Calling all the Dr Phils on the board

[AdamH]

No she is not his "friend". She is someone he saw at a friend's party.

He refers to her as his "friend".. I don't think it matters to my point though.. My point was that her SO wasn't his friend..

 

[SchlongConery]

He refers to her as his "friend".. I don't think it matters to my point though.. My point was that her SO wasn't his friend..

"We have never had any sort of verbal exchanges but have shared plenty of glances that said a lot without saying anything at all."

 

[Bluebeam22]

"We have never had any sort of verbal exchanges but have shared plenty of glances that said a lot without saying anything at all."

I should have clarified this statement. Plenty of words were exchanged and this is someone I spent a considerable amount of time with at a destination wedding that she went without SO. I only meant no words were exchanged about attraction or any other sorts however a look can say a million words. Have you never looked at someone with attraction and had that look reciprocated?? Anyways again thanks for all honesty considering there is much more to the story than meets the eye

 

[red]

I should have clarified this statement. Plenty of words were exchanged and this is someone I spent a considerable amount of time with at a destination wedding that she went without SO. I only meant no words were exchanged about attraction or any other sorts however a look can say a million words. Have you never looked at someone with attraction and had that look reciprocated?? Anyways again thanks for all honesty considering there is much more to the story than meets the eye

Go for it. Don't spend a lifetime with what ifs

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

This is as diverse of a group that I can think of so I pose this question to you all in hope to resolve an inner conflict that I am having so here goes. Is it a selfish act to try to manifest your own happiness at the expense of another person or persons? More specifically, if you develop feelings for someone in a relationship (not marriage), is it wrong to tell that person if it may cause conflict in their relationship or worse it causes a break-up?? And discuss....

If you do that, it will come off as weird. If the feeling isn't mutual, in my experience I've shared what happened with a partner and I was not allowed to hang out with that guy on my own anymore and my partner would deliberately try and make the guy that uncomfortable. They did everything short of pissing on me to show who I was with. lol. That or you'll be the running joke behind between the two... don't be that creep. That never ends well. The fact that you have to ask if you should do it.... says to me that you aren't getting any clear signals from her... it sounds like a bad idea.

 

[Titalian]

If you do that, it will come off as weird. If the feeling isn't mutual, in my experience I've shared what happened with a partner and I was not allowed to hang out with that guy on my own anymore and my partner would deliberately try and make the guy that uncomfortable. They did everything short of pissing on me to show who I was with. lol. That or you'll be the running joke behind between the two... don't be that creep. That never ends well. The fact that you have to ask if you should do it.... says to me that you aren't getting any clear signals from her... it sounds like a bad idea.

Interesting, my ex-wife was and still is an extraordinarily beautiful woman, even though, I had no problem with some men paying attention to her back then, in fact I was a compliment to me, because we both knew how
we felt about each other. We still respect and luv each other to this day even though we are separated.