CIM Etiquette???

[luv4lust]

..I couldnt keep it secret if I tried! In any event, I rarely get that far.

Main etiquette issue- head holding, or even touching for that matter. Women are VERY 'touchy' about this (justifiably) so clear understanding in advance is very important.

that applies to some women

 

[Lou Siffer]

I have to hold her head because if my hands are free I start clapping uncontrollably from the enjoyment. This can be distracting to the Ladies .

Thanks, Smylee. My day just got so much better than it was 5 minutes ago.

 

[viciouscycle]

I always say "it's coming..." like I'm not the one that's doing it to her

 

[Dick Starbuck]

I have to hold her head because if my hands are free I start clapping uncontrollably from the enjoyment. This can be distracting to the Ladies .

That's a good one, dude. Thanks!!

 

[Catherine]

I know it's a bit of a different take....

I don't allow CIM, and most clients know this from my website, however, the most common response i get when my client is about to 'u know' is a gesture. Weither it's a nod if im looking it him, or a movement away (if only slightly, lol) or a tap (gently of course!) on my shoulder, arm, etc. I agree with Amber that an experienced sp knows (and usually I do with my regs.) but sometimes it's hard to know a new client. Also the good thing about 'gestures' is they can also let me know to stop if they are not ready to cum yet. I don't find this method intrusive (after all I'm doing an already very intrusive bbbj, lol) Actually it's on the contrary, I find this method rather helpful. Of course a slap on the arm IS NOT COOL, use ur common sense here, guys! Of coursed for the guys NOT capable of common sense will get a chew out, as well they will never see me again. Hense why my BBBJ is YMMV, but CBJ is garrenteed(sp?)

Anyways, JM2Cs

kisses and cuddles

Katerina
xoxoxoxo

 

[goalie000]

I always give a warning and Let the Lady decide.

 

[Catherine]

I have to hold her head because if my hands are free I start clapping uncontrollably from the enjoyment. This can be distracting to the Ladies .

I actually knew a client like that (except instead of excessive hand clapping it was excessive head shaking (like he was saying no) whenever he came...) lol!!! that was hilarious! I SERIOUSLY had to bit my lip not to laugh!!!

ps... That could be a new topic... ur 'funny expressions/actions when u orgasim'... lol

kat

 

[frankcastle]

I'm with Becks on this one. Declare your intentions and let her make the choice. Sorry I'm chuckling to myself thinking about the episode of the Office where Micheal Scott declares bankruptcy.

 

[Lustology]

oh....oh....OOPS!....sorry.

lol i did that once, she ran for dear life to the closest sink

 

[cypherpunk]

Is it generally acceptable with civilian girls to just get more vocal?

 

[viciouscycle]

lol i did that once, she ran for dear life to the closest sink

I think for some women that happens no matter if you let them know you're coming or not. They don't like the taste and they'll run to the nearest sink/toilet like their hair's on fire....