biggest age difference you've dated?

[Don Draper]

Presently, I'm dating a girl 21 years younger than me. She's very sweet and sometimes just simply in awe, usually very attentive.

I find 10 years younger is the ideal scenario.

 

[danislaw]

I've only dated women who were 5-10 years older than me (I'm in my late twenties now). Probably because I didn't talk/act/dress like most guys 18-24.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

35 years difference! Lol, he was my boss. She sounds like a good woman, as long as you treat her right i dont think she'll do anything to jeopardize your job. It could work out, some women are looking for someone mature, who will spoil them and treat them right. There aren't many men my age that will do that.... There definitley weren't any men like that, that were my age when i was twenty.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I just came from eating at the Keg tonight and i've never seen so many hot chicks! The bartenders, the hostesses, the waitstresses. All pretty, young, long blond hair wearing low cut black dresses with short skirts, stockings and hi heels. I wouldn't dream of asking one of them out but it sure was great eye candy!

That is the place to work if your a waitress/bartender.... You should see the interviews they have. I went to one all dressed up and ten minutes early... I had to wait in the lobby with other men and women who were dressed to the 9's... I thought i had a pretty good chance... Up until i was told it happened every Thursday! The amount of people that showed up was nuts. I waited an hour and a half to be interviewed.... So those women are very lucky, but the keg can really pick and choose from the best

 

[toughb]

That's a complete fabrication.

Isn't it amazing. There is always one in every crowd.


Black.

 

[afterhours]

WOW. I haven't come across someone this misinformed in a long time.

Women hit their sexual prime in their forties my young friend and you're missing some beautiful gals if you just dismiss them. In the most part you're getting experience, reliability, looks and maturity (read mind). A lot to say about a mature women.

I don't have a whole lot to say about them except that they are significantly more likely than younger women to be bitter and to have saggy breasts and fat ass.

 

[blackrock13]

once women turn 35 they consider all offers, problem is, who wants them then.

Most of the 35+ women I know are self reliant and are quite capable of making choices, say no to many of the losers who think they are doing the women a favour. Women don't reach their sexual prime until their 40's That kind shows exactly what you don't know about the distaff side of our society.

We've had a number of threads showing some of the best 40+ and 50+ women in society and it's clear you spend too much time in clubs where they wouldn't be caught dead in, in case you were there.

 

[sp free]

A woman's sexual peak is not in her 40's when her eggs are drying up.

That's just PC BS.

 

[GG2]

Women don't reach their sexual prime until their 40's

According to who? Cite the scientific studies that support your claim.

Why would women reach their sexual peak long after they've lost their fertility? Perhaps older women are more comfortable with sex, and have come to terms with men's unrelenting need for it, but there is no evidence that 40 year old women desire sex more than younger women. One would expect the opposite. It could be a misattribution error on your part. Your experience with young women has been negative, but it is not because they don't desire lots of sex or are not good at sex. It's simply that they don't desire sex with you.

There will come a time when I'm old and unattractive to hot young women. I dread the thought but it's inescapable. We all get old and ugly. You're already there, blackrock. When that day comes for me, young women will mock my old ass, just as I did to my elders during my youth, and they to theirs in years past.

 

[foxwilly]

I dated and lived with a beautiful lady 14 years my elder. She still looks hot.

 

[toughb]

A woman's sexual peak is not in her 40's when her eggs are drying up.

That's just PC BS.

Ah, I understand now. You speak from experience. I should have known. You're a women over 40.

 

[CapitalGuy]

OP - the age difference you describe is negligible. If you can tolerate having to talk to the 22 year old, enjoy her.

 

[sp free]

Ah, I understand now. You speak from experience. I should have known. You're a women over 40.

Weak. 3/10.

 

[fuji]

It increases every year. I continue dating women in their mid 20's but I don't get any younger

 

[calvin & hobbes]

this ass is over 35 ... and trust me .... plenty want it ....

Note to self ............

I must get my ass over to see this ass in person. That's beautiful !!! It's giving me a "come hither" look. Or mabe I should say a "cum hither" look lol.

 

[afterhours]

this ass is over 35 ... and trust me .... plenty want it ....

that doesn't really convince me
men would fuck pretty much anything that breathes

 

[blackrock13]

According to who? Cite the scientific studies that support your claim.

Why would women reach their sexual peak long after they've lost their fertility? Perhaps older women are more comfortable with sex, and have come to terms with men's unrelenting need for it, but there is no evidence that 40 year old women desire sex more than younger women. One would expect the opposite. It could be a misattribution error on your part. Your experience with young women has been negative, but it is not because they don't desire lots of sex or are not good at sex. It's simply that they don't desire sex with you.

There will come a time when I'm old and unattractive to hot young women. I dread the thought but it's inescapable. We all get old and ugly. You're already there, blackrock. When that day comes for me, young women will mock my old ass, just as I did to my elders during my youth, and they to theirs in years past.

Maybe you've answered the question yourself. Sexuality hasn't much to do with the ability to reproduce. SO's I known are clearly more aroused near their periods, but even the most recent, who's not yet experienced 'the change' is just fine by me and she's in her late 40's. As I have a sister in law who had her first at 48, surprises do happens.

Since I've only had four girlsfriends older than I, and it was fun at the time. The rest has all been younger, not that there has been hundreds. The SO that I've had the longest relationship was eight years younger and it was good. Very unscientific, I know, but somehow I don't think unique or unusual.

There is research supporting both claims, just like research on the existence of Jesus Christ. I believe my personal history as it fact, not fiction.
As far as getting old and ugly, speak for yourself. There are those men who are just as hansom in their later years, just in a different way, much of it internally. I can't lift 200 lbs over my head any more, nor can I run a sub 5 minute mile, so I get others to do that.

 

[sp free]

It's opinion, not fact.

I've had great sex with women in their late 30's and early 40's. I'm not against it by any stretch. I just don't buy opinion based junk science.

 

[winstar]

The best blowjob I ever had was from a fourty year old. She stuck a finger up my ass and went to town, and I blew everything I had which she hungrily swallowed. I felt like she drained me so much that I would never be able to have kids- when I was in university. The worst blowjob I ever had, hands down, was from a few extremely hot 19-20 year olds, who didn't know what they were doing.

Katherine LaNasa. I'd do her at 21 and 45, without question.

 

[xmontrealer]

Someone once told me this "rule of thumb":

For men, the ideal age for a woman is half your age plus seven. So, if you're 20 she should be 17, if you're 40 she should be 27, and if you're 90, 52 is about right. Sounds good to me, although women may feel a bit differently about that.

Btw, my biggest difference was 17 years.... I was 41, and she was 24. The age difference wasn't a problem for the few years it lasted. It was other stuff that broke us up.