Thought Id share what happened on my last date. My very last date was a repeat session with an SP I hand seen in a few months. I’m gonna leave her name out as I’m not trying to hurt her business, but want to share this experience. She’s a good woman and provider.
I was actually one of her first ever clients. I saw her when she at an agency a multiple times and we always had a great time overall. This was my first time seeing her as an Indy - $600/90 min session this time. She put in absolutely no effort in her appearance when seeing me. She greeted me with her hair wet, no make up and pajamas. I asked if she just got the shower and if she wanted some more time? She said no she’s good and that we can get started. I wanted to leave then but I gave her the benefit of doubt. My mistake. The REAL GF experience I guess. I showed up with a small dessert, flowers and small gift as her bday just passed. She was appreciative and took the gift and dessert and place them in a side table. As walked into the unit and she took the flowers, said thank you and proceeded to throw them on the loveseat in the unit. She then proceed chomping away on a salad she was eating. i instantly knew I wasn’t gonna be greeted with a kiss and hug. We sat and had a very brief catch up on our lives. But she spent majority of the time talking about her upcoming 5 hour dinner date later that evening. She even had her clothes laid out on the bed for her dinner date. She continued talking about her upcoming night and how she loves and prefers these types of dates, like if I we weren’t in the middle of a date I’m paying for. I tried giving her multiple chances and sway the conversation , but she kept talking about the guy she was seeing later that night. I finally had enough. I made a lot of effort to come see her and was getting played. I asked her to stop and then express my dissatisfaction with how everything was going. We are now about 25-30mins into our date time. I politely explained to her how incredibly unprofessional and rude she was being. I broke it down to her. It was like she was oblivious at how she was acting. With a stunned look on her face, she apologized. I suggested that I leave so she can finish getting ready for her more important date.As I headed for to the door, she stopped me. She kept saying how sorry she was and asked me to stay. I told her it’s best I go. She then offered to give me back most of the donation and apologized again for everything. I can hear in voice and see in her face she realized she was in the wrong and felt bad. I told her to keep it. It was never about the money. I just wished she showed me the same respect she was showing the guys she was seeing tonight. I turned around opened the door and left.
Late that night, she sent me a few long texts again apologizing for her behaviour. She also sent me all of the donation back. She was said she didn’t realize how bad things were and how she took me for granted. She said it was a wake up call to the lengths that some clients do go through to set up these dates. She said she went on the date but felt terrible to rest of the day about how she treated me. She went on about how she felt horrible about how she treated someone who’s been good to her as client from day 1. She offered me another date free of charge. Told her I’d get back to her. I don’t know if I will take her up on her offer.
I know she’s a good provider. She has tons of great reviews on here and my previous experiences were great. I just think she just took me (and guys like me) and the effort some of us put in to make a fun date happen - for granted. I make a honest living and partake in dates that I can afford. I’d live to do longer, more glamorous dates. But I do what I can but even more so it’s a service that I’m paying for. I think some girls get caught up in the lifestyle. She’s made a serious effort to make things right so I won’t hurt her business and say who she is. But it’s experiences like this that have me a little jaded about this industry at the moment. Maybe a break is needed.
All I can say is guys, make sure you stand up for yourselves. Don’t get taken for granted because you want the date to go well or just to have sex. can’t wait to hear yall thoughts. I’m sure I’m gonna get kill by some of you guys on here lol.
Slick
I was actually one of her first ever clients. I saw her when she at an agency a multiple times and we always had a great time overall. This was my first time seeing her as an Indy - $600/90 min session this time. She put in absolutely no effort in her appearance when seeing me. She greeted me with her hair wet, no make up and pajamas. I asked if she just got the shower and if she wanted some more time? She said no she’s good and that we can get started. I wanted to leave then but I gave her the benefit of doubt. My mistake. The REAL GF experience I guess. I showed up with a small dessert, flowers and small gift as her bday just passed. She was appreciative and took the gift and dessert and place them in a side table. As walked into the unit and she took the flowers, said thank you and proceeded to throw them on the loveseat in the unit. She then proceed chomping away on a salad she was eating. i instantly knew I wasn’t gonna be greeted with a kiss and hug. We sat and had a very brief catch up on our lives. But she spent majority of the time talking about her upcoming 5 hour dinner date later that evening. She even had her clothes laid out on the bed for her dinner date. She continued talking about her upcoming night and how she loves and prefers these types of dates, like if I we weren’t in the middle of a date I’m paying for. I tried giving her multiple chances and sway the conversation , but she kept talking about the guy she was seeing later that night. I finally had enough. I made a lot of effort to come see her and was getting played. I asked her to stop and then express my dissatisfaction with how everything was going. We are now about 25-30mins into our date time. I politely explained to her how incredibly unprofessional and rude she was being. I broke it down to her. It was like she was oblivious at how she was acting. With a stunned look on her face, she apologized. I suggested that I leave so she can finish getting ready for her more important date.As I headed for to the door, she stopped me. She kept saying how sorry she was and asked me to stay. I told her it’s best I go. She then offered to give me back most of the donation and apologized again for everything. I can hear in voice and see in her face she realized she was in the wrong and felt bad. I told her to keep it. It was never about the money. I just wished she showed me the same respect she was showing the guys she was seeing tonight. I turned around opened the door and left.
Late that night, she sent me a few long texts again apologizing for her behaviour. She also sent me all of the donation back. She was said she didn’t realize how bad things were and how she took me for granted. She said it was a wake up call to the lengths that some clients do go through to set up these dates. She said she went on the date but felt terrible to rest of the day about how she treated me. She went on about how she felt horrible about how she treated someone who’s been good to her as client from day 1. She offered me another date free of charge. Told her I’d get back to her. I don’t know if I will take her up on her offer.
I know she’s a good provider. She has tons of great reviews on here and my previous experiences were great. I just think she just took me (and guys like me) and the effort some of us put in to make a fun date happen - for granted. I make a honest living and partake in dates that I can afford. I’d live to do longer, more glamorous dates. But I do what I can but even more so it’s a service that I’m paying for. I think some girls get caught up in the lifestyle. She’s made a serious effort to make things right so I won’t hurt her business and say who she is. But it’s experiences like this that have me a little jaded about this industry at the moment. Maybe a break is needed.
All I can say is guys, make sure you stand up for yourselves. Don’t get taken for granted because you want the date to go well or just to have sex. can’t wait to hear yall thoughts. I’m sure I’m gonna get kill by some of you guys on here lol.
Slick
learn my lesson very very hard way !!
