I've known Cindy for some time, though very much on and off. She hasn't had the easiest life and yes, alcohol is a factor.
I've been off the boards for some time but I am sad to return and see this. You should keep in mind what Cowboy Kenny and Jason had to say about her. She's a real person and it's unfortunate if her demons are running the show right now.
Sometimes its good to keep in mind that women bend but they don't break as easily as men. I have chatted with the guy who ran the male strip club in Hull years ago and he said that many of the male dancers (and remember, this was before $20 dances) melted down inside 3-6 months. Women usually take much, much longer before it get so them.
I understand no one wants to be stood up but chill out and don't take it like a judgment. Its like getting cut off in traffic for no reason. Hell, it's not like these girls are checking out groceries at Loblaws, for chrissake.
I sincerely hope she snaps back and gets her head together soon.
Peace.