Attributes of high end providers

[Cb77]

Really depends on the provider. I’ve had some huge disappointments and out right terrible dates in the 400+ range.

 

[BusterHighmann]

Like most of you, I find that prices in this industry are quite inflated even compared to other industries. However, people will charge what others are.willing to pay. Some make a lot of money and are likely more willing to pay more. Does this make them simps? They pay what they can afford or are willing to spend just like everyone else. If this means that they have more to choose from who may be considered "elite " then so be it. That is the way it goes. No one is entitled to lower rates because they earn less or are willing to spend less. This is a luxury and people should spend with that on mind. People with tons of money have the privilege of being able to spend more luxuriously. They buy bigger houses than they need, drive fancier cars than they need to, and pay more for quality time with ladies than they have to. Simps? Lucky? Privileged? Who knows, but it is what it is and there needs to be ladies who charge more to meet this demand. If you make less and cant afford these luxuries, then oh well. But I dont see the point of hating on the ladies who charge what people are willing to pay or on those who pay what they are willing to spend. That's a transaction between them and your opinion really has no bearing on that.

No one is hating on them, we're just saying high price does not guarantee good service.

 

[AlmaOttawaMA]

There's perspective. Like you said.
High end girls charge bc they think they're hot and sometimes that it.
Other girls charge a lot because they think it matches the services they're providing like pse and or Greek.

Lower prices are usually for a shorter amount of time like if you just want a quick bbbj on your lunch break.

I'm sure a lot of girls incorporate their living costs into their rates as well.
Just because the rates may be high doesn't mean their seeing like 10 clients a day. Sometimes it's only a few, everyday is different, some days are busier then others and some girls have other jobs too and this is just a side hustle.

I'm only speaking for myself here and charge what I do and believe it to be fair as I mostly do deep tissue massage. Like really deep deep tissue massage. I know men are stressed so I like to help them decompress by giving them a deep in ur muscle rub down. Theirs just so many variables when it comes to girls rates so I don't wanna speak for others. What I do know is that Our world is super expensive now.its not the same as when my parents where my age. They got it good. My generation and gems after mine r fucked. I wish we were back in the 90s where you could buy a home for 60k/140k. Now those homes are triple the price,like why? The house hasn't changed. Maybe the carpet turned to hard wood but the space is the same. Then the car Gas, bread, eggs, butter, beer, wine ect have increased by 3000%
It's like we all entered this new high end dimension without any forewarning and now were all trying to catch up, lol escorts included!

 

[Slobus]

Would someone who has repeat sessions with providers (anywhere in the world) who are in the range of 500.00 an hour or above, give us some information on what attributes or attractions that cause you to repeat with those providers? I would be interested to know if I should move to those sections of providers in what I am missing out.

The same question could be asked of high-end entertainers. For example:

1. How much would you pay to see a local cover band perform [insert your favourite artist here] songs?
2. How much would you pay to see a touring cover band of [insert your favourite artist here], with a bigger stage show at a larger venue?
3. How much would you pay to actually see [insert your favourite artist here] with front row seats, in Vegas, with bottle service?

Is the actual artist "better" than the cover bands... or is it the authenticity of the actual performer that drives the ticket prices up?

Providers are entertainers, some are outstanding entertainers and weave their craft through the entire "show". Some providers will simply go through the motions where an hour performance is simply geared to get you out the door... the sooner the better.

For me, I enjoy seeing local bands do their own thing, scratching to get an audience and better gigs... and sometimes I want a front row seat, in Vegas, with bottle service... and possibly a high-end companion on my arm.

Sometimes, I just want to be the bon vivant ;--)

 

[joeblow1969]

If you research well I find 200-300/hr providers just as good as 400-500 dollars (most I've ever paid). Sure there are lots of bad ones in the lower end range but that's what reviews like this board are for. I've seen higher end providers and they charge just because of their look and don't necessarily knock it out of the park for me on service. To me its more about passion, making you feel good about yourself than boobs and super model looks. I've actually seen one higher end provider (400 I believe) and she actually had odor "down there". Go figure

Go figure, an odor on a human.

 

[itd131]

Would someone who has repeat sessions with providers (anywhere in the world) who are in the range of 500.00 an hour or above, give us some information on what attributes or attractions that cause you to repeat with those providers? I would be interested to know if I should move to those sections of providers in what I am missing out.

