Cancelling an Appointment At Door
- Thread starter hoeman
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The truth shall set you free!!!
Seriously, I can't belive this is nessassary... I think if a gent is paying for your butt to be there and you havent been honest, then yes bubye... if for some reason shes not what you expected, for whatever reason and if she told the truth then .. a small compensation for her time and travel as she also has scheduled her time and some like myself cab it. would be the gentlemanly thing to do... I mean a picture is worth a thousand words, and if shes not who you see in the pic then see ya...
with no compensation..bait and switch should not be compensated...
this is about attraction even for an hourly playdate and lets face why should a man pay for a girl he didnt ask for.
we have all at some point been turned away at the door for some reason .. its an ego thing surely but you do get over it...
honesty is always the best business policy...
Seriously, I can't belive this is nessassary... I think if a gent is paying for your butt to be there and you havent been honest, then yes bubye... if for some reason shes not what you expected, for whatever reason and if she told the truth then .. a small compensation for her time and travel as she also has scheduled her time and some like myself cab it. would be the gentlemanly thing to do... I mean a picture is worth a thousand words, and if shes not who you see in the pic then see ya...
with no compensation..bait and switch should not be compensated...
this is about attraction even for an hourly playdate and lets face why should a man pay for a girl he didnt ask for.
we have all at some point been turned away at the door for some reason .. its an ego thing surely but you do get over it...
honesty is always the best business policy...
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Re: Re: I has happened only once with me
I visit Toronto for few days and usually have very limited time for this activity. I would refuse, if time was not a major factor. So far, my good experiences have overweiged the bad experiences. Also, I am pretty sure that the SP I saw has left the country because she is not listed on the web site and she has not received any reviews for over one year. There may be a chance that she is still working, but she is certainly not one of the popular SPs.
I did not see any SP for a particular agency (the one that sent me an unhygenic SP). Also, this was my only encounter with a poor hygine SP. I usually select the SP from the web site and for the most part my experience has been satisfactory.zog said:I'm all for fairness but it goes both ways.
I make an effort to be clean and presentable when I see and SP and I expect her to do the same.
I don't want or enjoy any kind of contact from someone who is as unhygeinic or as unclean as the woman you described.
That does not explain why you allowed this dirty/smelly person to touch you. If you felt bad, you could have given her a part of her fee and a bar of soap.
Oh, did you retire from the hobby?
But if you never saw her or any other SP again, how do you know she didn't stay and keep working?
If you call an agency (or independent) and don't ask about appearance, personality, or type, you might be right.
However, if you are requested (and were promised) a certain type of woman, you have every right to expect that you will get what you were promised!
Big Daddy, you're not here to support the SP industry on your own. You have the same right to try to get the most bang for your buck as any other consumer in North America.
Zog.
I visit Toronto for few days and usually have very limited time for this activity. I would refuse, if time was not a major factor. So far, my good experiences have overweiged the bad experiences. Also, I am pretty sure that the SP I saw has left the country because she is not listed on the web site and she has not received any reviews for over one year. There may be a chance that she is still working, but she is certainly not one of the popular SPs.
a popular SP doesn't need reviews, or a reviewed dance card. She may be complete with who she has now, and doesn't need the public interest. Many ladies request no reviews, rave reviews aren't as popular as some believe.
But back to the original question. I myself would like some notice, but would be just fine if I got turned away, just hopefully its not at the bleeding airport;-) I would be a bit peturbed though as to what part of me he was missing out on, from my site, but I think he would also kindly explain to me what it was, then I'd go and learn from it. All hypethically, haven't had to test it out yet.
This is your investment. Just because the insurance person came or the investment broker sat and had coffee, does not mean you HAVE to go with them. That is why the internet is growing more popular with this hobby, it tells you a bit more about the establishment before inviting them in, and gives you the ability to select ctrl + F4 before feeling any guilt of not investing.
Its polite to offer a cancelation present, because she may not be up to your speed, but did make the effort. (unless totally drunk out of her mind and not really sure why she's there to begin with)
But back to the original question. I myself would like some notice, but would be just fine if I got turned away, just hopefully its not at the bleeding airport;-) I would be a bit peturbed though as to what part of me he was missing out on, from my site, but I think he would also kindly explain to me what it was, then I'd go and learn from it. All hypethically, haven't had to test it out yet.
This is your investment. Just because the insurance person came or the investment broker sat and had coffee, does not mean you HAVE to go with them. That is why the internet is growing more popular with this hobby, it tells you a bit more about the establishment before inviting them in, and gives you the ability to select ctrl + F4 before feeling any guilt of not investing.
Its polite to offer a cancelation present, because she may not be up to your speed, but did make the effort. (unless totally drunk out of her mind and not really sure why she's there to begin with)
As far as I recall, I've sent four escorts away, two at the door and two very early into the session. but none in the last 12 years or so. The advent of review boards has helped me to avoid similar problems.
