Avah Simonez, too low! No basic respect

[superwizard]

Yesterday before 6:00PM, I texted her and asked "could I book tonight?", and she replied "sure, I will let uno what time i'll be available today".

But later, I ping a few times but always got answer "I'm busy at the moment". The last time was at 12:00PM, no reply.....

I fully understand everybody has life. But please notice: Her 1st reply was a confirmation ---- "SURE, and will let me know the time", and, after that, no reply and time for whole night.

Either tell me at 1st time, not available, or later at anytime tell me not available, or, tell me a time then cancell if other thing comes up, all these are acceptable.

If always reply "I am busy ATM", why did you give me answer at first time "SURE, I will let uno time"? Then for whole night, no confirmation???

I am attaching the history. Not sure if it works because it is my first time attaching pics and it asks for URLs.

I do not know how to attach pic, because it asks for URLs, not like directly opening the windows resource browser and adding the pictures.

5: 48PM Client: hi xxxx, I follow your Twitter. I met you at XXX group before. And a few weeks ago I tried booking you at Mxxxx spa but not available. Could I book tonight?
MA: Hi sure Hunn I'll let uno what time I'll be available okay
Client: Sure. Kindly pls let me know ASAP, and, ......?
MA: ..... Sry Hun I'll let you know what time just busy ATM.

7: 00PM Client: Are you available tonight?
MA: No. I'm busy ATM plz

9:29PM Client: Still busy?
No reply anymore...........

 

[Mable]

I notice you are sort of new here, at least regarding posts. What you experienced is very common in this town; in fact, if you are treated with respect it is somewhat unusual. Don't sweat it or you will go nuts. Move on and leave her behind. Thanks for the review.

 

[asuran]

Next time, take the initiative and ask for specific time rather than let them set it up. They get messages all the time, you think they gonna keep track and reply to every single one?

Keep messages short and direct to the point when booking.

OP is also the guy who went ahead and saw Eve when she was under the weather.
Lacking common sense.
Lol

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?640893-Review-Korean-Eve-whitebay

 

[Nesbot]

You seem pretty demanding to me. I don’t see anything wrong with what she did. In fact, she took the time to respond. She could have ignored.

 

[blondefan]

You seem pretty demanding to me. I don’t see anything wrong with what she did. In fact, she took the time to respond. She could have ignored.

pretty much

 

[JohnnyFever]

I saw Avah a couple of times when she was with CMJ and Brass, she is great.

 

[superwizard]

I don't understand why I was demanding. Even if I was demanding it is her made me demanding. Why at first totally agreed then neither a confirmation, nor a deny. I am to attach history but just do not know how to.

 

[solo223]

when she said yes, you should have said a specific time. She didn't agree to anything except to say she was gonna be free later, if she could not confirm at the time just make plan B. If she confirms later on, great...if not move on to Plan B if you really want to get your rocks off. You must consider that a lot of things can happen in between, maybe she got booked for multiple hours, maybe something else happened, you can't really tell and putting blame on her is easy and not necessarily right. Give the girl a break, they don't always have their work phone in their lap. I've been ghosted before and/or cancelled, don't make too much of it, much less posting it here to give her an unwarranted reputation as a time waster. Hell, i was just postponed 3 times in 2 days by the same girl, but i know she's cool and so i just put it on circumstances that play out against me. I just voiced my disappointment with her privately, not here publicly. She promised to make good on it and i trust her to be fair. Keep in mind that some MA's and SP's do come here and see what's written, if you complain about such a mundane thing, it's you who may get blacklisted as a crybaby not worth seeing.

 

[superwizard]

Thanks for advicey. I do not care get blacklisted because I know good people do not behave like this. But probably asuran is partially correct. They just get messages all the time. They just accept initially but later they just do not take care, or other things can happen, but they just don't care what they say.

5: 48PM Client: hi xxxx, I follow your Twitter. I met you at XXX group before. And a few weeks ago I tried booking you at Mxxxx spa but not available. Could I book tonight?
MA: Hi sure Hunn I'll let uno what time I'll be available okay
Client: Sure. Kindly pls let me know ASAP, and, ......?
MA: ..... Sry Hun I'll let you know what time just busy ATM.

7: 00PM Client: Are you available tonight?
MA: No. I'm busy ATM plz

9:29PM Client: Still busy?
No reply anymore...........

 

[solo223]

it's work but to say they just don't care or that they are not good people is wrong, you don't even know her. I've met all kinds of wonderful ladies, some of which proved more difficult to book initially, i did not judge whether they were good or bad people and neither should you. She said she was busy, just leave it at that and make other plans that's all. There's plenty of nice ladies out there, if she ain't available go find another that will be more than happy to entertain you.

 

[Nesbot]

Thanks for advicey. I do not care get blacklisted because I know good people do not behave like this. But probably asuran is partially correct. They just get messages all the time. They just accept initially but later they just do not take care, or other things can happen, but they just don't care what they say.

5: 48PM Client: Could I book tonight?
MA: Hi sure Hunn I'll let uno what time I'll be available okay
Client: Sure. Kindly pls let me know ASAP, and, ......?
MA: ..... Sry Hun I'll let you know what time just busy ATM.

7: 00PM Client: Are you available tonight?
MA: No. I'm busy ATM plz

9:29PM Client: Still busy?
No reply anymore...........

