Best way to have a p-spot orgasm solo?

SexB

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So, I've made it my life's mission to have a prostate orgasm after hearing that the secrets of a universe are revealed when you have one.

I've made several attempts both solo and with a provider but nada so far. I am planning to book with a provider who offers prostate massage in the coming months but until then, I was just wondering if anyone has any advice.

I own three prostate toys, an Aneros Helix Syn, a Lelo Hugo and Alpha Pro P-Spot Milker and Strap, pictures are below.

I've started experimenting with turning my bathroom into a crude sensory-deprivation tank, turning off the lights, pulling the curtains and doing my best to relax and concentrate as well as experimenting with the different settings on the Hugo and Alpha-Pro. I did experience some results using the Aneros, things were sensitive, in a good way, after one session but I have yet to achieve the elusive p-spot orgasm as I've dubbed it.

And even though I've heard it's one of the best ways to stimulate the prostate, getting pegged is one of my unmoving lines in the sand. All power to you if you enjoy it but it's just a little out of my comfort zone.
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Shaquille Oatmeal

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Book with a pro-domme like Ms. Violet Mays.
She is very knowledgeable and would be able to help you.
 

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I've been in a similar situation as you. I've been desperate to get a prostate orgasm for over 10 years. Have tried multiple times solo and with provider and have only gotten close once and oddly that was with her finger. No toy, pegging, vibrator, etc. ever got me close. If there's some method or provider that can give us the holy grail of orgasms please tell.
 

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As bad as it’s sounds, you need a partner to experiment with, not an SP. You need time and being comfortable with your reliable partner, regardless of gender - it could be a girl, tgirl, CD or even a guy.

Prostate orgasm can’t be found and reached overnight, but it worth the long search.
 

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So, I've made it my life's mission to have a prostate orgasm after hearing that the secrets of a universe are revealed when you have one.

I've made several attempts both solo and with a provider but nada so far. I am planning to book with a provider who offers prostate massage in the coming months but until then, I was just wondering if anyone has any advice.

I own three prostate toys, an Aneros Helix Syn, a Lelo Hugo and Alpha Pro P-Spot Milker and Strap, pictures are below.

I've started experimenting with turning my bathroom into a crude sensory-deprivation tank, turning off the lights, pulling the curtains and doing my best to relax and concentrate as well as experimenting with the different settings on the Hugo and Alpha-Pro. I did experience some results using the Aneros, things were sensitive, in a good way, after one session but I have yet to achieve the elusive p-spot orgasm as I've dubbed it.

And even though I've heard it's one of the best ways to stimulate the prostate, getting pegged is one of my unmoving lines in the sand. All power to you if you enjoy it but it's just a little out of my comfort zone.
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Are you looking to have an orgasm with prostate stimulation only, with no penile stimulation? Or to use prostate stimulation to augment a penis induced orgasm such that the secrets of the universe are revealed? I haven’t been successful with the former, but(t) 😉 if it’s the latter, I found that using an aneros while fucking a sleeve type toy like a fleshlight works great. The fucking motion contracted your pelvic floor muscles moving the aneros to stimulate the prostate, and when you orgasm it’s very prolonged and you’ll cum like a fountain, as the contractions of your pelvic floor muscles move the aneros to rub the prostate with each ejaculation.

Closest I’ve experienced with a partner was her giving me a bj while she had her finger rubbing my prostate. Poor girl, I nearly drowned her when I came. I miss her so much (she was disappointed she couldn’t swallow it all 😊). I’ve never tried intercourse with a partner while wearing the Aneros. That might be fucking awesome tho 😈.
 

SexB

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Are you looking to have an orgasm with prostate stimulation only, with no penile stimulation? Or to use prostate stimulation to augment a penis induced orgasm such that the secrets of the universe are revealed? I haven’t been successful with the former, but(t) 😉 if it’s the latter, I found that using an aneros while fucking a sleeve type toy like a fleshlight works great. The fucking motion contracted your pelvic floor muscles moving the aneros to stimulate the prostate, and when you orgasm it’s very prolonged and you’ll cum like a fountain, as the contractions of your pelvic floor muscles move the aneros to rub the prostate with each ejaculation.

Closest I’ve experienced with a partner was her giving me a bj while she had her finger rubbing my prostate. Poor girl, I nearly drowned her when I came. I miss her so much (she was disappointed she couldn’t swallow it all 😊). I’ve never tried intercourse with a partner while wearing the Aneros. That might be fucking awesome tho 😈.
I actually do own a Fleshlight, I've enhanced it by slipping a bullet vibrator into it. I'll definitely give that a try.

I've made a few attempts with one provider I see. As I said, I'm going to have to look in booking with a lady who specializes in it. As for having an Aneros in during intercourse, if I were do do it with a partner I was in a committed or at least exclusive relationship with, it would probably make for some massive creampies!

Just to add to this, there was a lady who was discussed a while ago, I can't remember her name only that she was Asian and toured, and one of her specialties was prostate massage. I made it a point of monitoring her website to see if/when she was going to come back but I forgot her name and the search parameters are too vague to find her again. There are a couple ladies I'm hoping to book with who specialize in prostate play but I hate to carrot dangle so I'm not going to name any names.
 
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SexB

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Yup, bumping this.

I got to thinking that I may try just laying on my bed with the blinds pulled, my sleep mask on and either white noise, relaxing nature sounds on an erotic ASMR in my earphones.
 
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