Clients, what makes a booking experience better?

[KatrinnaHendrix]

Hi folks,
Just coming on here to ask some questions regarding a booking. The attention to detail, ways to make you feel special before, during, after. I mean hell yeah you're going to a sexy person for good times but just the other aspects of it too. I threw some of my tid bits of things I incorporate into sessions also

1. Asking you questions such as are you allergic to scents, latex?
(I always use mens deodorant anyways for discreet reasons for many. I ask before hand if I can put on a fave perfume to feel sexy)
2. Do you get nervous arriving or during a session ? Is there some thing that helps you ? Would luring you to the bed or table help, certain music ? Fresh ice water ?
(I do my sessions sober and prefer my dates do too or limit a drink or their pine tree usage outside lol)
3. Noise, lighting, scent...setting the mood. What helps to create the best getaway and be in the current with a worker(s)
4. Initiating - do you feel taken care of when the worker goes in for a hug, sometimes a kiss(or asks you first that always feels nice for some) gentle grabs into you or into the bed/table. Or initiating any other details
5. Sending off. A goodbye hug, warm embrace. Do you prefer no text after or a text to make it feel like the worker is good to see you again ? Do you wait a bit ? For discreet reasons I'd only message few min after to get home safely so it can be deleted.

Would appreciate to see your comments & thoughts
Warm regards on this chilly evening
Katrinna

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

For me personally, the welcome kiss, initiating, send off and yes a text after because I usually text a thank you note.
And of course prompt response to an enquiry.

 

[Curiousguy4l]

Hi folks,
Just coming on here to ask some questions regarding a booking. The attention to detail, ways to make you feel special before, during, after. I mean hell yeah you're going to a sexy person for good times but just the other aspects of it too. I threw some of my tid bits of things I incorporate into sessions also

1. Asking you questions such as are you allergic to scents, latex?
(I always use mens deodorant anyways for discreet reasons for many. I ask before hand if I can put on a fave perfume to feel sexy)
2. Do you get nervous arriving or during a session ? Is there some thing that helps you ? Would luring you to the bed or table help, certain music ? Fresh ice water ?
(I do my sessions sober and prefer my dates do too or limit a drink or their pine tree usage outside lol)
3. Noise, lighting, scent...setting the mood. What helps to create the best getaway and be in the current with a worker(s)
4. Initiating - do you feel taken care of when the worker goes in for a hug, sometimes a kiss(or asks you first that always feels nice for some) gentle grabs into you or into the bed/table. Or initiating any other details
5. Sending off. A goodbye hug, warm embrace. Do you prefer no text after or a text to make it feel like the worker is good to see you again ? Do you wait a bit ? For discreet reasons I'd only message few min after to get home safely so it can be deleted.

Would appreciate to see your comments & thoughts
Warm regards on this chilly evening
Katrinna

I have limited experience, but all of the above seems like an amazing time. The person I see always greats me at the door with multiple hugs and kisses, I was a nervous wreck at the beginning and now it’s like seeing a friend, we chat then hug and kiss again until it’s time to move to the bedroom. It’s an amazing experience from beginning to end, which once again includes hugs and kisses as I’m leaving, she makes it an entire experience GFE to the max which I find awesome. Some may not be into that kind of experience, she’s told me
some horror stories, not everyone is looking for the same experience. I’ve been lucky in my limited encounters, most have been a fantastic experience and encounter, most lol. Scents and sounds sets the mood for sure, the beginning and end makes the experience one to remember and you wanting it again and again.

 

[Sonic Temple]

All great suggestions, for me its a simple smile followed by a sensual kiss. I know this can be hard to do because you have just met the person, but if you can pull off a feeling of you wanting us - that is golden . I wouldn't change any of your top 5.

 

[2beornot2be]

In my case, everything happens in the first minutes. I think chemistry happens naturally and is very easy to detect early. Being greeted like you greet a friend, the small talk at the beginning, the compatibility of your desires all comes into play at the very beginning. I can tell in the first minutes if it’s going to be a repeat or not.

I can understand where you’re coming from. It’s impossible to please everyone. I think you have to make it so you’re comfortable. If you’re comfortable and zen, it’s half the battle. I respect women a lot and even though it’s my approach to setup a meeting and my financial contribution, I always put the women first. Every gentlemen understands that.

