Bad Client list -should there be one on Terb??

[joefire93]

I have known SinfulCiara for many many years. She is a great provider in the desert we know as Buffalo. She is very sincere in helping girls stay safe in this hobby. This site was created to help girls filter out bad clients from the experience of others. I do agree with the concern that private information does have the chance to leak out due to an "unethical" provider but I know she does her best to see that doesn't happen.

 

[JoyfulC]

The *closed* bad client list has been around a lot longer than the escort review board. The only difference is that clients were never invited to see, or respond to the contents on that list. Who knows what personal vendettas are being fulfilled or enabled there?

I admit, that's more than a possibility -- it's a reality. But you give the average SP too little credit.

Just as there are bogus bad reviews and shill reviews out there and the sophisticated hobbyist sees them for what they are, it's even more true that some "bad client" reports are targetted as questionable or even downright incredible based on the reputation of the SP who posted them.

Remember, there are fewer of us than there are of you, and unlike you, we're tied to our online aliases by real business profiles.

And finally, there is the money factor. Should I allow another SP to stand in the way of my making a dollar simply because she might have a vendetta against a customer who might have very legitimately turned her away or refused to be her victim?

I have always believed that SP reviews and the guys who buy into them are somewhat naive, but trust me that the same won't be true for us and bad clients. We're not just doing this to get our kicks -- we're doing it to support ourselves and our families. We can't afford to be as nonchalent as some of the hobbyists here. We must come into this with eyes wide open regarding both the customers we deal with and the other SPs who may seek to manipulate us.

I say let the escorts host their own seret review board and let them take part in ours. One day when the profession is populated with more real courtesans who understand the trade, than lost greedy desperate tempra-mental cases, or when SPs are motivated to show more respect for the client base that makes their career choice so worthwhile bad client lists and review boards wont be necessary.

You're onto the right thought, it's already not. Most of us make our living from repeat business -- new business accounts for a very small percentage of our overall business. So we can afford to be a bit more cautious, to be a bit more selective and to turn away those who sound a bit "off."

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[fuji]

Just as there are bogus bad reviews and shill reviews out there and the sophisticated hobbyist sees them for what they are, it's even more true that some "bad client" reports are targetted as questionable or even downright incredible based on the reputation of the SP who posted them.

Yeah but that misses the point. Whatever other SP's may think of the malicious review, that guy's personal information is now posted.

This isn't about MONEY. It's about PRIVACY.

 

[JoyfulC]

Which is why it's crucial that bad client lists be accessible only to known SPs (which sorta defeats the purpose, I know). And too, it encourages legit customers to go anonymous and evade verification -- another problem.

I agree with you on this one, Fiji -- I'm not a fan of bad client lists. I've never seen them to be effective. The guy who is the most dangerous of them all is the most likely to sidestep getting himself on a bad client list in any recognizable way.

But that said, just as I think reviews are utter bullshit, I also think bad client lists are utter bullshit -- but that doesn't stop them from happening. If they are going to happen, regardless of what you or I might believe, isn't it better to participate in setting some ground rules that at least attempt to protect the innocent?

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[mustluv_BBW_whitewomen]

Very good point




How is a closed forum going to help this problem? It`s not; it would just allow this to continue. Some of you guys talk with the girls & are aware of some of the harassment that we get & let`s be real people no one uses their real name on Terb & 95% of all emails are from hotmail accounts that can be recreated when that person is denied an appointment. I have been threatened with this before, he said he will just make up a new hotmail account & I will never no it`s him. Us girls need to protect ourselves from men like this & I`ll tell you one thing I do know, I`ve never been harassed from someone’s personal email account, it`s always a hotmail
This is also good for the guys to see, so they can understand some of the comments made to us in emails are not always appropriate & if you looking to spend sometime with a lady then learn to treat us like one.

My post https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=138092 which is what I assume this post was put up in reference to.

I TOTALLY agree with you.......