1. Thunder Bay circa 1990 - Incredible Bait and Switch
I phoned the agency and selected a lady who described herself as "27, black, 5'-6", 125 lb., 34-24-34". 45 minutes later, there was a knock on my hotel room door. The woman standing there was around 40, Caucasian, blonde, 5'-2" and at least 200 lb.!! Her stringy hair looked like it hadn't been washed for three weeks. I told her that there must have been a mistake, described who I expected and told her to leave. Even when I suggested it was entirely the agency's fault, she was still very upset and rudely demanded $50 just for showing up. I refused, and told her I was going to call the agency to complain. She eventually left with nothing. I did call the agency, and got no answer. I just left things at that. They didn't call me back. I have no idea whether she knew of the switch beforehand.
2. Saskatoon circa 1985 - The Funniest
I called the agency and made my selection. When the escort knocked on my door, I noticed right away that she smelled like a brewery and she almost fell flat on her face trying to enter my room. I stopped her and sent her away. She didn't argue much - she could hardly talk anyway! The agency called back a few minutes later and demanded that I pay a cancellation fee. I refused and told them how drunk the escort was. They backed off and offered a replacement. I refused, and called another agency.
3. Edmonton circa 1984 - The Scariest
The escort arrived, collected her fee, called the agency, and sat down to chat. After a couple of minutes, she excused herself to go to the bathroom, and left the door slightly ajar. She was very quiet and seemed to be taking a long time. Normally, I would never spy or peek, but I got really bad vibes, so I tippytoed to the door and peeked through the crack. She was sitting on the throne, fully clothed, sticking a needle in her arm! I didn't want her lunging at me with it, so I went back and waited for her to reappear. A few minutes later, she reappeared naked, seemingly ready for action. I told her I had changed my mind and she should get dressed and leave. When she started to protest, I told her she could keep the money anyway. I didn't let on why, and she didn't argue. After she left, I called the agency and told them what happened. They weren't very cooperative or sympathetic, so I just wrote it off as a bad experience.
4. Thunder Bay circa 1988 - The Saddest
The escort arrived, collected her fee, called the agency, and we chatted for a few minutes. When we were seemingly starting the real action, she started to shake, and burst into tears, saying, "I just can't do this!" She actually offered me my money back! It turned out that I was her very first call. She had been laid off from her financial sector job in Toronto and turned to escorting in T. Bay because she was desperate for money. When the crunch came, she couldn't go through with it. I felt sorry for her (I was absolutely convinced it wasn't a scam), so I let her keep $40 "for her time". She said she didn't care if I called the agency because she wasn't going back anyway. I did call them and explained what happened. To their credit, they offered a replacement at a reduced rate, but it was late, and I had lost interest anyway.
Sometimes you just have to dig your heels in and turn them away without any money. Otherwise, they'll never learn, and they'll keep on scamming. The only exception might be if you feel endangered somehow.
1. Thunder Bay circa 1990 - Incredible Bait and Switch
I phoned the agency and selected a lady who described herself as "27, black, 5'-6", 125 lb., 34-24-34". 45 minutes later, there was a knock on my hotel room door. The woman standing there was around 40, Caucasian, blonde, 5'-2" and at least 200 lb.!! Her stringy hair looked like it hadn't been washed for three weeks. I told her that there must have been a mistake, described who I expected and told her to leave. Even when I suggested it was entirely the agency's fault, she was still very upset and rudely demanded $50 just for showing up. I refused, and told her I was going to call the agency to complain. She eventually left with nothing. I did call the agency, and got no answer. I just left things at that. They didn't call me back. I have no idea whether she knew of the switch beforehand.
2. Saskatoon circa 1985 - The Funniest
I called the agency and made my selection. When the escort knocked on my door, I noticed right away that she smelled like a brewery and she almost fell flat on her face trying to enter my room. I stopped her and sent her away. She didn't argue much - she could hardly talk anyway! The agency called back a few minutes later and demanded that I pay a cancellation fee. I refused and told them how drunk the escort was. They backed off and offered a replacement. I refused, and called another agency.
3. Edmonton circa 1984 - The Scariest
The escort arrived, collected her fee, called the agency, and sat down to chat. After a couple of minutes, she excused herself to go to the bathroom, and left the door slightly ajar. She was very quiet and seemed to be taking a long time. Normally, I would never spy or peek, but I got really bad vibes, so I tippytoed to the door and peeked through the crack. She was sitting on the throne, fully clothed, sticking a needle in her arm! I didn't want her lunging at me with it, so I went back and waited for her to reappear. A few minutes later, she reappeared naked, seemingly ready for action. I told her I had changed my mind and she should get dressed and leave. When she started to protest, I told her she could keep the money anyway. I didn't let on why, and she didn't argue. After she left, I called the agency and told them what happened. They weren't very cooperative or sympathetic, so I just wrote it off as a bad experience.
4. Thunder Bay circa 1988 - The Saddest
The escort arrived, collected her fee, called the agency, and we chatted for a few minutes. When we were seemingly starting the real action, she started to shake, and burst into tears, saying, "I just can't do this!" She actually offered me my money back! It turned out that I was her very first call. She had been laid off from her financial sector job in Toronto and turned to escorting in T. Bay because she was desperate for money. When the crunch came, she couldn't go through with it. I felt sorry for her (I was absolutely convinced it wasn't a scam), so I let her keep $40 "for her time". She said she didn't care if I called the agency because she wasn't going back anyway. I did call them and explained what happened. To their credit, they offered a replacement at a reduced rate, but it was late, and I had lost interest anyway.