I think most men are very simple minded. If you’re happy, that’s all that matters.

P.S- Yes, music is always nice

 

[Kusa]

An inviting welcome sets the tone and mood more than anything else.

It breaks the awkwardness, anxiety and easily establishes/makes uncomfortable discussions more manageable.

 

[Jimmy_Jones]

Quick response in text initially. i know a booker is required so girls arent disturbed during a session and thats ok in my books. the ability to be ready or almost ready at the scheduled time is a plus. but i know there can be a lot of bookings that dont show up leaving you stranded. first come first served has to be the moto but nobody likes that. the client has to have patience and i do. i like a friendly and open person to spend time with but others might like a more edgy girl. being able to connect is the biggest plus with no strings attached.

 

[ShenaniganD]

Interesting question, I agree with the comments above and my thoughts are always on whoever I’m meeting more than myself as my goal is for her to be into being with me as if someone is standoffish I find that to be a bit turn off, for that reason I typically live to follow the providers lead. Thinking about my encounters and where my anxieties come from, I’ll add the following:
1) clear instructions on where best to park is a big one and how to communicate once I’ve arrived is a big stress reliever for me.
2) shower requirements, if you prefer I shower upon arrival I’m glad to do so, but again I just like to know the expectation.
3) this is a touchy subject I know as so much is YMMV, but hard limits should be know to help with expectations.
4) on the departure side, I think a follow up text is important. I personally like to send a thank you note as I truly do appreciate your time and effort, but if I don’t get any response, I assume it to mean you didn’t feel a connection and I’ll never reach out again. I can say that everyone I felt we connected well responded except one and the few that I wasn’t sure about didn’t respond. I don’t think I’m wrong here but who knows.

this is all of course for first meetings

 

[ArgoHater]

Hi folks,
Just coming on here to ask some questions regarding a booking. The attention to detail, ways to make you feel special before, during, after. I mean hell yeah you're going to a sexy person for good times but just the other aspects of it too. I threw some of my tid bits of things I incorporate into sessions also

1. Asking you questions such as are you allergic to scents, latex?
(I always use mens deodorant anyways for discreet reasons for many. I ask before hand if I can put on a fave perfume to feel sexy)
I prefer as unscented as possible, for discretion reasons. Men's deodorant/antiperspirant is an excellent idea. I prefer to smell YOU and all those lovely pheromones being unmasked.
2. Do you get nervous arriving or during a session ? Is there some thing that helps you ? Would luring you to the bed or table help, certain music ? Fresh ice water ?
(I do my sessions sober and prefer my dates do too or limit a drink or their pine tree usage outside lol)
3. Noise, lighting, scent...setting the mood. What helps to create the best getaway and be in the current with a worker(s)
This answers both questions. I am usually pretty nervous when meeting someone for the first time (and even second time), so some low background music (trance, trip-hop, retro 90s, etc), lowered lighting (LED mood lighting, candles, etc), a glass/bottle of water (nervousness makes me thirsty... lol). I really like the idea of being lured to the bed/chair/table.
4. Initiating - do you feel taken care of when the worker goes in for a hug, sometimes a kiss(or asks you first that always feels nice for some) gentle grabs into you or into the bed/table. Or initiating any other details
I can only speak for myself, but a welcoming embrace and kiss would certainly help alleviate some of the nervousness. I also like it when my partner initiates things, because it's the opposite for my IRL relationship. It also shows how in-tune we are.
5. Sending off. A goodbye hug, warm embrace. Do you prefer no text after or a text to make it feel like the worker is good to see you again ? Do you wait a bit ? For discreet reasons I'd only message few min after to get home safely so it can be deleted.
Helping your client into his/her clothing/footwear/outerwear, a warm embrace and a goodbye kiss would feel awesome. I prefer to email/text when I make it home to thank you and let you know that I made it safely. I keep my phone on silent, but others need the alerts, so a late reply -could- be problematic. This is something to discuss with your clients.

Would appreciate to see your comments & thoughts
Warm regards on this chilly evening
Katrinna

Answers are in red above.

