Beat up the Bully????
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Get someone drunk in the bar and arrange to have them pick a fight with him! And when they cral on the floor all blodied, give im a vicious kick and throw your beer at him and get him fired for drinking and brawling.
Then go to his home and bang his wife, and date his 16 year old.
Good enough for ya?
Or mess up his orders by delivering five semis of bretzel to his bar while you watch.
Or organize a bikers convention there
Or reach out to him. maybe is a great guy and he can reveal your sensitive side (and his)
or become his drinking buddy
or get your kids to beat up his kids in the sandbox
or embrace religion together
Then go to his home and bang his wife, and date his 16 year old.
Good enough for ya?
Or mess up his orders by delivering five semis of bretzel to his bar while you watch.
Or organize a bikers convention there
Or reach out to him. maybe is a great guy and he can reveal your sensitive side (and his)
or become his drinking buddy
or get your kids to beat up his kids in the sandbox
or embrace religion together
The tension between us... your driving me crazy... making me wild... it's becoming too much to resist...Cardinal Fang said:
*lol*Let it go hun. Why would you and did you carry this "access baggage" this long? No one is making you carry it but you and it's doing (done) you no good.
When in doubt about past or recent issues with regards to people 'hurting you in anyway intensionally' always remember and say 1 word to yourself... KARMA
Annessa
xoxo
laughter is the best form of vengence.
that and success.
I remember encountering someone begging for change a couple years back, he was the guy on the football team who spent his spare time terrorising other students at the high school I attended a few decades ago.
and had a good laugh and wandered onto the rest of my day.
tis all goodly
that and success.
I remember encountering someone begging for change a couple years back, he was the guy on the football team who spent his spare time terrorising other students at the high school I attended a few decades ago.
and had a good laugh and wandered onto the rest of my day.
tis all goodly
Streetfighting is a funny thing.
There are no rules and anything can happen.
Although you might be bigger and stronger than the guy; he may pull out a beer bottle or a knife and fuck you up.
Or since he works at the bar that you may start the fight at; he may have a bunch of buddies who are more than willing to jump in and gang up on you.
The best thing to do (and the safest) is to punk him off.
Set his car on fire or buy him a drink and spike it with acid or GHB.
Or better yet; just set him up with transexual and don't tell him that she was a he til after the fact.
(Ask Doc Ock for the number of a good Asian he/she)!!!!
(Sorry, I just got back from the bar when I wrote this; so it may be a bit grammatically incorrect - bear with me....)
There are no rules and anything can happen.
Although you might be bigger and stronger than the guy; he may pull out a beer bottle or a knife and fuck you up.
Or since he works at the bar that you may start the fight at; he may have a bunch of buddies who are more than willing to jump in and gang up on you.
The best thing to do (and the safest) is to punk him off.
Set his car on fire or buy him a drink and spike it with acid or GHB.
Or better yet; just set him up with transexual and don't tell him that she was a he til after the fact.
(Ask Doc Ock for the number of a good Asian he/she)!!!!
(Sorry, I just got back from the bar when I wrote this; so it may be a bit grammatically incorrect - bear with me....)
ship him fedex to afghanistan
edit: "in a 1980s Soviet Army Uniform".
or perhaps dressed in a space helmet and a pink toutou
edit: "in a 1980s Soviet Army Uniform".
or perhaps dressed in a space helmet and a pink toutou
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Living well is the best revenge.
Here's a vile question - does your current vocation / career somehow allow you to be more financially endowed than your chilhood tormentor?
If so - screw him.
Unless he owns the bar - then that might be an issue.lol
Here's a vile question - does your current vocation / career somehow allow you to be more financially endowed than your chilhood tormentor?
If so - screw him.
Unless he owns the bar - then that might be an issue.lol
Living well is the best revenge.
Go in with a beautiful woman on your arm - or two - and make sure he sees how they hang on you. Buy a bottle of Cristal. Pretend you don't know him, and toss him a $20 and ask him to make sure no one dents your Hummer while you're there.
More painful than a beating, that's for sure.. well, unless he's at the bar because he owns it.
Morgan
Go in with a beautiful woman on your arm - or two - and make sure he sees how they hang on you. Buy a bottle of Cristal. Pretend you don't know him, and toss him a $20 and ask him to make sure no one dents your Hummer while you're there.
More painful than a beating, that's for sure.. well, unless he's at the bar because he owns it.
Morgan
Fascinating insight into how people think.
Beating up the guy may feel good for a little while, but it puts you in the wrong and carries a substantial risk to both of you. The other silly things mentionned like screwing his wife or daughter are just fantasy like you see on a bad soap opera.
But letting it go is difficult; it can eat away at you even though you might want to take the higher ground.
Being the target of a bully was a terrible, long lasting fear. Judging from the comments in this thread, many people have turned that fear into anger, which still eats at them. So, you've got to not just let it go, but confront it so that it doesn't bother you anymore. You have to prove to yourself that you have it within you to stand up to your worst fear.
