C O K E

[RayFinkel]

You may know me, you might understand my train of thought or you might even get the whole lifestyle ( im not sure what exactly im talking about right now) JUST LISTEN AND TRUST ME .

I have been taken Coke for a year or so if not more, no more than a two year period every weekend at least I`ve lived the EXTREME LIFESTYLE i MEAN THE NO WORRY THE WHO CARES THE CANT GET UP EACH MORNING AND WONDER HOW TO SCORE SOME COKE. Thats the worst, when you have so many Bills and your Rent is the largest and most imporant cause you can do as much Coke as anyone wants in the privacy of your own home. Ihate when I pay my rent and I have caught up all the other bills. Then I get home and start drinking my Twelve and say to muself I dont want Blow tonight I dont need Coke evere.

Than all of a Suddan I have a HUDGE craving for COKE and start all over.

DONT START PMING ME BACK WITH IDEAS OF QUITTING IF YOU HAVE NEVERE BEEN THROUGH WHAT I`VE BEEN THROUGH.

 

[excorrigere]

No Compassion

Start doing crack...it'll kill you, but it'd put you out of your misery. Only the strongest will survive in my opinion. You voluntarily choose to fuck up your own life, while others all over this world are involuntarily suffering. Expect no compassion from people as you are the weakest link. When life gives you the privilege of choice and you fuck up, you can go overdose on crack and no one would turn up for your funeral because it's 1 less person to deal with on this planet. Think about those who have no choice and are trying desperately to make something of their lives coming from the most horrible of backgrounds. You are the weakest link buddy. Adios.

 

[RayFinkel]

I bet your on this board to brag and compare all your conquests to other terbs cause you`ll never ever be able to pick up a girl without paying.

 

[excorrigere]

Lol

Got girlfriend, don't hobby. That's me. I'm only on this board, and believe it or not, I got on just to sell 2 cell phones. After a while I realised your Lounge provides for an excellent read once in a while and some hilarious stuff. Agreed, I have hobbied in the past, dabbled in it once in a while, but recently, I got engaged and am going to get married, my girlfriends knows I come here for the read and the laugh, so yeah...your response was really mature. You are STILL the weakest link!

 

[papasmerf]

If you are fat loose weight.

If you want to quit smoking do so.

You have a problem with drugs, seek help.

 

[A-ROD]

Help !

Ray you obviously realize that you have a problem.. Please pick up the phone and as papasmerf says SEEK SOME HELP.

 

[threefivefive]

DONT START PMING ME BACK WITH IDEAS OF QUITTING IF YOU HAVE NEVERE BEEN THROUGH WHAT I`VE BEEN THROUGH.

Sorry to break it to ya, but many people have been through a lot worse than your little drug addiction. If you dont have the balls to flush the crap down the toilet instead of snorting it up your nose, then everything excorriger said is true. As for your statement 'just listen and trust me'. i dont know too many people that would trust a drug addict. peace.

 

[solitaria]

Coke.

Hey Ray what's coke like? How powerful is the addiction? Would it be like having the best looking barbie doll blonde on the planet spread her legs for you and offer you bareback? If it is you have my sympathies. I couldn't break a habit like that.

 

[Preferred]

excorrigere and solitaria, you are idiots.
If Ray is looking for help, give him some decent advise not bullshit.

Sorry to hear of your problem Ray, i have never been involved with drugs so i am unable to give you any advice from personal use. But there is ample help out there. Please seek it.

all the best.

 

[Coach]

He seems to be bragging about his life, he doesn't want help. Why should we care? If he wants help, then there are many who can help, but it starts with him.

 

[calloway]

excorrigere and solitaria, you are idiots.
If Ray is looking for help, give him some decent advise not bullshit.

Sometimes giving someone shit right upfront is the best medicine. Ray has to want to quit. Ray has to get pissed off enough at himself to take the next step and get professional help. Simply telling him to go get help may not be enough to pick up the phone. I've had family members with both alcohol and drug addiction issues. All the things we tried were useless. Thankfully tough love... patience and support were the only things that eventually worked... even though there were times I thought they would never make it. But they did. Be strong Ray... get the help you need... do it now. Don't wait until it gets even worse... because it will get worse. Get help now.

 

[jwmorrice]

Guess I'll be the first to suggest Ray switch to PEPSI.

jwm

 

[Preferred]

Coach and Calloway may be right.

I do not know Ray that well. I can only take his post at face value.

As i have said, i do not partake neither does anyone else that i associate with, family or friends. My experience in this matter, thankfully, is very limited.

Tough love is one thing but if someone asks for help, there has to be a few who are a little softer and more supportive.

By the way calloway, your signature picture would be enough to take me off any addiction

 

[Svend]

If you're still paying the rent and hobbying, then your addiction isn't as deep as you might hope for. Try heroin to even out the highs.

 

[Fred Zed]

Than all of a Suddan I have a HUDGE craving for COKE and start all over.

DONT START PMING ME BACK WITH IDEAS OF QUITTING IF YOU HAVE NEVERE BEEN THROUGH WHAT I`VE BEEN THROUGH.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Call someone and get some help today.
I am cancelling your TERB account today. Don't come back to TERB until you get some help.

 

[xarir]

A rather drastic move Fred, but it's the right one.

There's plenty of help out there Ray - reach out and take it!

 

[Svend]

Who among us doesn't have any addictions in life?

 

[xarir]

Who among us doesn't have any addictions in life?

Depends on what you count as an "addiction" I guess, but I can honestly say there isn't really anything in my life that I couldn't do without or learn how to deal with not having it.

I could deal with not hobbying for example. I could even withdraw from TERB if I had to. I could live in a world without coffee.

To me, all of these things are indulgences. But like a fine dessert after dinner, I know when to stop. Sometimes I will overindulge but I will ineveitably stop. That's the real difference here that rayfinkel needs to learn very quickly. But, he can have help if he only decides to take it. I actually see his post here as step 1 to seeking help. Now he needs to take that all-important step 2 of actually getting real help.

Kicking rayfinkel off of TERB is harsh, but if it gets him to take the help he needs, it'll be worth it. I do hope we see him back here someday soon.

 

[calloway]

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Call someone and get some help today.
I am cancelling your TERB account today. Don't come back to TERB until you get some help.

Now that's action... excellent move Fred. Hopefully Ray will thank you one day.

 

[Macator2003]

Who among us doesn't have any addictions in life?

Speaking of good crack, I have an addiction to Calloway's signature post. Please let us see the rest of this beauty.