How many of you guys are competetive with your girlfriends x-boyfriends? I am! Maybe I am foolish, but I choose to ask how I stack up with the x's. The girls I have dated, and gotten involved with, have been honest with me. My last girlfriend had a previous boyfriend for 3 years. He was 19 years younger than she was. I was 6 years older than her. I asked her how many times he did it with her in one day. She said 5. I did it 8 times with her the next day. My present girlfriend had a boyfriend 12 years younger than her for about 2 years. I am 5 years older than her. I asked her how I compare to her past 5 boyfriends in the past 10 years. She said I was # 2. The guy named steve that was 12 years younger was # 1. She was honest with me, which I like. But this generated something inside me to become #1. Maybe I changed my attitude with her with regard to passion, emotion, lust and sex. I became an animal with her. She went crazy with me. I have always been respectful and not too forward with lady's. She now calls me every chance she gets, to come over and fuck. She has turned into a sex maniac, and so have I. I know now who is #1 without asking, which I never will. Why am I so competetive?
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I am not so sure that you solved your problem. The only thing you really know is (a) your girlfriend is a cougar who is in her sexual prime, and (b) she likes younger guys. Her "sex maniac" persona is a product of her age, attitude and self image, not necessarily a reaction to your "studliness".
My advice is to quit asking for validation and quit analyzing your success. You have a girlfriend who loves sex and wants it as much or more than you do. Its a nice problem to have. Dont ruin it by meddling in the mechanics of the equation, just enjoy the ride while it lasts.
My advice is to quit asking for validation and quit analyzing your success. You have a girlfriend who loves sex and wants it as much or more than you do. Its a nice problem to have. Dont ruin it by meddling in the mechanics of the equation, just enjoy the ride while it lasts.
There will always be someone who is bigger, faster, stronger, who has a bigger schwang,or a faster car, or makes more money.
If the person you care about decides to be with you, then the question of who is #1 is already answered.
If the person you care about decides to be with you, then the question of who is #1 is already answered.
Okay, your girlfriend is still on your knee and that's why you made this post, right?Barracuda Bob said:
Get her out of the room and tell us what you really think...
She's up in the tub now, but that's what I think. If thats not true all of us average joe's would be alone.
Sorry if that sounds kinda gay.
Sorry if that sounds kinda gay.
No. 1 for now, until she meets someone bigger, faster, wealthier or better looking. Just my two cents.Barracuda Bob said:
I'm not bitter.
