How many of you get Christmas (or any other holiday) cards from your SPs? I got a slightly disturbing call from a retired SP that I still see regularly asking for my home address. At first I was hesitant, but then realized that it's on Canada411 anyway, so I gave it to her.
Cards from your SP
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Any Christmas cards I get from my favourite SP's are of the musical variety. While giving me a sloppy BJ... they hum the 12 Days of Christmas. 
and for her to look up your name and address on Canada411 means she knows your real full name? YIKES!!!!! is there really any reason for sharing this with your SP?
Jade4u
It's been good to know ya
I've had guys have my entire address to mail things to me ie... cd's with pics of our encounters. But... I see no reason to have a mans address if I wanted to give him something for Christmas I would give him a liquor filled chocolate or a candy cane. The odds of giving him a card and him having to trash it once he left would be too high. Who can honestly remeber which man is single and is not?
Id not be comfortable with an SP having my cell/home number either. I understand in some cases they want it for a call back and for security reasons but id not see anyone that i have to give that much info too. I respect their reasons and i have no wrong intentions for not giving it to one but Im not comfortable giving it out. remember an SP that got busted and she had a computer listing of her clients names addresses and phone numbers home/work/cell? They were getting calls at work and home re: their actions. Sorry not getting involved in that!
I don't have a GF or SO, so no worries there.Edifice said:What if your GF/SO reads it? What do you say?
I received a Christmas card from an SP last year. She gave it to me on one of her visits. It was rather unexpected but a nice surprise, especially as it was accompanied by a little sex toy. I'm sure it didn't cost much but it was quite thoughtful. If she had asked for my address to send it to me, I wouldn't have hesitated as we had a good rapport.
Did she ask for your address for the express purpose of sending a card? I think you could generally tell if they're sincere about it.
Did she ask for your address for the express purpose of sending a card? I think you could generally tell if they're sincere about it.
t8rs said:
Yes, she she said she wanted to send me a xmas card when she called and asked for the address. I hesitated a bit at first as she said, 'don't worry, I'm not going to stalk you or anything.' After thinking about it, I gave it to her.
NeeditWantit said:
famous last words...yikes dude! Glen Close seemed nice enough at the beginning of the movie too..lol
yikes????
You mean you are disturbed by a female who shares intimate time with you and would like to share a gesture of humanity and kindness,as some form of negativity???? wow, I know this particular enviroment is not very positive, but my god, what is this world coming too..... a simple kind gesture gets literally dragged through the most horrific conditions on here, unbelievable...... consider yourself lucky my friend, that you actually have someone in your life that would take the time to even think you in such a positive way to send you a bloody card in the first place, she sounds like a very genuine person.... and that is all... things in life sometimes can actually be just that simple without taking it to such extreme levels....
The only thing disturbing about getting asked for your address to send a card, is that you actually find it disturbing.........
A little faith and hope in people would really benefit you needitwantit, you chose your name perfectly, but what you need a little belief that not everybody is some sort of freak............
You mean you are disturbed by a female who shares intimate time with you and would like to share a gesture of humanity and kindness,as some form of negativity???? wow, I know this particular enviroment is not very positive, but my god, what is this world coming too..... a simple kind gesture gets literally dragged through the most horrific conditions on here, unbelievable...... consider yourself lucky my friend, that you actually have someone in your life that would take the time to even think you in such a positive way to send you a bloody card in the first place, she sounds like a very genuine person.... and that is all... things in life sometimes can actually be just that simple without taking it to such extreme levels....
The only thing disturbing about getting asked for your address to send a card, is that you actually find it disturbing.........
A little faith and hope in people would really benefit you needitwantit, you chose your name perfectly, but what you need a little belief that not everybody is some sort of freak............
yikes????
You mean you are disturbed by a female who shares intimate time with you and would like to share a gesture of humanity and kindness,as some form of negativity???? wow, I know this particular enviroment is not very positive, but my god, what is this world coming too..... a simple kind gesture gets literally dragged through the most horrific conditions on here, unbelievable...... consider yourself lucky my friend, that you actually have someone in your life that would take the time to even think of you in such a positive way to send you a bloody card in the first place, she sounds like a very genuine person.... and that is all... things in life sometimes can actually be just that simple without taking it to such extreme levels....
The only thing disturbing about getting asked for your address to send a card, is that you actually find it disturbing.........
A little faith and hope in people would really benefit you needitwantit, you chose your name perfectly, but what you need is a little belief that not everybody is some sort of freak............
You mean you are disturbed by a female who shares intimate time with you and would like to share a gesture of humanity and kindness,as some form of negativity???? wow, I know this particular enviroment is not very positive, but my god, what is this world coming too..... a simple kind gesture gets literally dragged through the most horrific conditions on here, unbelievable...... consider yourself lucky my friend, that you actually have someone in your life that would take the time to even think of you in such a positive way to send you a bloody card in the first place, she sounds like a very genuine person.... and that is all... things in life sometimes can actually be just that simple without taking it to such extreme levels....
