YMMV is the great non-equalizer, but do we know enough about what causes varying mileages. I would like to find out by doing a survey of Terbites.
For the Ladies (gentlemen see below): What factors influence ‘mileage’ in a session with you (if you don’t want to answer in ‘public’, pm me and I will aggregate the results so no individual can be identified – I promise to hold pm’s to me in strictest confidence). Right now, I’m looking just to create a list of factors (some factors are suggested below to get the ball rolling). Once a full list is compiled, I will circulate it and ask you to prioritize the factors (that is, rank the importance of each factor). Following this second round, I will publish the list again with weighted factors so that the men can assess themselves and learn from the experience.
Gentlemen: similar process as above, but you are asked to identify those factors that turn you off in a companionship session with an SP (I suggest a few below to get the male ball, or balls as the case may be, rolling). Once the list is compiled with suggestions from everyone, I will publish the list and ask you to weight the factors in terms of how important they are in affecting the mood in an encounter. Once this is compiled, I will publish it so that SPs can get a feel for what guys don’t like in setting the mood.
Hopefully, we can all learn a bit more about each other collectively if not individually. Good service and good experiences flow from good communications. I hope this promotes good communication and better mileage, for that is its intent.
Some possible factors affecting YMMV from an SP’s perspective: hygiene, guy’s attitude, intoxication, odours, looks, weight, age, fitness, disability, SP having a bad day, length of appointment, man’s endowment (aka Mr. Happy), social status, number of prior appointments with SP…..please to the list, and/or comment on the appropriateness of these
Guys: some factors about SPs which affect the mood and therefore affect YMMV: intoxication, lateness, mechanical or unenthusiastic approach, rushing to finish, talking about subjects which break the mood, bait and switch, hygiene, refusal to do requested special ‘things’, appearance inconsistent with picture on web………..guys, please add to the list and/or comment on these.
Thanks in advance for participating.
For the Ladies (gentlemen see below): What factors influence ‘mileage’ in a session with you (if you don’t want to answer in ‘public’, pm me and I will aggregate the results so no individual can be identified – I promise to hold pm’s to me in strictest confidence). Right now, I’m looking just to create a list of factors (some factors are suggested below to get the ball rolling). Once a full list is compiled, I will circulate it and ask you to prioritize the factors (that is, rank the importance of each factor). Following this second round, I will publish the list again with weighted factors so that the men can assess themselves and learn from the experience.
Gentlemen: similar process as above, but you are asked to identify those factors that turn you off in a companionship session with an SP (I suggest a few below to get the male ball, or balls as the case may be, rolling). Once the list is compiled with suggestions from everyone, I will publish the list and ask you to weight the factors in terms of how important they are in affecting the mood in an encounter. Once this is compiled, I will publish it so that SPs can get a feel for what guys don’t like in setting the mood.
Hopefully, we can all learn a bit more about each other collectively if not individually. Good service and good experiences flow from good communications. I hope this promotes good communication and better mileage, for that is its intent.
Some possible factors affecting YMMV from an SP’s perspective: hygiene, guy’s attitude, intoxication, odours, looks, weight, age, fitness, disability, SP having a bad day, length of appointment, man’s endowment (aka Mr. Happy), social status, number of prior appointments with SP…..please to the list, and/or comment on the appropriateness of these
Guys: some factors about SPs which affect the mood and therefore affect YMMV: intoxication, lateness, mechanical or unenthusiastic approach, rushing to finish, talking about subjects which break the mood, bait and switch, hygiene, refusal to do requested special ‘things’, appearance inconsistent with picture on web………..guys, please add to the list and/or comment on these.
Thanks in advance for participating.

