Blacklisting a Hobbyist

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I support the SP right to decide who she sees.

I think they add a lot of stress though when they simply ignore calls from someone they don't want to see. What seems to happen is the guys they don't want to see ends up calling dozens of times, adding stress to both himself and the SP.

I watched this happen at one of my SP's. She said, "look at this guy he has called me about 30 times already".

My thinking is this. I suggest the SP answer the call and just say "I do not want to see you".

I do NOT think the SP has to offer the reason if they do not want to. I am guessing the hobbyist will just argue anyway no matter what the reason. The hobbyist has plenty of choices and if he needs to move on, it is better for him, the SP and the SP who will get his business. There is little point over arguing how his telephone manner was or whatever he did to get in her bad books.

I see on another thread that Spice blacklisted a guy for his e-mail manners (I think). His response was to tell the board that she was not taking new customers. I wonder if he really thought that (costing her business) or if she was being too gentle about telling him he was blacklisted. I hope they straightened that out.

Ladies, do you generally tell a guy not to call again or do you just ignore him? And guys, do you really think she did not get your message after 30 calls?
 
bsi said:
I support the SP right to decide who she sees.

I think they add a lot of stress though when they simply ignore calls from someone they don't want to see. What seems to happen is the guys they don't want to see ends up calling dozens of times, adding stress to both himself and the SP.

I watched this happen at one of my SP's. She said, "look at this guy he has called me about 30 times already".

My thinking is this. I suggest the SP answer the call and just say "I do not want to see you".

I do NOT think the SP has to offer the reason if they do not want to. I am guessing the hobbyist will just argue anyway no matter what the reason. The hobbyist has plenty of choices and if he needs to move on, it is better for him, the SP and the SP who will get his business. There is little point over arguing how his telephone manner was or whatever he did to get in her bad books.

I see on another thread that Spice blacklisted a guy for his e-mail manners (I think). His response was to tell the board that she was not taking new customers. I wonder if he really thought that (costing her business) or if she was being too gentle about telling him he was blacklisted. I hope they straightened that out.

Ladies, do you generally tell a guy not to call again or do you just ignore him? And guys, do you really think she did not get your message after 30 calls?
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Theres always a few morons that email a zillion times call a trillion times and yes they do start the rumours when you tell them fuck off in a nice nonchalant way .Sometimes being nice to some out there are completely insanely wacked (or someone just playing with ya ) doesnt register in there heads to stop contacting ........So then most times it stops or the guy is so obssed he writes up very nasty rumours since his ego has been bruised .So after all the being nice doesnt work a simple FUCK OFF Im gonna jijitsu your ASS if i see it - have to be cruel to be kind when necessary
 
Stalkers live for acknowledgment of any kind. Best to ignore them. Fair? Not a chance. They're the ones making our lives hell.

But it's been shown to be the best way to not escalate the situation. No. Recognition. Of. Him. At. All.

And personally? If the guy made that impossible by say, physically accosting me in public? Do as much damage to him as possible before the cops show up. All or nothing.
 
hmmmmm interesting. I do think there has to be a better way around it rather than just not answering as there is many times an sp is not able to answer a phone call for the simple fact she could be out or she may be busy and honestly do you want men to stop calling and give up just because you were unavailable? Also there is times that you may be on the rag or not feeling so well and hopefully men believe that you are not avoiding them just simply from a few times as well. I am sure there is men we honestly do not wish to see again at the same time so stating this or not answering may not be the best solution. Maybe just simply saying I no longer think we are compatible for doing business together and say it is for your own personal reasons that you do not wish to disclose??? Then after if they continue calling then do not answer.
 
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