Average pay per meet for SB

[Flying Dutchman]

Hi guys,

A newbie (to the sugar bowl) question here. When you meet up with a SB for the first date and she declines to proceed further after drinks or dinner (e.g. lack of chemistry or connection), is it normal that you have to pay the agreed upon PPM anyways? I guess from her point of view she showed up for the M part of the PPM. She doesn't want her time wasted on someone who isn't serious. But it's not like you can agree upon all the rules (how much for what) while chatting on SA beforehand.

Not trying to be cheap but don't want to be taken advantaged of.

Thx,

FD

 

[Vera.Reis]

Hi guys,

A newbie (to the sugar bowl) question here. When you meet up with a SB for the first date and she declines to proceed further after drinks or dinner (e.g. lack of chemistry or connection), is it normal that you have to pay the agreed upon PPM anyways? I guess from her point of view she showed up for the M part of the PPM. She doesn't want her time wasted on someone who isn't serious. But it's not like you can agree upon all the rules (how much for what) while chatting on SA beforehand.

Not trying to be cheap but don't want to be taken advantaged of.

Thx,

FD

I would say agree on an amount for a dinner date (literally just the 2hrs of dinner) and then discuss the rest in person.

 

[jetfuel]

Considering if they are exclusive, i wouldn't mind paying $1500 per month, but the fact is that mostly are in multiple relationships.

That’s why it’s a waste of time and money.

 

[jetfuel]

Hi guys,

A newbie (to the sugar bowl) question here. When you meet up with a SB for the first date and she declines to proceed further after drinks or dinner (e.g. lack of chemistry or connection), is it normal that you have to pay the agreed upon PPM anyways? I guess from her point of view she showed up for the M part of the PPM. She doesn't want her time wasted on someone who isn't serious. But it's not like you can agree upon all the rules (how much for what) while chatting on SA beforehand.

Not trying to be cheap but don't want to be taken advantaged of.

Thx,

FD

You have paid for drinks and dinner, so she has gotten something out of the date. No need to pay anything extra, of course she will be pissed but you are the buyer.

 

[Leimonis]

Hi guys,

A newbie (to the sugar bowl) question here. When you meet up with a SB for the first date and she declines to proceed further after drinks or dinner (e.g. lack of chemistry or connection), is it normal that you have to pay the agreed upon PPM anyways? I guess from her point of view she showed up for the M part of the PPM. She doesn't want her time wasted on someone who isn't serious. But it's not like you can agree upon all the rules (how much for what) while chatting on SA beforehand.

Not trying to be cheap but don't want to be taken advantaged of.

Thx,

FD

I view a first meet as a potential waste of anyone's time. My time is just as valuable as SB's. And I am paying for drinks/dinner. If she is trying to charge for the first meet I am not responding to her messages anymore. If she counts her hourly $$ as carefully as an SP, I am better off with an actual SP as they are easier to book and more reliable.

 

[GeeBee]

I wouldn't be agreeing on a PPM rate until you've had the drinks and dinner. Offer to buy her a drink and dinner so that you can meet to discuss the arrangement in person. That way she knows you're serious and she's getting something for her time. If she doesn't want to do that it's a red flag in my opinion.

 

[rogerdodger]

I view a first meet as a potential waste of anyone's time. My time is just as valuable as SB's. And I am paying for drinks/dinner. If she is trying to charge for the first meet I am not responding to her messages anymore. If she counts her hourly $$ as carefully as an SP, I am better off with an actual SP as they are easier to book and more reliable.

Actually my time is way more valuable than any potential SB I might ever meet. I mean the main reason she is looking for a Sugar Daddy is most likely because she is strapped for cash and the $15/HOUR she is most likely averaging isn't making ends meet. She may be lucky enough to find a Sugar Daddy that likes her.