1. Room temperature. We are likely to both be naked, so a 15*C room wouldn't be the best idea. Also, we will (hopefully) work up a bit of a sweat, so a 30*C room wouldn't be a good idea either.
2. Toiletries. While I always shower and scrub before an appointment, I still have to travel to your location, and a quick shower should be available. Some Ivory body wash, mouthwash, toothpaste and disposable toothbrush, fresh towels (big ones too, some people have more square-yardage then others... lol),
3. For me, please no extra scents, like scented candles, incense, etc.
4. A dedicated place for coats, shoes, and clothing. I dislike having to find a place for my stuff. A chair in the bedroom would be a good idea.
5. The availability of a quick shower afterwards.
6. The offer of a bottle of water for the road.

 

[TigerFlex5]

Little details are always appreciated.
Music already set
Welcome hugs and kiss, taking care of, I like to be slowly and sensually undress by the girl.
Shower for 2, a great icebreaker.
A great time
And yes, later, a nice little text feels nice.

Luv it...

 

[William St]

Hi folks,
Just coming on here to ask some questions regarding a booking. The attention to detail, ways to make you feel special before, during, after. I mean hell yeah you're going to a sexy person for good times but just the other aspects of it too. I threw some of my tid bits of things I incorporate into sessions also

1. Asking you questions such as are you allergic to scents, latex?
(I always use mens deodorant anyways for discreet reasons for many. I ask before hand if I can put on a fave perfume to feel sexy)
2. Do you get nervous arriving or during a session ? Is there some thing that helps you ? Would luring you to the bed or table help, certain music ? Fresh ice water ?
(I do my sessions sober and prefer my dates do too or limit a drink or their pine tree usage outside lol)
3. Noise, lighting, scent...setting the mood. What helps to create the best getaway and be in the current with a worker(s)
4. Initiating - do you feel taken care of when the worker goes in for a hug, sometimes a kiss(or asks you first that always feels nice for some) gentle grabs into you or into the bed/table. Or initiating any other details
5. Sending off. A goodbye hug, warm embrace. Do you prefer no text after or a text to make it feel like the worker is good to see you again ? Do you wait a bit ? For discreet reasons I'd only message few min after to get home safely so it can be deleted.

Would appreciate to see your comments & thoughts
Warm regards on this chilly evening
Katrinna

These are all superb questions that only a classy and experienced sp would even think of asking. All calculated to ease and enrich the client's experience. I would add to this: timely, responsive and patient replies to texting (or other communications if preferred). Many clients like to get a good idea how the session will go and how open the sp is to our preferences. This usually requires some patient communication. I really can't stand sp who advise you, even in their advertising, "Don't text until you're ready to make an appointment." Translate: "You are rubbish. I can't be bothered texting you because I'm not interested in you, only your dollars. Any texts from you waste my time." I give such women a wide pass, very wide indeed. We are not all wham, bam, thank you ma'am out here.

 

[William St]

In my case, everything happens in the first minutes. I think chemistry happens naturally and is very easy to detect early. Being greeted like you greet a friend, the small talk at the beginning, the compatibility of your desires all comes into play at the very beginning. I can tell in the first minutes if it’s going to be a repeat or not.

I can understand where you’re coming from. It’s impossible to please everyone. I think you have to make it so you’re comfortable. If you’re comfortable and zen, it’s half the battle. I respect women a lot and even though it’s my approach to setup a meeting and my financial contribution, I always put the women first. Every gentlemen understands that.

I think most men are very simple minded. If you’re happy, that’s all that matters.

P.S- Yes, music is always nice

Agree, the first minute sets the tone of the whole session.

 

[Liam011]

For some reason, I'm always blown away when the SP remembers my preferences, stuff about me or things we talked about. I mean... she does see a "lot" (ymmv) of people. IMHO, those SPs tend to always be the better experience and are definitely the ones I repeat with.

It's a customer service job. Some will be better at it/take it more seriously than others. Just like I have my favorite bartenders.
Those bartenders and SPs end up with a LOT of my money...

