Beat up the Bully????

[Esco!]

People, I have a question:

When I was in High school (grade 9) there was this guy who was a lot bigger than me who would sometimes beat me up for no apparent reason. This happened more then just once.
He then moved to Oakville and I never saw him again. Since then I have grown a lot taller, added some pounds and I have no doubt I could kick the living crap out of the guy.

So here's the catch: I've run into him again in a bar in Toronto and I'm pretty sure he's seen me as well (judging by his demeanor). I know he works at this bar full-time and the last time I was there he didnt look like he wanted anything to do with me. So here's the question:

Do I wait for him outside one night, ask for a rematch, and kick the living crap out of him in the back alley???
Or do I just let it go ???

I'd rather settle some scores but I'd like some other opinions

 

[jwmorrice]

What grade are you in now?

jwm

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Run him over with your car.

 

[red]

yes- but don't ask

 

[jwmorrice]

Originally posted by Cardinal Fang Run him over with your car.

Business a little slow, Perry?

jwm

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Ok....get yychobbyist to "full-arm" fark him and you can sit back and laugh at him.

 

[Esco!]

Re: well

let it go...besides what happens if he beats you up again just like than?...no disrespect but size doesnt always mean youre stronger by any means

LOL....boy will I look stupid if I get my ass kicked again

 

[mtl_guy]

Not in the bar.

Find out where he lives. Go to his house on Sunday.

Punch him in the face in front of his wife and kids.

 

[baci2004]

Kick his ass!!!

I can't wait untill I run into my bully. My friend see him from time to time at this bar, but I keep missing him. I have it all planned out...Hey!!! How ya been? Whatcha drink'n? Here let me buy ya one. Pour in on him, then drag him outside (by his hair of course) then do exactly what he did to me.

 

[torex]

I guess I was a bully to

I used to kick the crap out of the bullies when I caught them beating up the weaker kids

 

[xarir]

If you really want to f*ck him up, buy the bar. Then you own his ass.

Either that or get yyc to do the full-arm fark routine.

 

[Jamaica-luvr]

Why is when these guys see you later on in life, they think you are their best buddy?

Had something similar thing happen to me...guy used to beat the crap out of me in Scouts...I was his personal whipping boy...he was 17, I was 14...fast forward 10 years...now I'm 24, he's 27, and he thinks we're buds...I waited till I saw him go into the washroom, and dunked his head several times in the bowl...asshat....

 

[rama putri]

Why am not surprised at this question here on TERB?

 

[papasmerf]

try this on for size.

When you protect some one from a bully or defends yourself from one, you are in the right.

When you attack one years later andhave no cause you are the bully.

If you must have satisifaction, ask him publicly why he bullied you.

 

[Asterix]

Do I wait for him outside one night, ask for a rematch, and kick the living crap out of him in the back alley???
Or do I just let it go ???

Always good to see another terb member make the first tentative steps to try and get beyond grade 9.

 

[bkspoiler11]

ren getting even

K this is a really good thread. Ok right now I tell forget about that let it go or move on with the hat check girl if it's bothering you. I had the same thing happen to me. This guy used to consently bother me in public school. I was a skinny kid also. 11 yrs and 210 lbs in total later after grade school I ran into this guy and he was derespecting me and guess what I fucking decked him. I heard throught the grapevine I actually broke the guys nose. In retrospect I got no regrets on what I did. He thought he could carry on with what happen in grade school but I took care of that piece of garbage. Reading this thread about maturity and letting it go are fine if it don't bother u. However if it does bother confront the guy. Say hey remember me or something like that? And remember might be a good idea to have some witnesses around just incase if the guy wants to press charges. I had all that so the guy couldn't do all that. The bottom line is some times u gotta do some bad things to get respect. As said earlier, no regrets what so ever.

 

[xix]

my options.

1. forget about ( can be hard)
2. buy the bar and be his boss which may not last long
3. Do the wife
4. Film/video him going into a MP then send it to the wife and mother
5. if he/she says anything to you simple respond " you haven't changed" meaing his attitude.
6. Break his car window without being seeing.

7 ( my favourite) he'll get his medicine in this life or in the next life.

 

[cnmb]

Be careful, he maybe read this thread now, and get well prepared.

 

[MojoRisin']

Call Jenny Jones and do one of those "Look at me now" shows. Wait is she still on? I remember her stripper shows and there was always some dancer from Canada on there. recognized one from Vancouver. Hey, Jenny is canadian isnt she? from London i think. Hey Goob do you know her? hmmm where were we? oh yeah. Fuck the guy, move on. OR kick his ass. Your decision. Im drunk!

 

[CH812]

Re: my options.

7 ( my favourite) he'll get his medicine in this life or in the next life. [/B]

I believe in karma to but.........Revenge is always sweeter though when the recipient knows who and where its coming from.....