OK, I have not been to a bar or club in years only once before years ago. But, basically I am club unaware anymore. I have been out once in maybe 15 years now. I want to know a place where the men are around 40+ but not in wheel chairs ok. I finally got an offer of a babysitter from a woman who wants me to get out and live for a change. lol I told her not interested in a relationship now but she said but that should not stop you to go and enjoy yourself. Hence, I am being pressured to get the bleep out and live. Hey, I am breathing aren't I? hmmm a respectful crowd I suppose to would be nice, but not a crowd who will think it strange a woman comes in alone. Dang, I dunno not too appealing to me to go in alone but..... Is this so stange now a days to do so?