I think your comments are inappropriate and hurtful. It's fine to comment when someone does a bait and switch, or fails to deliver on promises, but making comments like you did on a person's appearance is uncalled for.
I don't agree with you AT ALL. One moment, we can't talk about physical appearance.... then what? Then we can't be critical at all? Where do you draw the line?
Soon enough, we'd end up like the Rosy Board... its a slippery slope once we start censoring people on what's appropriate (obviously morally reprehensible things like asking for under age girls crosses the line, Whiteman's comment comes no where close to that)
To be honest, I find it very strange when hobbyists put themselves on a pedestal this way. I certainly DO NOT hobby to be "morally correct", so I suggest that you get off your high horse. You are the same as the rest of us.
Finally, sex is as much about physical attraction as it is about the "service". As hobbyists, we all know that service is important, but if somebody just isn't attractive it doesn't matter how good the service is. This is adult entertainment. Not a spelling B. How attractive an SP is matters is the main priority. Everything else, while important, comes secondary.
And don't give me the BS about "Looks is a personal preference". There are some hobbyists that might have specific fetishes, like some might like obese women. But these people represent outliars. They are not the rule. The majority of hobbyists like young, attractive, petite women with nice natural boobs. There is a look that I think most men enjoy more than others. If your thinking "not me" then good for you. But that represents YOUR view only.
If you insist on denying this fact then its your choice to stay ignorant. I for one don't appreciate it when anonymous hobbyists, take offence to the candor of another anonymous hobbyist and then attempt to deny them the right to be blunt because it offends their personal sensibilities.
I come to this board, and occasionally contribute my true thoughts on hobbying and my experience with SPs. I find it helpful to know people like Whiteman is saying what he truly believes because it gives me insight into how truthful (and not exaggerated) his reviews are on SPs.
For everyone else, If you do not feel a SP is attractive enough, don't just say it by giving it a rank. Explain yourself. If shes only a 6 out of 10, what makes her a 6? It may offend Tolleman's personal sensibilities, but for me, if you don't like an SP because shes fat, or she looks old, or even if she has too much acne.... SAY it. Because of any of those things bother me as well, I'd know to avoid that SP.
I hate having to censor myself in my reviews over fears of offending a vocal minority, because I know candor reviews are the most helpful reviews.
