Big Guys That Don't See BBWS
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Another thing I would like to add, is that there is barely a market for male escorts…..And there is NO MARKET for Obese male escorts, but at the same time there is a Market for BBW Women!! Which sex would you say has a tougher time with being overweight now? Women are a way more selective then Men, that’s just a pure and simple fact!!
No big mystery. You get a BBW and a really bug guy with a big stomach. They can't connect except maybe doggie style! It's much easier for a fat guy to lie on his back and have a spinner on top. 
) Also, a lot of BBWs seem top like skinny guys. Maybe TERBites should spring for a research grant so that someone can research this -- with pix of course!
) Also, a lot of BBWs seem top like skinny guys. Maybe TERBites should spring for a research grant so that someone can research this -- with pix of course!
can you explain why you don't see men under 40?
It just amazes me that so many over weight men only like to see spinners.Is it because it boosts there confidence ?is it easier to have sex ? is it fair to judge a bbw woman when your big yourself ?......can some of you men enlighten me on this
Of course people tend to be superficial, especially when it comes to sexual attraction. Women aren't any different in that way. For example I know a 35 year old woman who refuses to date guys over 30.
Actual relationships can be different story.
Damn!
So why do you women prefer jocks when they are young and look for guys with abs and thick and long dicks? Why do the ladies at a young age always gravitate towards the bad boys who will treat them like shit? Why do women do this, until their body starts failing past 30, they start becoming out of shape and realize they cant attract the top guys any more. So what do they do? They worry about becoming lonely, they look for flaws in others and refuse to look at their own mistakes and choices and refuse to accept that they are a result and consequence of their actions and refuse to accept who they have become. Thus they look for losers to settle down with and hope someone will see past their insecurities and flaws that they themselves avoided in guys when they were growing up. Thus the vicious downward spiral begins and they see flaws in everyone else hoping it would distract them from their own reality. Why do women do this?
Is it really fair to generalize others, assume, and pick flaws like this and create hypocritical double standards.
Why do we do it? Why do we all do it? Why do we all pick flaws in others but refuse to see our own? Hmmm, interesting question indeed.
I think the best solution is just to accept people for who they are and accept yourself for what you are and what you have become. Picking flaws in others can quickly backfire IMO.
So why do you women prefer jocks when they are young and look for guys with abs and thick and long dicks? Why do the ladies at a young age always gravitate towards the bad boys who will treat them like shit? Why do women do this, until their body starts failing past 30, they start becoming out of shape and realize they cant attract the top guys any more. So what do they do? They worry about becoming lonely, they look for flaws in others and refuse to look at their own mistakes and choices and refuse to accept that they are a result and consequence of their actions and refuse to accept who they have become. Thus they look for losers to settle down with and hope someone will see past their insecurities and flaws that they themselves avoided in guys when they were growing up. Thus the vicious downward spiral begins and they see flaws in everyone else hoping it would distract them from their own reality. Why do women do this?
Is it really fair to generalize others, assume, and pick flaws like this and create hypocritical double standards.
Why do we do it? Why do we all do it? Why do we all pick flaws in others but refuse to see our own? Hmmm, interesting question indeed.
I think the best solution is just to accept people for who they are and accept yourself for what you are and what you have become. Picking flaws in others can quickly backfire IMO.
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OnTheWayOut
I would hope most people know an SP won't see a certain ethnic group because of safety reasons or because of a bad attitude. If most asian people posed a problem for you, would you still see them? I don't think it's ignorant if someone wants to protect themselves physically and/or emotionally. There is bad and good in each ethnic group and age group If someone is experiencing a disproportionally higher number of problems in certain groups or ages, its normal and smart to want to avoid them.These women don't put these stipulations in their ads because "they don't think certain "ethnic groups are not beautiful enough" ( your words)There is beauty in all races . Don't be so harsh. I did not read Madonna question to be spiteful. She is just inquiring and asking the men to enlighten her. That's all.
What about Biker Pimps? Asian Gang Pimps? Aboriginal Pimps? Italian Mafia Pimps? Russian Mafia Pimps? They are all very active in the GTA as well, but yet it's the Black Pimps who get all the attention...
I think Madonna's question was a fair one.
When I used to be a bit chubby I had a very overweight client tell me I needed to lose weight. It was not that he said it that upset me - it was the way he said it (he was almost laughing at me). It made me wonder if he said it just to make himself feel better.
When I used to be a bit chubby I had a very overweight client tell me I needed to lose weight. It was not that he said it that upset me - it was the way he said it (he was almost laughing at me). It made me wonder if he said it just to make himself feel better.
Dating and seeing an escort are two very different things.
The whole point of seeing an escort is to get with someone you otherwise wouldn't. Be that because you're married, or you're socially inept, you lack variety, or yes, you're not physically attractive. So I can 100% understand why overweight men would only want to see in-shape women. And frankly, I don't think they're wrong to do so. Their money, their wants.
Now, if an overweight guy strictly dates thin women and judges all others, that's still his choice but somewhat hypocritical.
The whole point of seeing an escort is to get with someone you otherwise wouldn't. Be that because you're married, or you're socially inept, you lack variety, or yes, you're not physically attractive. So I can 100% understand why overweight men would only want to see in-shape women. And frankly, I don't think they're wrong to do so. Their money, their wants.
Now, if an overweight guy strictly dates thin women and judges all others, that's still his choice but somewhat hypocritical.
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So which group are you saying is populated 'mostly' by individuals that pose a problem??