 

[KatrinnaHendrix]

For some reason, I'm always blown away when the SP remembers my preferences, stuff about me or things we talked about. I mean... she does see a "lot" (ymmv) of people. IMHO, those SPs tend to always be the better experience and are definitely the ones I repeat with.

It's a customer service job. Some will be better at it/take it more seriously than others. Just like I have my favorite bartenders.
Those bartenders and SPs end up with a LOT of my money...

Good to know thank you.
I have also have been a bartender and my big boob's never fit the uniform and pop a button per shift so yes lots of that sweet moolah

 

[boomboom]

most of these are for 1st time meeting, some can & should change if you are a regular
some great points already made
clear notes on parking options depending on where you are, if at a house, which door to come to, where elevators are so you look like you know where you are going if at a hotel or high rise.
1st 2 mins can really break the ice & set the both.... same for both him & her. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
True full hug, not a grope & not a 2 hands on shoulders & lean in for chests to slightly touch again from both sides & nice kiss
place for coat & footwear + a spot to hang my clothes or lay on in or near where I'm unrobing
clean bathroom with an empty garbage can as well, with fresh towels & min 2 options for soap for me to use.
offer what you promised or advt., yes some things are YMMV for various reasons.
If I'm doing something really well, tell me or point out what really feels good on you.
Several times, the SP had warm moist face cloths to clean up with for us both. 3 x Sps even had these in a towel warmer or crock pot on warm or went to bathroom to get them moist & warmed up. Never offer kleenix or papertowel. Baby wipe as a min, bonus points for preheated ones, again in a crock pot on warm.
never look at your cell or laptop while i'm in the room
Let me know if you are setting a timer & offer a 10min warning timer & end of session if needed.
dont use the term Babe in messages

I think I've covered my thoughts

Boom

 

[csmitting]

Avoid anything scented. Is a good policy.

 

[BeastKingGoLion]

most of these are for 1st time meeting, some can & should change if you are a regular
some great points already made
clear notes on parking options depending on where you are, if at a house, which door to come to, where elevators are so you look like you know where you are going if at a hotel or high rise.
1st 2 mins can really break the ice & set the both.... same for both him & her. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
True full hug, not a grope & not a 2 hands on shoulders & lean in for chests to slightly touch again from both sides & nice kiss
place for coat & footwear + a spot to hang my clothes or lay on in or near where I'm unrobing
clean bathroom with an empty garbage can as well, with fresh towels & min 2 options for soap for me to use.
offer what you promised or advt., yes some things are YMMV for various reasons.
If I'm doing something really well, tell me or point out what really feels good on you.
Several times, the SP had warm moist face cloths to clean up with for us both. 3 x Sps even had these in a towel warmer or crock pot on warm or went to bathroom to get them moist & warmed up. Never offer kleenix or papertowel. Baby wipe as a min, bonus points for preheated ones, again in a crock pot on warm.
never look at your cell or laptop while i'm in the room
Let me know if you are setting a timer & offer a 10min warning timer & end of session if needed.
dont use the term Babe in messages

I think I've covered my thoughts

Boom

This is nothing if not precise. Pre-warmed wipes or crock pot on warm?!? This must only be the higher end?

 

[BeastKingGoLion]

In my case, everything happens in the first minutes. I think chemistry happens naturally and is very easy to detect early. Being greeted like you greet a friend, the small talk at the beginning, the compatibility of your desires all comes into play at the very beginning. I can tell in the first minutes if it’s going to be a repeat or not.

I can understand where you’re coming from. It’s impossible to please everyone. I think you have to make it so you’re comfortable. If you’re comfortable and zen, it’s half the battle. I respect women a lot and even though it’s my approach to setup a meeting and my financial contribution, I always put the women first. Every gentlemen understands that.

I think most men are very simple minded. If you’re happy, that’s all that matters.

P.S- Yes, music is always nice

I like this sentiment so instead of trying to top it I’ll just rip it off to remain strong (credit American History X) but will add a touch that resonated. A provider actually communicated by voice memo instead of just texting. This provider took info from text intro and sent back a memo introducing herself and everything. Now that resonated

 

[boomboom]

This is nothing if not precise. Pre-warmed wipes or crock pot on warm?!? This must only be the higher end?

High classy ladies but at a resemble donation