Can't get hard

[george12111211]

With all this bull shit of infection going around, I had a meeting with a hot girl with a perfect body...

This is the 1st time i have seen a SP since the HIV post...

While in her lovely company i was not thinking of what the next position will be... All i kept thinking about is the previous post...

I will be honest,,, this has never happened before (not even while i was drunk), but i had a very difficult time getting hard... My mind was not on the actual sex, i was actually thinking about this post...

i am going to unofficially retire from this hobby...
I am 28 and i have been hobbying for over 10 years... Never had unprotected full service with anyone but had some experiences where the girl bleeds and it always becomes scary...

The official time will come after i get a chance to see Jolee...

i am sure i'll be around, but i promise not to post anymore... i will be a lurker...

Thanks...

I think i am too old for this bs...

 

[calloway]

Where have some of you guys been living for the past 10-20 years? Under a rock?

This issue has been out there for years and no one seemed to give a shit until now.

How does anyone know that there wasn't an infected SP/MPA out there long before this one?

The same people that were constantly on the prowl for BBBJ/BBBJCIM/BBBJCIMSW services are now all freaking out.

WTF were you thinking before this newspaper article?

Give your heads (both of them) a shake and realize everything in life is a risk. Don't be stupid... minimize your risks and go get checked at least twice a year.

And NO... I'm not taking this out on George specifically. It's all about the BS... the lack of facts and knowledge and of course all the stupid people out there.

 

[Tianjn]

Where have some of you guys been living for the past 10-20 years? Under a rock?

This issue has been out there for years and no one seemed to give a shit until now.

How does anyone know that there wasn't an infected SP/MPA out there long before this one?

The same people that were constantly on the prowl for BBBJ/BBBJCIM/BBBJCIMSW services are now all freaking out.

WTF were you thinking before this newspaper article?

Give your heads (both of them) a shake and realize everything in life is a risk. Don't be stupid... minimize your risks and go get checked at least twice a year.

And NO... I'm not taking this out on George specifically. It's all about the BS... the lack of facts and knowledge and of course all the stupid people out there.

I tend to agree with Calloway but if i said it then my first name would be banned lol. One point I would like to make though is that its easy for all of us to forget abut this nasty virus because we are too busy having fun. Every time we here of a case it then reminds us again so that's why all the panic now. Its just human nature, a normal thing for us to feel. Its like when you see those world vision commercials. You don't think about world hunger at all because you are too busy living your life. When you see the commercial
then you begin to really think. Just my thoughts.

 

[calloway]

I tend to agree with Calloway.

That's a scary thought...

 

[Cycleguy007]

Even a clock that has stopped working is correct twice a day... (Sorry I just couldn't resist!)

 

[Stalker]

Even a clock that has stopped working is correct twice a day... (Sorry I just couldn't resist!)

I was gonna say that.

 

[dickydoem]

There is currently a trial going on in Hamilton of Johnson Azinga who is charged with 2 counts of first degree murder and 11 counts of aggravated sexual assult. He is accused of infecting seven women with HIV, two who have since died and knowingly exposing 4 others by having unprotected sex with them and not telling them of his positive HIV status. None of the eleven women have been identified as sex workers. There was also a young woman charged earlier this year with having unprotected sex with partners she met in bars in Hamilton and Brantford and not telling those partners that she was HIV positive. And who knows how many these others had sex with as well.

So beware, it is just as possible to be exposed when having sex with a non sex worker as with one. Quitting the hobby may help reduce your odds, but the only totally safe sex is no sex at all.

 

[xyzz]

I wasnt thinking, i thought it was all just good fun and i would never get exposed to this shit. That crap only happens in the 3rd world right!!!!.....fuck was i wrong...... it happens in our backyard

 

[sizzzler]

There is currently a trial going on in Hamilton of Johnson Azinga who is charged with 2 counts of first degree murder and 11 counts of aggravated sexual assult. He is accused of infecting seven women with HIV, two who have since died and knowingly exposing 4 others by having unprotected sex with them and not telling them of his positive HIV status. None of the eleven women have been identified as sex workers. There was also a young woman charged earlier this year with having unprotected sex with partners she met in bars in Hamilton and Brantford and not telling those partners that she was HIV positive. And who knows how many these others had sex with as well.

So beware, it is just as possible to be exposed when having sex with a non sex worker as with one. Quitting the hobby may help reduce your odds, but the only totally safe sex is no sex at all.

I'm told that HIV is difficult for a man to get from a woman. There are many documented cases where a wife was infected, unknowingly, by blood transfusion and had unprotected sex with the husband for years without him getting it. Not so for a woman from a man though. Case and point this Johnson Azinga who's shots may as well have been bullets. I suppose the difference lies in the making a deposit.
I'm not saying its ok to be wreckless or don't bother testing but I am saying "relax". Chances are monumental that your OK.

 

[calloway]

Thank you Sizzzler and Dickydoem.

Some of these guys really need to do some reading and get educated on the facts.

 

[Dugath]

Be it 99% or 1% a chance is a chance. If some people are worried so be it, dont come down on them.

Besides you guys know there are other things out thier besides HIV right? Think about that next time your mouth is planted on a womans snatch or giving them LDFK..ect. lol. Get educated on those Facts.

Now.. that being said.. yes.. I have had DATY and BBBJ. Not often but it has happened. DO I worry about it during.. lol not often.. after.. always.

These days I personally try to reduce my chances by staying away from the popular SP's. And usually stick with MP (with some sp qualities). And stick with the safe type of fun. Its one thing to wake up one day with something that is not fun to have but can be treated, its another thing to wake up one day and your SO has gotten something from you that you got from a SP.. now that..would be hard to explain.

People just have to be carefull. There are messed up people in this world who do messed up things to hurt others (like infecting people on purpose).

 

[Stoo]

Some of these guys really need to do some reading and get educated on the facts.

You took the words out of my mouth. The reality is that it is quite difficult for a guy to contract HIV from a woman while engaged in protected sex. It's even fairly difficult during unprotected sex.

Personally, I am a hell of a lot more concerned about herpes, genital warts and all that other shit that is extremely contagious during "routine" activities like kissing, DATY, BBBJ etc.

All of you guys that are suddenly retiring, I wish you well. The less of "us" out there, the less risk to everyone. But the reality is that the risk of catching something nasty really is quite small, assuming you stick to "safe" practices. If you choose to engage in BBBJ and DATY, then the risk for some things goes up.

If you have thought that nothing could ever happen to you, then as Calloway suggested, you really do need to get educated and be comfortable with what you are engaged in. If you are so concerned, then this isn't the sport for you...