Since when is BBBJ part of GFE?
I think term GFE was intially used as way to describe the overall experience rather than specific acts. I know, it's come to mean a laundy list of acts that are supposed to equate to the feeling one gets from a GF but realistically the acts themsleves don't add to up to that experience (IMHO). I also understand the desire to quantify an experience especially for purposes of sharing information on a review boards such as this. I just think having a list of services with checkmarks in the left column doesn't equate to a GFE, no matter what's on the list.
I appreciate it when an SP or MP is concerned for their own safety, it's a good thing for customers too. I'm sure there are lots of us who have dated women for a few months, considered them a GF and were still happy with, and expecting safe sex, including oral, with them. I know plenty of women who will never try greek, girlfriend, wife, or on as your dying wish.
In fact I would have serious reservations about a GF wanting to do BB anything in the first few months.
As for the Kissing, ya I would say that's an important part of the experience for me but don't forget she is young and perhaps it's not a service she's comfortable advertising that she provides to everyone. Maybe it's not a completely closed issue, who knows.
Twiz