Sometimes you just have to dig your heels in and turn them away without any money. Otherwise, they'll never learn, and they'll keep on scamming. The only exception might be if you feel endangered somehow.
cancelling at the door!
My problem here is that I am usually turned on most by an SPs Beautiful face ( if in fact that is what she has) and the general personality ( which in the case I speak of is easy to decipher in about a minute).
So in this case, cancelling at my door or her door is the only option I have if I am not satisfied or if I feel let down. Its tough when SP`s don`t show their face in posted pictures yet I can understand why some SP`s don`t feel comfortable with bearing all on the net.
I would like it if an SP would send me ( upon request) a picture with face in a return email. I can only hope that most will not think the worst . I am not interested in posting anyones picture anywhere further than my own private screen.
Please have some trust in clients who inquire nicely!
we are only trying to help make a more informed decision that will ultimately result in a better experience for both SP and client!
Any SPs who advertise and do not show your face in pictures, please pm me. I would love to hear your individual reasons and maybe find out wheather I can tempt you to make an exception!
Foxwilly
My problem here is that I am usually turned on most by an SPs Beautiful face ( if in fact that is what she has) and the general personality ( which in the case I speak of is easy to decipher in about a minute).
So in this case, cancelling at my door or her door is the only option I have if I am not satisfied or if I feel let down. Its tough when SP`s don`t show their face in posted pictures yet I can understand why some SP`s don`t feel comfortable with bearing all on the net.
I would like it if an SP would send me ( upon request) a picture with face in a return email. I can only hope that most will not think the worst . I am not interested in posting anyones picture anywhere further than my own private screen.
Please have some trust in clients who inquire nicely!
we are only trying to help make a more informed decision that will ultimately result in a better experience for both SP and client!
Any SPs who advertise and do not show your face in pictures, please pm me. I would love to hear your individual reasons and maybe find out wheather I can tempt you to make an exception!
Foxwilly
Re: cancelling at the door!
'Ideally' it would be great for the client and the SP (some ladies business would actually increase if they shared photos of their face) but we dont live in an IDEAL world, so I hope you understand that 'realistically' we just cannot be so trusting of some anonymous person we dont know. There are too many nutbars out there in the world, unfortunately the bad apples ruin it for the whole bunch. Just like you would probably have reservations/fears about sending your photo to an unknown lady/agency!
Wow, Foxwilly I understand your hesitation about choosing a lady who hides her face in her website. Women who hide their faces have a great need to hide their full identity because they have another seperate life outside the biz and thus the need for privacy. I 'could' assume that your intentions are pure......BUT how would I know that for sure, there is no guarantee? There are too many guys/pleople in the world who do have devious alterior motives, i.e. they would pass the information to others, post it on the web, or try ruin your 'other' life by exposing this info. Trust me it happens!foxwilly said:............. Its tough when SP`s don`t show their face in posted pictures yet I can understand why some SP`s don`t feel comfortable with bearing all on the net.
I would like it if an SP would send me ( upon request) a picture with face in a return email. I can only hope that most will not think the worst . I am not interested in posting anyones picture anywhere further than my own private screen.
Please have some trust in clients who inquire nicely!
we are only trying to help make a more informed decision that will ultimately result in a better experience for both SP and client!
Any SPs who advertise and do not show your face in pictures, please pm me. I would love to hear your individual reasons and maybe find out wheather I can tempt you to make an exception!
Foxwilly
'Ideally' it would be great for the client and the SP (some ladies business would actually increase if they shared photos of their face) but we dont live in an IDEAL world, so I hope you understand that 'realistically' we just cannot be so trusting of some anonymous person we dont know. There are too many nutbars out there in the world, unfortunately the bad apples ruin it for the whole bunch. Just like you would probably have reservations/fears about sending your photo to an unknown lady/agency!
Realistic Expectations
I have cancelled at the door 6 or more times. If I am taking a chance with an agency, i usually let them know upfront that I won't hesitate to cancel, if the girl does not meet the discription.
The worst case I experienced was when she showed up drunk. Other examples were usually weight related. I am not attracted to heavy women and make that clear upfront. If she shows up and is far heavier (20-30 lbs) than was discribed, I will politley decline. I feel bad for the girl and try to be delicate about it. I have given a tip for her troubles.
I have cancelled at the door 6 or more times. If I am taking a chance with an agency, i usually let them know upfront that I won't hesitate to cancel, if the girl does not meet the discription.
The worst case I experienced was when she showed up drunk. Other examples were usually weight related. I am not attracted to heavy women and make that clear upfront. If she shows up and is far heavier (20-30 lbs) than was discribed, I will politley decline. I feel bad for the girl and try to be delicate about it. I have given a tip for her troubles.
