Bareback= STD

[learningtoplay]

Dont be a fool, like me, STDs are passed by bbbj's . I got one from a reputable provider in this city. I shared my test results with the girl and the agency and they claim she was negative. Well, unless you can get an STD from looking at someone she was the only potential source. I am ok now, but I am frustrated with the agency's denial. Potentially, they were claiming she was negative to protect their ass and the girl's reputation and still got her to get fixed up.
My symptoms started 3 days after the session and public health called my home to share the results with my SO.

I am not blamming anyone for this and I take full responsibility. I wasn't even mad with the SP. I am hoping that by sharing this story, without any blame, will prevent others from making the same mistake and hurting others.

P.S. My S.O. and I are getting through this. She actually accepted 50% of the blame for not providing sex at home.

 

[LancsLad]

Ouch! That would have been a tough phone call to get.

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

Dont be a fool, like me, STDs are passed by bbbj's . I got one from a reputable provider in this city. I shared my test results with the girl and the agency and they claim she was negative. Well, unless you can get an STD from looking at someone she was the only potential source. I am ok now, but I am frustrated with the agency's denial. Potentially, they were claiming she was negative to protect their ass and the girl's reputation and still got her to get fixed up.
My symptoms started 3 days after the session and public health called my home to share the results with my SO.

I am not blamming anyone for this and I take full responsibility. I wasn't even mad with the SP. I am hoping that by sharing this story, without any blame, will prevent others from making the same mistake and hurting others.

P.S. My S.O. and I are getting through this. She actually accepted 50% of the blame for not providing sex at home.

Thanks for sharing. Care to say what the symptoms were?

 

[dorf]

Dont be a fool, like me, STDs are passed by bbbj's . I got one from a reputable provider in this city. I shared my test results with the girl and the agency and they claim she was negative. Well, unless you can get an STD from looking at someone she was the only potential source. I am ok now, but I am frustrated with the agency's denial. Potentially, they were claiming she was negative to protect their ass and the girl's reputation and still got her to get fixed up.
My symptoms started 3 days after the session and public health called my home to share the results with my SO.

I am not blamming anyone for this and I take full responsibility. I wasn't even mad with the SP. I am hoping that by sharing this story, without any blame, will prevent others from making the same mistake and hurting others.

P.S. My S.O. and I are getting through this. She actually accepted 50% of the blame for not providing sex at home.

Oh my lord! Now I am concerned. Do you mind to share what kind of STD you got from the bbbj? You may pm me if you wish. Thanks!

 

[Oil Please]

Depends on the STD you got and public health has no right to give the info to anyone other than you.

Some STD's can take years to manifest. Bottom line is, now you know you have it, you need to take the ultimate in precautions from this point on.

Sheik is right they (Public Health) have no right sharing private info with anyone!

 

[learningtoplay]

Public Health Office is mandated to inform SO

I hate to contradict the Shiek, but if Ontario Public Health finds out that you have an STD they are mandated to help prevent the spreading of the STD. Ontario Public Health found out about because they actually do the test on your samples taken from a clinic. They know who your SO is and will contact them. My SO recieved a call from Ontario Public Health stating that I hve been diagnosed with Clamidia and that she should be checked out. They even did a follow up with her to ensure that she was tested.

 

[learningtoplay]

Sorry no name and agency

I appreciate everyone's personnal concerns and desire to know whom I am speaking of (SP & Agency). As I said earlier, the agency said the girls was tested and she was negative. I dont believe she tested negative, but i do believe she was tested and treated.
Here is what I know:
3 days after receiving bbbj i started to experience extreme pain when urinating. Before that, I hadnt been with anyone for nearly 4 months. I went to a clinic and was tested. They have you pee into 2 bottles. Initially they look for blood in the urine that would indicate gunorea. The bottles went to Public Health and I was negative on the gunorea but positive on clamidia. The Public Health Nurse had my name and home phone number from my Health Insurance Number and contacted my house with the results. They spoke with me and with my SO. They will not accept that you will speak to your wife. Again, they are mandated to prevent the spread of the desease.

 

[lickrolaine]

Public Health has a lot of power when it comes to std's.I remember a dancer/sp was at a northern bar in 1978 and a group of construction workers got her back to the hotel.Well she was in town for a couple of weeks,but some symptoms started to show up in some guys after the first week.The guy's were going and getting scrips for penicillin.Once the local Doc notified the health dept,she was confronted and told to get tested.She said she would when she got back home,to Montreal.They escorted the escort,lol,to the first bus and sent her packing,and I think she had to give them her Doctors name so a follow up could be done.Refusing to be tested meant going to jail.
Sure was a different job-site for a week or so,lots of guy's phoned home saying they had to work the next couple of weekends,lol.

 

[freshbreath]

if you go to hassle free, there's no way no one can know right?

