Breaking the SP references...

[rsixzoom]

Hi fellow terbs!

I am no stranger to hobbying. I do keep a low key profile due to nature of work and have been mostly US based the last few years. Would like to see some SP's on this board but some do ask for references. Anyway around this? Or is it now mandatory--which I can see the reason why as safety is key for the majority of SP's.

As you can see, low key profile and only my first post on the thread since...

 

[bucky88]

See agency SPs. References are usually not required by agencies.

Once you get to know an agency SP, she might be willing to act as a reference if you want to see an indy SP. Many agency SPs can be contacted directly via twitter.

B88

 

[BAMan 55]

Hi fellow terbs!

I am no stranger to hobbying.

6+ years member and no posts but no stranger to hobbying!! Time to share.

 

[explorerzip]

Not all indys require references. Some ask to meet socially for 15 mins so they can get to know you a bit before moving to a booking. That info should be in their ads or websites. Some agency girls might give references, but don't quote me on that.

 

[harryass]

Odd, even if you are low key, gotta be someone you can get as a ref that you booked from other cities or even similar to terb, etc

Be ready to give more than your caf handle and cell if you plan on seeing some of the indys. .

 

[Rob_Latex]

Why not ask the Indy you are interested in if they will accept another screening method other than a reference

 

[TFZL1]

Screening seems simple to me. Any good Indy only wants the info to make sure she's safe. Not to use against you. If she used screening info to out somebody her career would end.
So I have no problem giving info to Reputable Lady's.
I think the easier you comply with screening, the better the session will be. If you fight and argue, try to 'break' her screening process, you'll just piss her off and the session is ruined before you get there. Better to move on and try a different provider.

 

[HobbyHorse]

Pretty simple. Many (maybe most?) indys do not require screening. Choose one. (Talk about First World problems.)

 

[wazup]

The amount of girls that ask for references has to be under 10%, unless you have one in mind that does require one.

 

[mrcheeks]

The amount of girls that ask for references has to be under 10%, unless you have one in mind that does require one.

Just by looking at the Independent Escort Ad section you would think that at least 50% of indys require references.

 

[valeriehugh]

Why not ask the Indy you are interested in if they will accept another screening method other than a reference

This was my thought exactly. I am always apt to accommodate someone who may not have a recent SP reference, but can otherwise validate their identity. Intuition often plays a large role. Be genuine, express your concerns, and I'm sure many will be able to accommodate you! But also appreciate that those who don't have their reasons.

 

[NorthernBear]

Ironic that you don't post in order to maintain a low profile but you break your six year silence to ask about references.

I was wanting to see a lady who needed a reference but once she found out my TERB handle she read a few of my reviews and other posts and thought I seemed respectful and low risk so she waived the reference request.

 

[bucky88]

Two simple truths: SPs need to ensure their safety and clients want to protect their privacy. We just all need to respect that and everyone will get what they need and be happy. :tea::amen:

B88