As some of you have seen I have shared my story on another board. I would like to share this with the TERBies here!
After reading Bi-Sherry's discussion on "Challenged Clients" and the fact that this topic isn't discussed that often I would like to share a my story as a physically challenged person in this hobby.
I was born with a condition commonly known as Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus. This condition affects the nervous system and has different degrees of severity. Some people are paralyzed from the waist down and use a wheelchair. As for me I was quite fortunate and I am able to walk. Many would describe me as being quite an independant person. I may need help now and then. I find standing for long periods of time and walking long distances can be quite tiring and painful so I have learned what my limits are and just do what I can. The reason why I have these symptoms is due to tightness or spasticity of the muscles especially in the legs. Light excercise can alleviate these symptoms somewhat but it will not cure my condition as I will live with this for the rest of my life.
Despite my limitations the one thing it hasn't kept me from enjoying is sexual intercourse. I am limited to what sexual postions I can perform due to my muscle spasticity.
Let me tell you people with more severe conditions than myself can enjoy sex as well
I have been in this hobby of and on for about two years now and I have met ladies who have been understanding and accommodating to my needs. I know there is ladies in this industry as well as males who have a disability that may have not felt 100% comfortable during their session. My reccommendation that will help is "Communication"! For the guys, when you are interested in meeting with a lady tell them by phone or e-mail your needs. Some people with disabilities require attendant care services which will require a little extra planning prior to the session. Another suggestion I have is to ask questions of each other to ensure whether your comfortable to go through with the encounter.
When I first meet with the lady I discuss with her that some sexual postions I prefer over others and during the actual session if I am in any discomfort at all to take a break or try another postion. We are together to enjoy being with each other
I do not hobby that often but when i do meet with an SP I share with her my needs as much as I am comfortable with. Disclosure of your condition to them is not neccessary unless you are ok with it.
I sure hope this has given you some new knowledge on understanding my condition as well other people with disabilities
Here is a link with some more info on my condition
http://www.sbhac.ca/index.php?page=main
I am open to any questions you may have!
After reading Bi-Sherry's discussion on "Challenged Clients" and the fact that this topic isn't discussed that often I would like to share a my story as a physically challenged person in this hobby.
I was born with a condition commonly known as Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus. This condition affects the nervous system and has different degrees of severity. Some people are paralyzed from the waist down and use a wheelchair. As for me I was quite fortunate and I am able to walk. Many would describe me as being quite an independant person. I may need help now and then. I find standing for long periods of time and walking long distances can be quite tiring and painful so I have learned what my limits are and just do what I can. The reason why I have these symptoms is due to tightness or spasticity of the muscles especially in the legs. Light excercise can alleviate these symptoms somewhat but it will not cure my condition as I will live with this for the rest of my life.
Despite my limitations the one thing it hasn't kept me from enjoying is sexual intercourse. I am limited to what sexual postions I can perform due to my muscle spasticity.
Let me tell you people with more severe conditions than myself can enjoy sex as well
I have been in this hobby of and on for about two years now and I have met ladies who have been understanding and accommodating to my needs. I know there is ladies in this industry as well as males who have a disability that may have not felt 100% comfortable during their session. My reccommendation that will help is "Communication"! For the guys, when you are interested in meeting with a lady tell them by phone or e-mail your needs. Some people with disabilities require attendant care services which will require a little extra planning prior to the session. Another suggestion I have is to ask questions of each other to ensure whether your comfortable to go through with the encounter.
When I first meet with the lady I discuss with her that some sexual postions I prefer over others and during the actual session if I am in any discomfort at all to take a break or try another postion. We are together to enjoy being with each other
I do not hobby that often but when i do meet with an SP I share with her my needs as much as I am comfortable with. Disclosure of your condition to them is not neccessary unless you are ok with it.
I sure hope this has given you some new knowledge on understanding my condition as well other people with disabilities
Here is a link with some more info on my condition
http://www.sbhac.ca/index.php?page=main
I am open to any questions you may have!
