Being an Escort - AMA!

[kherg007]

That's a hot read!!! This makes me really wanna do my first duo as an escort....

Lol yes thats the best thing about this biz. I can punch above my weight and no strings. But I honestly truly adore my regs. But I also recognise "the line", and I think my lady friends know that I know it, so they can cut loose a bit more without worrying whether I'll misinterpret their affection back to me as meaning they want to date for real. I use this metaphor all the time: "this biz is like WWE wrestling. Do not ask if it is real. Only ask if you were entertained."

In the situation where I did date a pro lady for real, after she made her statement about the eating (lol), I said something like "if I ever date again for real I'd like a lady who has your physical appearance" then she piped up " I'd date you for real" which spun me out for a bit, but regained my bearings and and said would ya like to pop across the street for a drink? She said yair, and off we went.

And I think we older blokes are a bit more gentle/respectful as well as the fact we had to learn about sex from actual women not from watching porn. Porn is more about visuals, whereas actual women are wired a bit different. Exploring a new lady's body is like the most exciting thing. Once in a duo one lady discovered through an innocent kiss to her foot that she reacted disproportionately to it...Thus had second lady dive into first ladys kitty and I licked first ladys toes and she went full bucking Bronco and just exploded! She said she never had such an O! And then the other lady said "do that to me!" So we swapped out ladies and I manned the toes whilst other lady did daty and another great result. Second lady admitted she liked the toe stuff but was a bit shy to admit until the other lady raised the option. Normally I'm not a toe licker but anytime an over the hill type like me can excite a lovely lady...I'm in!

Btw could not help but notice you got a bit o' a bum on you, a bit more rare in Asian ladies. In my civilian life I dated around 4 and a half Asian ladies (lol one half japanese half brazilian, who would be the #1 ex I'd like to have sex w again) but all butt (lol) one had a bit of unstereotypical bounce back there. Do the lads ever comment to you on that?

 

[Insidious Von]

There are Arsenal fans on this board.

Ok I'm asking it. Is this what a night out with you is like?

 

[kherg007]

That's a hot read!!! This makes me really wanna do my first duo as an escort....

The thing to keep in mind on the duos: 1. Most blokes want to be centre of attention. Thus you and duo partner will be doing most focus on him. I'm a bit more rare in wanting to be teammate who really encourages ladies to "get their bi on!" LOL. I do tell them please don't worry about me I'll get mine, follow your desires. See a boob that looks good? Go right at it.
2. Some ladies NOT interactive so they won't touch you much. Thus make sure you know her style, and let her know your style. In some of my pairings, the ladies often have a quick discussion at the start, "ok you're good with everything but just no digits" or whatever.
3. If you like interactive, it's ok to tell SFT and list out which other SFT ladies you're willing to duo with. Or maybe say you will duo with bi or bi curious ladies only. Or whatever. But you are in charge of your body that way.
4. Shit. Locked out of canada. You'd be ideal to have in a duo. Your sexy curiosity would be....ethereal. lol.

 

[Ahri]

The thing to keep in mind on the duos: 1. Most blokes want to be centre of attention. Thus you and duo partner will be doing most focus on him. I'm a bit more rare in wanting to be teammate who really encourages ladies to "get their bi on!" LOL. I do tell them please don't worry about me I'll get mine, follow your desires. See a boob that looks good? Go right at it.
2. Some ladies NOT interactive so they won't touch you much. Thus make sure you know her style, and let her know your style. In some of my pairings, the ladies often have a quick discussion at the start, "ok you're good with everything but just no digits" or whatever.
3. If you like interactive, it's ok to tell SFT and list out which other SFT ladies you're willing to duo with. Or maybe say you will duo with bi or bi curious ladies only. Or whatever. But you are in charge of your body that way.
4. Shit. Locked out of canada. You'd be ideal to have in a duo. Your sexy curiosity would be....ethereal. lol.

I guess I gotta keep waiting and I totally get your second point. I feel like some ladies woudnt want to have a full on Bi experience.

The WWE part and the older men... Is very true..

I do appreciate your inputs and stories

 

[Ahri]

There are Arsenal fans on this board.

Ok I'm asking it. Is this what a night out with you is like?

Unfortunately it's not I'm doing some school work and this is my healthy distraction

 

[jalimon]

To be honest it has always been on mind... I genuinely enjoy it. I have a high sex drive and to be honest this is something hot and taboo for me. It was not really about the money as people may assume.

I have been in this for about 8-9 years now following a separation. Did not wanted another gf around to raise my kids. So i turned to see sp and a few girl via SA.

I have seen 3 pattern of all the SP i decided to see.
1. The student who do this to pay her schooling then quit. These ones were my favourite. To this day i am still in contact with one via Linkedin.
2. The girl that decided that the money was so good that she focused on this a lot for a short time. I have seen a few retire millionaire by 22.

For both of these 2 pattern i would say they all had a very high sex drive. Money was the second win in a win win situation Sex was the first win.

3. Then there is the party girl... Doing this with no real ambition. Lacking the exit plan b. its in that pattern that i saw quite a few drug addict or alcoholic unfortunately. I would have like to help a few of them because they were still great girl... Just lost... But I already have 2 kids to take care of...

As for the parties i have done a lot of 3,4,5,6,7 and even 8 somes all in the Montreal area. And probably a dozen gangbang. Always with top girl. Those were so much fun. One advise ask your client to never write about those if you do some. There are many readers here who do not understand these things... Or are jealous I don't know.