The only thing disturbing about getting asked for your address to send a card, is that you actually find it disturbing.........
A little faith and hope in people would really benefit you needitwantit, you chose your name perfectly, but what you need is a little belief that not everybody is some sort of freak............
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Hung Up said:
ahhhhh thats so sweet! but its time to get real and know what the hell is going on here. There is nothing wrong with sharing a card/gift/whatever but there is some possible conflict in giving an SP your home address or phone number. Its happened in the past and will happen in the future. Im not even talking about malicious behaviour by an SP, just dumb luck that someone found the clients info and used it (SP's boy friend, LE list goes on) As i said there is nothing wrong with sharing tokens of appreciation but you dont have to put yourself in a potentially bad situation for no reason. So dont go getting all romantic on me and telling me im an idiot for not appreciating them. I do for who they are and what they provide, human beings and an amazing time. NOT my GF or anyone that needs to get ahold of me at home by phone or mail
real world??? is it here on terb??
I actually finally do live in the real world, it took a little while, that is for sure, and just a little peek every now and then here on terb, comforts me in knowing I have left such a negative exisitence behind, so it has actually become a talisman of sorts," look and see where you were," look and see how your life became so lonely and empty. We choose our reality, we choose what our world will be and what we would like to create in it, you live in yours, I will live in mine, I was just trying to defend the girl who wanted to send a lovely gesture, and ahhhhh yes so sweet, and I know that it was meant as that, as it was stated she is retired somewhat and really I am sure enjoys the company of that particuler male, and likes to continue seeing him.....
This whole scenario brings up a very special meaning to me, and I would love to share it with you......
A year ago, I met a client, who completely blew my mind..... wow, I was absolutely freaked out, "how could I possibly be so attracted to a client", I mean isn't it the number one rule not to do?????
I went to his home for an outcall which at the time did not even provide as I only offered incalls...... so happy to be there, so happy to see him.... we kissed, and it was so tender and so real, I felt as though I had somehow managed to see his soul, and I felt so special,as I was convinced that there was never anyone else who found this treasure......the time is up, he stands to hand me the money, I refuse. I mean how could I have accepted????? I was there as myself, not the service provider but as myself..... I left and felt so elated but at the same time a little odd, "had I just paid for emotion?", all of the negativity started to flood in and I mean flood.......but I would still come back to the same spot, and that was he was truly a beautiful person, just so damaged, and so armoured by the collosal shell he keeps himself in, he taught me some of the greatest lessons in my life, he allowed me to see what could happen to you, when you no longer believe in emotion, believe in faith, and genuinity....and the sad part is he doesn't even know how he affected my life.... A year ago I was him on a much more gentle level of course but I was him...... the woman and men that share this particular enviroment and life style have so much in common it is incredible... that is if you want to see the truth for what it is....
So I am asking you to remember that this stigma you attach to the woman of the this trade can be very hard to shake... I remember calling my friend (client) two times in one day,as he asked me to call him back, and I remember saying, "hi this is your friendly neighborhood stalker," and realized if I actually am saying this, this guy is actually thinking this....I would never ever have said that to anybody else let alone think it.....
Be kind to each other you guy's, were all on the same train, just different compartments, as much as you males protect, so do the females, but really and truly in a lot of cases it is completely uncalled for.... I feel very happy that I have had a place to put this.........
And to whoever you are, girl with the card, never stop sending your cards, and do not let people ever try to turn your genuinity into something negative.......
Peace in and Peace out.....
I actually finally do live in the real world, it took a little while, that is for sure, and just a little peek every now and then here on terb, comforts me in knowing I have left such a negative exisitence behind, so it has actually become a talisman of sorts," look and see where you were," look and see how your life became so lonely and empty. We choose our reality, we choose what our world will be and what we would like to create in it, you live in yours, I will live in mine, I was just trying to defend the girl who wanted to send a lovely gesture, and ahhhhh yes so sweet, and I know that it was meant as that, as it was stated she is retired somewhat and really I am sure enjoys the company of that particuler male, and likes to continue seeing him.....
This whole scenario brings up a very special meaning to me, and I would love to share it with you......
A year ago, I met a client, who completely blew my mind..... wow, I was absolutely freaked out, "how could I possibly be so attracted to a client", I mean isn't it the number one rule not to do?????