 

[lickrolaine]

I appreciate everyone's personnal concerns and desire to know whom I am speaking of (SP & Agency). As I said earlier, the agency said the girls was tested and she was negative. I dont believe she tested negative, but i do believe she was tested and treated.
Here is what I know:
3 days after receiving bbbj i started to experience extreme pain when urinating. Before that, I hadnt been with anyone for nearly 4 months. I went to a clinic and was tested. They have you pee into 2 bottles. Initially they look for blood in the urine that would indicate gunorea. The bottles went to Public Health and I was negative on the gunorea but positive on clamidia. The Public Health Nurse had my name and home phone number from my Health Insurance Number and contacted my house with the results. They spoke with me and with my SO. They will not accept that you will speak to your wife. Again, they are mandated to prevent the spread of the desease.

Is it possible that you got it from your s/o and your bbbj was just coincidence? Just playin the devils advocate here.

 

[learningtoplay]

STD from SO

That is what the agency used as an argument. Yes, it is possible , but highly unlikely. My SO and I have sex about 3 times a year and it we havent had sex since November 11, 2005. We were both home that day drinking wine. If she gave it to me , it took 6 months for the symptoms to show up? I dont think so. I received a BBBj from an SP on Wednesday and the symptoms were full blown by Sunday.

 

[lickrolaine]

That is what the agency used as an argument. Yes, it is possible , but highly unlikely. My SO and I have sex about 3 times a year and it we havent had sex since November 11, 2005. We were both home that day drinking wine. If she gave it to me , it took 6 months for the symptoms to show up? I dont think so. I received a BBBj from an SP on Wednesday and the symptoms were full blown by Sunday.

Not to doubt the diagnosis,but before we got into the swing of things,lol,a few years ago,we had a monagamist relationship for over 20 yrs.Both being 100 percent faithfull to each other.Everytime she had a problem the first thing the medical people would reference to was an std.One time it turned out to be an appendix,another time it was an ovarian cyst,another time who knows,plus a few more.Each time it was a script for x amount of days.It seems they have moved from it being a "virus" back in the day and now it is an "std".

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

That is what the agency used as an argument. Yes, it is possible , but highly unlikely. My SO and I have sex about 3 times a year and it we havent had sex since November 11, 2005. We were both home that day drinking wine. If she gave it to me , it took 6 months for the symptoms to show up? I dont think so. I received a BBBj from an SP on Wednesday and the symptoms were full blown by Sunday.

Wine makes people want to fuck who otherwise would just do laundry and pass each other in the hallway.

 

[learningtoplay]

My Secret to No Sex with SO

I do care about the individual, but she is as fat as a horse and I cant stomach the idea of seeing her naked. Secondly, she is so insecure about her looks, that she doesnt want to be seen. She is funny, a good cook, smarter and more reasonalbe than most and likes have fun. The lifestyle, over the last 25 years has created an additional 200 + pounds. I stay with her for family reasons. I like our family situation. I was hoping that I could stray once in a while as a special treat to myself and live with my little secret until death. It didnt work.
I will probably continue to see escorts and will just insist on covered bjs. I have been tested several times in the last 3 weeks and am confident that I am clean.

 

[kramer]

Wouldn't the fact that knowing that a SO would be contacted if you tested positive be a HUGE deterrent to even getting checked out in the first place???

 

[cancowboy2001]

Is it possible that you got it from your s/o and your bbbj was just coincidence? Just playin the devils advocate here.

A quick scan of the online literature seems to indicate that the onset of symptoms is usually between one and three weeks - so well not inconceivable, the timing would appear to be wrong.
Also, chlamydia can be symptomless (?for a while - literature was not clear?) plus being that it was learingtoplay's first time in a long time, he may have been more vigilant about any unusual symptoms he was having.

 

[Rockslinger]

Another sobering lesson in the risks involved in sexual activities. Seems there was another gentleman who contracted warts even with a condom. However, we should bear in mind that there are risks in virtually all human activities. For example, it seems that at least 1-3 people drown every long summer weekend. Also, dozens of cyclists get injured or killed every year. We just have to be as care as humanly possible.

 

[JoyfulC]

Reports such as this one seem so incredibly confusing -- especially when we hear all the time that the rights of people who are HIV+ are protected. The way I understand the law, if my husband went for a physical and was told he had HIV, they would not be permitted to alert me to the fact as it would violate his medical privacy rights.

I believe that there is a law here in Ontario that allows the province to incarcerate a person who has tested positive for a communicable disease and who is believed to be reckless with respect to spreading that disease -- but I believe there's a process that must be gone through to get to that point. I don't think it's automatic or something they can decide to do on a whim -- it takes a court order and evidence to support it.

So how did this situation happen? Some guy's wife or girlfriend -- who he, himself, admits he's not sexually active with on anything like a regular basis -- and is informed of his medical status? Someone should be losing their license to practice over this.

..c..

 

[mrduke]

wow

that's quite understanding!!!

duke

 

[BottomsUp]

This should settle the argument of whether bbbj's are safe or not. Yes, chlymidia bacteria can reside in the throat and can be transmitted orally. No need to describe how the sp would have contracted such an infection. So the next time an sp says cum in my mouth baby, you may want to consider how many have been there before and if any were contagious. Kinda like a non lethal version of russian roulette.