I don't think others can answer this question for you. It really depends on your situation and what you are looking for. Ottawa is different from other cities and there are many, many reasons why people charge what they charge, and pay what they pay. Alot of those reasons probably don't have anything to do with your individual situation.

Are you missing out on anything? The short answer is no, but that doesn't mean there aren't high rate providers offering great experiences (and you might love seeing them if you chose to pay the rates). If you are thinking that price range guarantees a particular quality of experience, it doesn't. Like any business, more often than not you roughly get what you pay for, but sometimes you may overpay and get crap, and other times you may under pay and get a great deal. If anything, this business in Ottawa is more hit and miss than most so there really are no guarantees.

My two cents worth of advice would be to focus on the provider, not the rate (but be realistic about where the market sits). Do some research before booking. Follow her socials and look for reviews. You might be able to get a sense of her personality and how she runs her business. If you come away with a positive impression and you think she would be a good fit then go see her and see how it goes. Remember it's a relationship business so one visit is just a first impression (and that works both ways). Things often go uphill or downhill from there. If you keep seeing her and really dig how it's going then you are golden. The best situations will develop when you click with a provider who is offering what you are looking for, and you are the type of client that she is looking for. Rates are one thing to consider but don't use them alone to make your decisions.

 

[dynomyte]

There is truth in the fact that the ladies who offer reasonable rates will only do so until they know they can make more by offering more (econ101). Recent example of this was a post by Lovie on her twitter where she says she is increasing her rates because so many clients told her she should and she is calling then out to show up. I hope that they do, however, I missed my opportunity to visit this sexy lady at the price range that I look for as she was always booked solid.

Here is the reality, if there is an elite SP charging less than elite prices, it wont be long before those who have deeper pockets realize that they cant book this lady because she is so busy. So, he convinces her to charge more so that he can book her more at the higher rates. Of course, more likely a lady sees that she has tons of clients and realizes that she can make more by charging more.

 

[BusterHighmann]

There is truth in the fact that the ladies who offer reasonable rates will only do so until they know they can make more by offering more (econ101). Recent example of this was a post by Lovie on her twitter where she says she is increasing her rates because so many clients told her she should and she is calling then out to show up. I hope that they do, however, I missed my opportunity to visit this sexy lady at the price range that I look for as she was always booked solid.

Here is the reality, if there is an elite SP charging less than elite prices, it wont be long before those who have deeper pockets realize that they cant book this lady because she is so busy. So, he convinces her to charge more so that he can book her more at the higher rates. Of course, more likely a lady sees that she has tons of clients and realizes that she can make more by charging more.

I don't think it's the demand for more expensive escorts that drives up the price. Alma is right in saying it's a side hustle for a lot of women and they don't care if they get fewer bookings. Almost all escorts that do this as their only source of income have reasonable rates because they understand the basics of supply and demand.

 

[Poetof69]

While I have had quite good experiences with SPs in the $200-250 range in the past (and, yes, some total failures), my now-favourite SP has increased her tariff to what is the luxury level for me. This means I will see her somewhat less than before but I will continue to do so for a number of reasons. These would include her physical attractiveness and the care she takes in her appearance--she works out and dresses superbly; her incall is spotless and a nice place to be; she communicates well and is always on time. The vibe is so positive that I dress up nicely myself when I go to see her, so it becomes a special occasion. I am not really under any illusions about what is at the end a transactional relationship, but she treats me like she is interested in me and clearly enjoys the physical intimacy as well. Liking each other makes a connection so worthwhile. This may be why each session the sex seems even better than the previous time. I am not sure I would go up to $500 an hour for someone but in this case I think a premium price is justified. Everyone will have a different experience in this hobby but I have to say the reviews and stories told here on TERB have been helpful.

 

[jakepint1]

There's perspective. Like you said.
High end girls charge bc they think they're hot and sometimes that it.
Other girls charge a lot because they think it matches the services they're providing like pse and or Greek.

Lower prices are usually for a shorter amount of time like if you just want a quick bbbj on your lunch break.

I'm sure a lot of girls incorporate their living costs into their rates as well.
Just because the rates may be high doesn't mean their seeing like 10 clients a day. Sometimes it's only a few, everyday is different, some days are busier then others and some girls have other jobs too and this is just a side hustle.

