Clients who refuse to shower before a session begins
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First of all, I truly wonder what these men get out of it?! Is there such thing as a 'cheese dick' fetish? ...Ewww... hahahaha...
Secondly, these men will never receive their moneys worth (for a lack of a better term!)
Whoever they are, they would be smart to enjoy a woman's presence and her skills, fully!
CIAO
Lyra Hamilton ---- Based in Toronto---A well traveled independent girl and more...
Secondly, these men will never receive their moneys worth (for a lack of a better term!)
Whoever they are, they would be smart to enjoy a woman's presence and her skills, fully!
CIAO
Lyra Hamilton ---- Based in Toronto---A well traveled independent girl and more...
Of course it comes out of your time but you can't spare 5 minutes to get better mileage?
Don't 99% of SPs ask you to shower? SPs don't know that you have fresh/new socks and underwear and probably assume the worst to be on the safe side.
I agree all clients should shower it's show's respect, specially if the MPA ask the client. I remember this one time I went for a massage, when I got in the room it smelled so bad of BO that she tried to spay air freshener to cover it up and it didn't work. Would you stay if the room smelled bad ?
I could have written this post. When I see escorts at my home, I never ask them to shower. Occasionally one will, and that's ok, but there's been no inspection on my part.
I had never went to a incall only outcall service for me.I like to be in control of my cleaning facilities myself.
After it happened to me a couple times, I found a way to deal with this which seems to work well (at least in my experience).
I don't actually present the shower as a choice ("Would you like to shower/freshen up?"). Instead, I offer the client a towel, and say something like "Let me get your shower started for you". I then proceed to start the shower, adjusting the water, and showing the client where he can hang his clothes up and where the toiletries are. I find that it adds an extra touch of care and pampering, with the added benefit that so far, nobody has ever argued with me about taking a shower when presented that way.
If a client asks me to take a shower on an outcall I would gladly do so. Even though I shower first before an outcall, it is polite to ensure he is comfortable by accepting his request. If they don't request I shower I excuse myself to the bathroom and freshen up there. There are a lot of good products out there in regards to feminine hygiene when on the run. Plus I carry a little Baggie with other toiletries so the client can be comfortable getting up close and personal with me.
I too shower before I leave to see an SP. Unless it is a sweltering day, I will tell the SP that I have showered at home, and 100% of the time that seems to work - never had any service issues.
I don't like to bring with an entire pharmacopia of soap, shampoo, cologne or deodorant, and the reason I prefer not to shower just after having one is that I don't like to use other products, and I don't like the fact that I likely wash away the deodorant as well.
Now, if I have been an hour without a shower, I will do it. And if I ever notice any service issues, I will do it too in the future. I will also do it if an SP insists, which has happened once or twice.
When I had just started to hobby, I remember how the first two SPs I visited asked if I would like a shower. Being very naive I simply assumed they were being very polite and sensitive to my needs. I unfortunately declined as I had done so earlier in the day. They were very good to me and did not insist. I regret that now. Ironically, now taking a shower before is important to me beyond the hygiene as it has become part of my routine, and allows for a very comfortable, relaxed way to get naked,and get busy. Listen to your mothers gentlemen, wash up and always wear clean underwear, because you may never know where your day may take you.
To be honest, I can't think of the last one to even suggest it. I'm usually extremely well dressed and groomed. I don't look dirty and certainly don't have cheese dick.
On the topic of the post shower, I used to see a great SP who used to jump in the shower afterwards. That was so hot imo. When she took that off the menu with her clients, for some reason, I stopped seeing her.
Obviously, if it's so long since the guy washed/showered that he smells, that's too much.
But I think the main requirement is that the lady should shower. If the chap asks her to join him in the shower, and she says "No, I don't like to get my hair wet," or some such, that means she hasn't showered all day. And she's seen e.g three or four guys before she got to you.
IMO, the courtesy thing -- "I shower so she knows I'm clean" -- applies a lot more to the lady showing the guy she's clean than the other way round.
It's legit that she doesn't want to get her hair wet. Still, it's up to her to convince the chap that she's clean.
But I think the main requirement is that the lady should shower. If the chap asks her to join him in the shower, and she says "No, I don't like to get my hair wet," or some such, that means she hasn't showered all day. And she's seen e.g three or four guys before she got to you.
IMO, the courtesy thing -- "I shower so she knows I'm clean" -- applies a lot more to the lady showing the guy she's clean than the other way round.
It's legit that she doesn't want to get her hair wet. Still, it's up to her to convince the chap that she's clean.
I do as well, but if an SP still wants you to shower again at her place when you arrive, will you still shower? I always do, makes for a more comfortable and trusting session rather than plead with her that I already showered 30 minutes ago and not necessary to do it again.