Ya after the 7 pm text when she said “no I’m busy atm plz” you should have moved on. You got fixated on seeing her which is why you’re upset. You should have chosen another option as has been mentioned above.

 

[MellonChill]

Thanks for advicey. I do not care get blacklisted because I know good people do not behave like this. But probably asuran is partially correct. They just get messages all the time. They just accept initially but later they just do not take care, or other things can happen, but they just don't care what they say.

5: 48PM Client: Could I book tonight?
MA: Hi sure Hunn I'll let uno what time I'll be available okay
Client: Sure. Kindly pls let me know ASAP, and, ......?
MA: ..... Sry Hun I'll let you know what time just busy ATM.

7: 00PM Client: Are you available tonight?
MA: No. I'm busy ATM plz

9:29PM Client: Still busy?
No reply anymore...........

If you're opening intro is simply "can I book you tonight?" without any sort of request for approximate time or who you are, you should continue to expect frustrations in response received. Talk to her like she's a real person, say hi, give your name, where you found her, what maybe attracted you to her... I know this may seem needless in the reality, but watch the results in the responses received. You're starting with a lazy copy and paste approach, this never works out in my experience.

 

[superwizard]

If you're opening intro is simply "can I book you tonight?" without any sort of request for approximate time or who you are, you should continue to expect frustrations in response received. Talk to her like she's a real person, say hi, give your name, where you found her, what maybe attracted you to her... I know this may seem needless in the reality, but watch the results in the responses received. You're starting with a lazy copy and paste approach, this never works out in my experience.

I already told her I was repeated guest, and met her at XXX group... Just not pasted here. Yeah, anyway, thanks for advice....

 

[downbound123]

Seems to me from his post with Whitebay and Avah that the OP doesn't take no for an answer.

 

[MellonChill]

I already told her I was repeated guest, and met her at XXX group... Just not pasted here. Yeah, anyway, thanks for advice....

What are you referring to as XXX group? We're all adults here, no need to be shy about pertinent details.

Avah can only go off your texting to assess if you are trouble or not. Your messaging style lead to this, just clean it up, be more respectful, and you'll get better results I'm sure. Your first message may have ruined it. Start over with a new texting app # and act like you are respectful, but I'm not sure you truly are tbh. If she met you previously, maybe something was off and she didn't want to, I'm not implying anything, but maybe...

I also have little pitty for you after forcing and complaining about service from Whitebay... Don't ever think they don't remember these comments.

 

[solo223]

Your approach is all wrong...how about this....

Hello dear, how are you?

Great and you?

I'm fine thank you. Are you having a nice day?

Yes it's great

That's good, may i inquire about your rates (if not posted) and services you offer or restrictions. I am looking for a lady that would provided XXX, YYY, ZZZ..Thank you for your time, it is greatly appreciated.

My rates are $$$ and i offer the following: %%%, ###, @@@

Thank you miss (then go on asking for a booking or move on if it's not something that suits you).

Simple, clean, respectful, not too long nor mechanical like Hey, you busy there. You'd be amazed how well received a simple 'how are you' can be. Moreover, it may result in having a good conversation where you can outline in more details what you are looking for and strike her as being a nice chap. If you get a quick paste job and short answer, then you know it's all business and get to the point, i usually pass on that. Be cool, if she talks to you, reply nicely and don't treat the lady like an escort but like a person. If you get ghosted or postponed, don't make a fuss, move on or try again if you feel the lady had a genuine reason.

 

[superwizard]

What are you referring to as XXX group? We're all adults here, no need to be shy about pertinent details.

Avah can only go off your texting to assess if you are trouble or not. Your messaging style lead to this, just clean it up, be more respectful, and you'll get better results I'm sure. Your first message may have ruined it. Start over with a new texting app # and act like you are respectful, but I'm not sure you truly are tbh. If she met you previously, maybe something was off and she didn't want to, I'm not implying anything, but maybe...

I also have little pitty for you after forcing and complaining about service from Whitebay... Don't ever think they don't remember these comments.

I use XXX, because this thread looks like a dispute between an independant and client, just don't wanna others get involved.

I don't think I have any problem with Whitebay. After the last booking with whitebay I still keep in touch with the operator. If operator of Whitebay see this thread, probably please put some words here no matter positive or negative ......

 

[OnTheWayOut]

Seems to me she left the door open for wiz in case someone cancelled on her .... a common thing these days unfortunately. But if wiz can hold off until she is ill then he won't have any competition to see her. :behindsofa:

 

[MellonChill]

Hahaha, ahhhh Slurp, don't ever change. She definitely kept him him on the backburner, but only because others were a sure thing, via text. How you approach everything in this industry is very key to your level of satisfaction. Be respectful, but don't be a pussy either. Coming to terb to voice displeasure shouldn't be done lightly as words matter here, and affect the ladies personally and financially. Tread lightly, but stick up for yourself when justified. Super wizard had a rough start, but seems genuine. We're all learning.

 

[Canook]

My first text to you would be "Hi Charlotte, how are you?"
All you need to do is respond with 'Fine"
Then I inquire from there
I included your name in the text and you respond letting me know I am contacting the right person and I didn't F it up
If you think that is a time waster, don't respond
It's all good