Would love to be able to go to TO to meet you but can't

Cheers,

 

[Ahri]

I have been in this for about 8-9 years now following a separation. Did not wanted another gf around to raise my kids. So i turned to see sp and a few girl via SA.

I have seen 3 pattern of all the SP i decided to see.
1. The student who do this to pay her schooling then quit. These ones were my favourite. To this day i am still in contact with one via Linkedin.
2. The girl that decided that the money was so good that she focused on this a lot for a short time. I have seen a few retire millionaire by 22.

For both of these 2 pattern i would say they all had a very high sex drive. Money was the second win in a win win situation Sex was the first win.

3. Then there is the party girl... Doing this with no real ambition. Lacking the exit plan b. its in that pattern that i saw quite a few drug addict or alcoholic unfortunately. I would have like to help a few of them because they were still great girl... Just lost... But I already have 2 kids to take care of...

As for the parties i have done a lot of 3,4,5,6,7 and even 8 somes all in the Montreal area. And probably a dozen gangbang. Always with top girl. Those were so much fun. One advise ask your client to never write about those if you do some. There are many readers here who do not understand these things... Or are jealous I don't know.

Would love to be able to go to TO to meet you but can't

Cheers,

I would say I would be in between 1&2 most of the earnings I got has been put in a safe investment portfolio. I appreciate how my thread became an AMA and now has become an advice thread. I appreciate it.

One thing I wanna stress is that I appreciate how nice everyone has been!

 

[Toxboy75]

Glad you are making the best of all the advice you are getting.

Sexually, do you have any restrictions or are you open to try anything once?

 

[Insidious Von]

Unfortunately it's not I'm doing some school work and this is my healthy distraction

I reasonable answer, I'll go with it. And you've watched The Sopranos, impressive. Not wanting to hijack your thread, Ive posted the rest in the "Going Back to the Theater" thread.

One more question...do you speak Napolitan?

 

[Akila Besos]

Another one are you worried about the day you burn out?

 

[Jenesis]

I don't think I have ran into a client with such a huge "unit" where it was impossible for it to workout.

I did once. He was like 13 inches. He was a great guy about it though. We got in just not all the way in. Oral was basically out of the question except for licking. You just could get your mouth around it. It was thick as well as long.

The poor guy - we talked for a bit after and he admitted to how difficult it is to have sex. How a lot of women just show him the door after he shows his package.

He said he wished he could stop hearing about guys wanting a bigger dock because he said it is not all it’s cracked up to be.

and what’s worse - he really likes ass and wanted Anal so bad with someone. It was the only porn he would watch. Something he figured he would never be able to get.

We lost contact after I had to spot escorting because my mainstream job was getting into busy season. Happens a lot for me. Well did pre-pandemic. By the last visit I was able to take about 80% for about 10 mins and then I was done.

And for all those guys who I know are curious. He was white. As pale as white can be. LOL

Another one are you worried about the day you burn out?

The day I no longer want sex is the scariest day for me. LOL.

 

[nottyboi]

I did once. He was like 13 inches. He was a great guy about it though. We got in just not all the way in. Oral was basically out of the question except for licking. You just could get your mouth around it. It was thick as well as long.

The poor guy - we talked for a bit after and he admitted to how difficult it is to have sex. How a lot of women just show him the door after he shows his package.

He said he wished he could stop hearing about guys wanting a bigger dock because he said it is not all it’s cracked up to be.

and what’s worse - he really likes ass and wanted Anal so bad with someone. It was the only porn he would watch. Something he figured he would never be able to get.

We lost contact after I had to spot escorting because my mainstream job was getting into busy season. Happens a lot for me. Well did pre-pandemic. By the last visit I was able to take about 80% for about 10 mins and then I was done.

And for all those guys who I know are curious. He was white. As pale as white can be. LOL



The day I no longer want sex is the scariest day for me. LOL.

Haha great to hear, I have always wondered about those guys, not being able to fully get it in and enjoy slowly grinding away...I guss there are pros and cons.

 

[jalimon]

Haha great to hear, I have always wondered about those guys, not being able to fully get it in and enjoy slowly grinding away...I guss there are pros and cons.

The absolute best compliment I received from an SP is telling me she liked my dick as it was exactly the size of her dildo

 

[monkeys01]

If this thread is still being answered, what's your goldilocks dick to enjoy ?

 

[Ahri]

If this thread is still being answered, what's your goldilocks dick to enjoy ?

You gotta rephrase that haha

 

[Ahri]

Another one are you worried about the day you burn out?

Yes! But I take it one day at a time!

 

[MONTYY]

You should try to limit your number of shifts and hours worked to prevent premature burn out. No reason to work 5 days a week or more. Us guys do get concerned if a girl is working every single day. Work no more that 3 to 4 days a week and limit your hours, nothing longer than an 8 hour shift.

 

[Akila Besos]

Yes! But I take it one day at a time!

I like your mentality girl

Hmm if you could have any job in the world what would it be?

 

[symantec]

How many clients do you usually see on a typical day?

 

[Akila Besos]

You should try to limit your number of shifts and hours worked to prevent premature burn out. No reason to work 5 days a week or more. Us guys do get concerned if a girl is working every single day. Work no more that 3 to 4 days a week and limit your hours, nothing longer than an 8 hour shift.

I think even 4 shifts can be too much

Especially when done back to back

I think 2 no more then 3 is ideal