I'm only speaking for myself here and charge what I do and believe it to be fair as I mostly do deep tissue massage. Like really deep deep tissue massage. I know men are stressed so I like to help them decompress by giving them a deep in ur muscle rub down. Theirs just so many variables when it comes to girls rates so I don't wanna speak for others. What I do know is that Our world is super expensive now.its not the same as when my parents where my age. They got it good. My generation and gems after mine r fucked. I wish we were back in the 90s where you could buy a home for 60k/140k. Now those homes are triple the price,like why? The house hasn't changed. Maybe the carpet turned to hard wood but the space is the same. Then the car Gas, bread, eggs, butter, beer, wine ect have increased by 3000%
It's like we all entered this new high end dimension without any forewarning and now were all trying to catch up, lol escorts included!

Tell that to the strippers still making $20 a song 10 years later? And having to pay to come into work. They have it rough when it comes to inflation.

 

[Alison_xox]

Interesting thread.
It’s so many different points of view & opinions on this topic.
I guess I can offer my point of view as well since I am a provider and fit the definition of high end.
What really are the requirements in order to be high end ?
Offering an upscale incall ? I have that
Great reputation & well established ? Got that too
Having an hybrid menu ? Check

I mean , most of the providers I know , are offering that. I’m not special for those requirements being checked
We don’t all charge the same rates.

My vision of the situation is that I have built a great clientele that makes me feel secure and happy in my line of work. I grew as a provider. I got better , classier. I offer a way better experience than when I started , but the clients stayed with me and the biggest part of my clientele has been with me since the beginning.
Should I increase my rates because I offer a better experience now ?
I could loose a part of my clients that can’t afford that increase.

I think I fit the description of high end , but to me , my clientele worth so much that I rather keep my rates than loose them.

I am very happy for the providers that branded as high end & made it work for them.
If that’s what makes their business good and make them feel happy , why not.

I just feel that I am a simple girl.
I want my home sweet home clients & I just want to post selfies & videos I took for my clients.
Not about those big photoshoots that much.
My last one I was wearing my pj & slippers.
I like the natural “just woke up” look on me.

If high end girl next door would be a thing, I’d be it

 

[Slobus]

I like the natural “just woke up” look on me.

If high end girl next door would be a thing, I’d be it

This is totally a thing... at least with me!

 

[boomboom]

Interesting thread.
It’s so many different points of view & opinions on this topic.
I guess I can offer my point of view as well since I am a provider and fit the definition of high end.
What really are the requirements in order to be high end ?
Offering an upscale incall ? I have that
Great reputation & well established ? Got that too
Having an hybrid menu ? Check

I mean , most of the providers I know , are offering that. I’m not special for those requirements being checked
We don’t all charge the same rates.

My vision of the situation is that I have built a great clientele that makes me feel secure and happy in my line of work. I grew as a provider. I got better , classier. I offer a way better experience than when I started , but the clients stayed with me and the biggest part of my clientele has been with me since the beginning.
Should I increase my rates because I offer a better experience now ?
I could loose a part of my clients that can’t afford that increase.

I think I fit the description of high end , but to me , my clientele worth so much that I rather keep my rates than loose them.

I am very happy for the providers that branded as high end & made it work for them.
If that’s what makes their business good and make them feel happy , why not.

I just feel that I am a simple girl.
I want my home sweet home clients & I just want to post selfies & videos I took for my clients.
Not about those big photoshoots that much.
My last one I was wearing my pj & slippers.
I like the natural “just woke up” look on me.

If high end girl next door would be a thing, I’d be it

Great response from a SP
Well articulated

 

[ladyluva]

I think its a personal choice $500+HR is out of my price range.

I've done some outcall from 220-300/ HR and the service was excellent almost every time

For me 300$ HR is my max .

I agree with the ladies charging the fees that they think is fair for their services offered and provided and guys choose what they are able to afford.

 

[William St]

You can afford it, you just don’t know you can. If you think about it, if you can afford 2 separate 1 hour dates with an “ok” SP for $250 each time, then you could afford $500 for 1 spectacular hour with a high end SP. You just have less opportunities to see the high end SP. As it has been said quality over quantity.

Quite true.

 

[diib]

I don't want to jinx it to anyone but I've mingled with 250H up to 600H Ladies and came to the conclusion that 'higher' end do not offer more. If fact, my experience tells me that you have more chances to meet a pompus lady on the 'higher' end than the ones charging at a reasonable rate.
My 2 cents,
Cheers