The first thing is to acknowledge his existence. At a time and place of your choosing. Don't be threatening. That's important.
Expect his reaction to be a surprise to you, because the reasons why a kid would bully others are very, very complex. Watch his eyes. He may have forgotten you completely, or he may be sorry, or fearful, or he may have enjoyed it and look forward to more.
If he is not interested in bullying you more, then you're done; you confronted your fear, and it melted away when you did that. Most kids grow out of being a bully. Some don't.
The ones that don't are particularly dangerous; Mike Tyson said he had so much pain inside of him that the only way to make it go away for a little while was to hurt someone else. Badly. You don't want to get into a fight with a guy like that.
So the odds of him responding to a civil conversation in a hostile manner are actually quite low, but you have to expect that it may happen. Don't arrange to meet later, or get into a name calling yelling match. If he wants to fight, confront him immediately. Queity. Stay in control. Tell him to bring it on right now. Remember, this is about you confronting your fear, and has nothing to do with him at all.
You don't have to beat the crap out of him; you just have to not back down. If you are winning the fight, you can stop anytime you want. (And you should, to maintain you own sense of moral rightness). So what if you lose the fight? It means that you're not as good at a physical fight as he is. But you stood up to your fear.
The odds are you won't have a fight.
Most guys just let the fear and anger eat at them all their life.
Beating up the guy may feel good for a little while, but it puts you in the wrong and carries a substantial risk to both of you. The other silly things mentionned like screwing his wife or daughter are just fantasy like you see on a bad soap opera.
But letting it go is difficult; it can eat away at you even though you might want to take the higher ground.
Being the target of a bully was a terrible, long lasting fear. Judging from the comments in this thread, many people have turned that fear into anger, which still eats at them. So, you've got to not just let it go, but confront it so that it doesn't bother you anymore. You have to prove to yourself that you have it within you to stand up to your worst fear.
The first thing is to acknowledge his existence. At a time and place of your choosing. Don't be threatening. That's important.
Expect his reaction to be a surprise to you, because the reasons why a kid would bully others are very, very complex. Watch his eyes. He may have forgotten you completely, or he may be sorry, or fearful, or he may have enjoyed it and look forward to more.
If he is not interested in bullying you more, then you're done; you confronted your fear, and it melted away when you did that. Most kids grow out of being a bully. Some don't.
The ones that don't are particularly dangerous; Mike Tyson said he had so much pain inside of him that the only way to make it go away for a little while was to hurt someone else. Badly. You don't want to get into a fight with a guy like that.
So the odds of him responding to a civil conversation in a hostile manner are actually quite low, but you have to expect that it may happen. Don't arrange to meet later, or get into a name calling yelling match. If he wants to fight, confront him immediately. Queity. Stay in control. Tell him to bring it on right now. Remember, this is about you confronting your fear, and has nothing to do with him at all.
You don't have to beat the crap out of him; you just have to not back down. If you are winning the fight, you can stop anytime you want. (And you should, to maintain you own sense of moral rightness). So what if you lose the fight? It means that you're not as good at a physical fight as he is. But you stood up to your fear.
The odds are you won't have a fight.
Most guys just let the fear and anger eat at them all their life.
Escohort said:
You are thinking small.....if you are gonna go and lay hands on another person...you have to go all the way....you beat his wife, her best friend, his kids, their best friend, his parents, his bank loan officer, his pet goldfish......the man in the park who gave him candy some 7 years ago......his neighbour Bob and Janet
....don't do half-ass....if you are going to do it....then do it right
</Keysor Soze>
I grew up in a very small town and we had our resident school yard bully. He was much like Mike Tyson, very angry and just needed to hurt people. I moved away when I was in my teens and during a visit some 20 years later asked a relative about this bully. He was dead! He finally messed with the wrong guy.
It is difficult to walk away if you haven't been in that situation. As someone mentioned, it is not necessary to beat the guy anymore, just confront him, and knowing you could pummel him should be enough.
I was in a bar last week, two guys were pretty hammered and decided they were going to start a fight with me(They were so drunk I could hear everything they were saying). As I put my drink down to defend myself, the bouncer came over and stood between us. They moved away, and the bouncer left. A little while later I followed one of them into the washroom to see how tough he was without his friend. He was at the urinal, hardly able to stand up straight. I would have been able to beat the guy senseless, but at that point I would have been the bully. I turned around and walked out.
Sometimes you don't have to follow through, just knowing you could have done it is enough.
I was in a bar last week, two guys were pretty hammered and decided they were going to start a fight with me(They were so drunk I could hear everything they were saying). As I put my drink down to defend myself, the bouncer came over and stood between us. They moved away, and the bouncer left. A little while later I followed one of them into the washroom to see how tough he was without his friend. He was at the urinal, hardly able to stand up straight. I would have been able to beat the guy senseless, but at that point I would have been the bully. I turned around and walked out.
Sometimes you don't have to follow through, just knowing you could have done it is enough.
