being tied up by a client you have never meet

[johnbeverley]

Thank you for all your responses, I think that being submissive is one thing, but being tied up by a stranger who then gets all defensive because I asked a question on this board, without saying his handle so( I wasn't trying to embarrass him, in anyway) or break his so call trust,( statement which is very strange) . I think he is just playing games I just think people need to ask questions when in doubt and this board is op's and sp's to do that. Thanks again Amber
http://foxxxylady.callgirlfiles.com/home/

It is difficult to know if the person means harm or not. Why take the risk ?

I agree with some comments here that the behaviour normally comes from someone who is insecure.

 

[foxxxy lady]

Foxxxy Lady,
I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you before, but I think I can relate. I've had requests like this before and they really are not worth the risk in my opinion. For me it's just a matter of ruining the mood before you even meet, before the initial building of a rapport. I mean, once comfortable with someone, it's much easier to talk about kinks and fantasies right? I understand for many, they want to ensure they get the experience they want, but it may be a question of what risks you are willing to take in your profession. I know I'd be averse to agreeing to being tied up on a first date.. heck I'm even hesitant if a couple contacts me. I'm just a small person so safety is huge for me. If he had gone a different approach, perhaps.. but the way he went about it doesn't leave a good first impression and his reaction, completely distasteful.
Florence.

Thank you for your imput
sexy girl xo amber

 

[foxxxy lady]

A dominant gentleman with any experience would never ask a sub to be tied on a first meeting. This man is obviously experimenting. I'm sure he may have meant no harm, but why would anyone take that risk?

If the gent in question is reading this my advice to him is to find a provider with submissive tendencies and develop a trust relationship with her. If you build a rapport with a lady and she becomes able to trust you it won't take long before she'll allow you to bind her, blindfold her, etc.
Stay safe Amber ... and good luck to the gent.

Thanks Jessica

I agree, he needs to find someone who is in the BDMS section , xo Amber

 

[foxxxy lady]

I just wandered into this thread ... I just want to say that the picture of you behind the gauzy cloth is one of the most erotic pictures I have ever seen. Wow!

Thanks sweetie here some more
xo amberhttp://foxxxylady.callgirlfiles.com/home/

 

[gcostanza]

Thanks sweetie here some more
xo amberhttp://foxxxylady.callgirlfiles.com/home/

The link is broken. :Cry:

 

[anonymong]

Thanks sweetie here some more
xo amberhttp://foxxxylady.callgirlfiles.com/home/

O.M.G. You look like a fantasy somehow made real.

If I ever try SP instead of my usual MP hobbying I think I know exactly who I will contact. Although to be truthful, my heart is racing so much from the pics on your website that I and my old ticker might not be able to take any more than that. Have mercy!

Still, that picture of you behind the gauze is a triumph of sexy photography and it is unforgettable.

I am glad I wandered into this thread.

 

[onetrusted]

I usually won't even bring up the subject of bondage until I've seen the SP for at least 4 - 5 sessions.

 

[Phil C. McNasty]

You're a hot looking redhead. I wanna tie you up too

 

[WoodPeckr]

Thought americanson always got tied up.....

When did he start wanting to do the tying up of SPs???.....:eyebrows:

 

[Bianca Bailey]

I don't know but your signature picture looks amazing and alluring, so soft and beautiful. How did you capture that? Or do you have photographer information please?

 

[Malika Fantasy]

The only time I would agree to be tied by a client I've never meet before would be during a duo with a lady that I trust.

 

[MissCroft]

A dominant gentleman with any experience would never ask a sub to be tied on a first meeting. This man is obviously experimenting. I'm sure he may have meant no harm, but why would anyone take that risk?

True. I lean towards the submissive side but would also never let a guy I just met tie me up. It happened to me once a few years ago where I let a first-time client tie me up and gag me and I felt so uncomfortable because he got creepy. Then he didn't want to pay me the full amount because I wanted to stop. (I was willing to stay - just didn't want to be bound anymore). Will not do that again unless I trust the person.

 

[italianguy74]

Personally i dont see the point of tying up a girl. She will need both hands to handle this python lol
But seriously how well do you know someone even after a couple of sessions? That type of service should be done at a brothel or when there are friends in the next room.