I went to his home for an outcall which at the time did not even provide as I only offered incalls...... so happy to be there, so happy to see him.... we kissed, and it was so tender and so real, I felt as though I had somehow managed to see his soul, and I felt so special,as I was convinced that there was never anyone else who found this treasure......the time is up, he stands to hand me the money, I refuse. I mean how could I have accepted????? I was there as myself, not the service provider but as myself..... I left and felt so elated but at the same time a little odd, "had I just paid for emotion?", all of the negativity started to flood in and I mean flood.......but I would still come back to the same spot, and that was he was truly a beautiful person, just so damaged, and so armoured by the collosal shell he keeps himself in, he taught me some of the greatest lessons in my life, he allowed me to see what could happen to you, when you no longer believe in emotion, believe in faith, and genuinity....and the sad part is he doesn't even know how he affected my life.... A year ago I was him on a much more gentle level of course but I was him...... the woman and men that share this particular enviroment and life style have so much in common it is incredible... that is if you want to see the truth for what it is....
So I am asking you to remember that this stigma you attach to the woman of the this trade can be very hard to shake... I remember calling my friend (client) two times in one day,as he asked me to call him back, and I remember saying, "hi this is your friendly neighborhood stalker," and realized if I actually am saying this, this guy is actually thinking this....I would never ever have said that to anybody else let alone think it.....
Be kind to each other you guy's, were all on the same train, just different compartments, as much as you males protect, so do the females, but really and truly in a lot of cases it is completely uncalled for.... I feel very happy that I have had a place to put this.........
And to whoever you are, girl with the card, never stop sending your cards, and do not let people ever try to turn your genuinity into something negative.......
Peace in and Peace out.....
Hung Up said:I actually finally do live in the real world, it took a little while, that is for sure, and just a little peek every now and then here on terb, comforts me in knowing I have left such a negative exisitence behind, so it has actually become a talisman of sorts," look and see where you were," look and see how your life became so lonely and empty. We choose our reality, we choose what our world will be and what we would like to create in it, you live in yours, I will live in mine, I was just trying to defend the girl who wanted to send a lovely gesture, and ahhhhh yes so sweet, and I know that it was meant as that, as it was stated she is retired somewhat and really I am sure enjoys the company of that particuler male, and likes to continue seeing him.....
This whole scenario brings up a very special meaning to me, and I would love to share it with you......
A year ago, I met a client, who completely blew my mind..... wow, I was absolutely freaked out, "how could I possibly be so attracted to a client", I mean isn't it the number one rule not to do?????
I went to his home for an outcall which at the time did not even provide as I only offered incalls...... so happy to be there, so happy to see him.... we kissed, and it was so tender and so real, I felt as though I had somehow managed to see his soul, and I felt so special,as I was convinced that there was never anyone else who found this treasure......the time is up, he stands to hand me the money, I refuse. I mean how could I have accepted????? I was there as myself, not the service provider but as myself..... I left and felt so elated but at the same time a little odd, "had I just paid for emotion?", all of the negativity started to flood in and I mean flood.......but I would still come back to the same spot, and that was he was truly a beautiful person, just so damaged, and so armoured by the collosal shell he keeps himself in, he taught me some of the greatest lessons in my life, he allowed me to see what could happen to you, when you no longer believe in emotion, believe in faith, and genuinity....and the sad part is he doesn't even know how he affected my life.... A year ago I was him on a much more gentle level of course but I was him...... the woman and men that share this particular enviroment and life style have so much in common it is incredible... that is if you want to see the truth for what it is....
So I am asking you to remember that this stigma you attach to the woman of the this trade can be very hard to shake... I remember calling my friend (client) two times in one day,as he asked me to call him back, and I remember saying, "hi this is your friendly neighborhood stalker," and realized if I actually am saying this, this guy is actually thinking this....I would never ever have said that to anybody else let alone think it.....
Be kind to each other you guy's, were all on the same train, just different compartments, as much as you males protect, so do the females, but really and truly in a lot of cases it is completely uncalled for.... I feel very happy that I have had a place to put this.........
And to whoever you are, girl with the card, never stop sending your cards, and do not let people ever try to turn your genuinity into something negative.......
Peace in and Peace out.....
Terb is an escape and entertainment and to me so is the hobby. I also have a solid grasp on the real world and thusly want to protect it. Therefore I dont share this info. Its pretty simple really and you are totally missing my point. Im not saying its not a great and nice gesture and im not saying all ladies in the biz are like this. In a perfect world it would be great to assume all things are safe and that your discretion would be guarenteed. Id love to share a nice little story with you too but it is so nice and it almost ruined ALOT of peoples lives. Sure you take your chances but you can also take precautions such as not sharing personal info. I have no problem if two consenting adults share their info. Its not my biz, im saying Id never do it and i would not suggest any other guys do it either. However of course everyone is free to do as they wish. Many ladies here say its a biz and a fantasy and I think the "closeness" with clients is part of the package most of the time. Sure you can like a client and get along well with them of course and perhaps be "flooded with emotions" for one. But then it becomes BEYOND a SP/client relationship. If you dont know someone very well id never share my personal info willingly be it an SP or not. Enjoy
