all a favour and stay away from kissing and DATY until it is WELL healed. :mad:
 
Even from past experience I know for a fact that they will always tell you even in a cancer/leukemia section in a hospital not to VISIT anyone undergoing cancer treatment or chemo therapy if you have any cold sores.
 
ok, cool. i'm glad i checked with you guys first.

btw, do you guys know if the coldsore medication they sell in drugstores actually work or are just money grabs? thanks again.
 
Get Abreva. It's available on the shelves at drugstores (used to be prescription only). Use it many times a day and it will clear up completely in a few days. My best friend has cronic cold sores, and it seems to work like magic. Can't really attest for myself, as I've never had them. Good luck!
 
when you feel the tingling on your lips just prior to a cold sore apply Zovirax.I have lived with my s/o for 24 yrs,she has the herpes simplex virus,we do not try and do anything oral while she has a cold sore,but after 24 yrs we know we have slipped up,law of averages.I do not show have any signs of the virus,so unless you can be just a carrier,which would not be a threat as it is transfered by contact,I do not have it.
 
This is why this industry has scared me the last several months. I've been reading on this board about how little some people know about STD's and transmission, etc..., especially newbies, both ladies and guys. I would bet that there are many, many hobbiests and ladies seeing eachother now that have some sort of STD and don't even know it as many do not show symptoms but they are carriers. I cringe when anyone even thinking about having oral or unprotected sex with an open sore of any kind.


This should be a no brainer, no one should ever, ever have oral or unprotected sex with an open cut, sore, lesion, etc. with anyone, including their SO's.



This hurts all of us as ladies see hobbiests that see other ladies, etc., everyone eventually is all connected if you're an active person in this hobby.
 
fun-guy said:
This is why this industry has scared me the last several months. I've been reading on this board about how little some people know about STD's and transmission, etc..., especially newbies, both ladies and guys. I would bet that there are many, many hobbiests and ladies seeing eachother now that have some sort of STD and don't even know it as many do not show symptoms but they are carriers. I cringe when anyone even thinking about having oral or unprotected sex with an open sore of any kind.


This should be a no brainer, no one should ever, ever have oral or unprotected sex with an open cut, sore, lesion, etc. with anyone, including their SO's.



This hurts all of us as ladies see hobbiests that see other ladies, etc., everyone eventually is all connected if you're an active person in this hobby.

Well said.
 
popper123 said:
I have a cold sore on my lip. I want to know if these are contagious and so will they affect the other person when i kiss and daty. Thanks.

Oh yea, I had my first outcall. Is it normal to not have enough steam for a 2nd go around in a 1hr session? I'm in my twenties, so I didn't think it would be a problem. But apparently it was. Thanks again.

I noted that popper123 joined in August, 2004, and didn't post until this month. The advice given about herpes simplex is informative to all, but the naiveté about his contagion may just be fear mongering. I think he's the Antishill.
 
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I do get cold sores from time to time and always make sure to refrain from seeing any SP's until it is completely gone. Maybe I'm naive, but I always assumed that I wouldn't be seen if I showed up for a session with a sore on my lip.
 
cold sore prevention

There is a new product available at Shoppers Drug Mart called Intercept I believe It was featured in there flyer last week and will be in this weeks flyer as well.Once you get the tingling sensation and apply it to the area it prevents the break out.Little pricey but it works.My lady use to get them quite often but no more.Secret is catching it when you get the tingly sensation if you do it will prevent it
 
There are a lot of things that can bring on a coldsore, but think back and ask yourself if you usually get a coldsore just prior to getting a cold/flu. If the answer is yes, you might want to stay away from SPs for a few days just to be sure.

It's extremely unlikely that there are any SPs or hobbyists here who haven't been amply exposed -- but not everyone manifests symptoms. I've never had a cold sore, and to the best of my knowledge, no one in my immediate family ever has.

Still, if you have a cold sore, there's a good chance your body is wrestling with some other virus that hasn't shown up yet. You can be contagious with a cold/flu up to two days before the onset of symptoms. Since we don't get paid sick days, we very much appreciate your consideration!

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