Attire requests.....
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You must have one open minded boyfriend. First he has to deal with your retirement from a profession you clearly enjoy. And second he has to put up with you canvassing this board for ideas how to turn him on. I can't say I would be as understanding but that's just me. I wouldn't ban participation outright. I wouldn't want to compete with random strangers on an escort review board.
IMHO I always like a chick that does not try so hard to be sexy. One who is seemingly effortlessly sexy is better in my books than one dressed in blue or red lingerie. I'm just saying.
Fernie
IMHO I always like a chick that does not try so hard to be sexy. One who is seemingly effortlessly sexy is better in my books than one dressed in blue or red lingerie. I'm just saying.
Fernie
I have always loved a hot set of legs in black nylons. I have seen women wearing shorts, jean skirts, whatever, but those damn black nylons drive me crazy.Add a tank top or blouse that is somewhat revealing yet leaves enough for mystery and I am at your mercy. Yet, I don't actually care for fishnet stockings, go figure.
Have you tried fur boots and legwarmers? How about some spandex LOL
All jokes aside Ive always noticed that pretty much most guys like seeing you in their clothes...t shirt, boxers, whatever. One of my ex's fave gifts I ever gave him was a set of pics of me in his boxers. (It was extra special cuz his mom didnt let me in his room so I had to work some magic to get my hands on them without him, or his mom, knowing!)
All jokes aside Ive always noticed that pretty much most guys like seeing you in their clothes...t shirt, boxers, whatever. One of my ex's fave gifts I ever gave him was a set of pics of me in his boxers. (It was extra special cuz his mom didnt let me in his room so I had to work some magic to get my hands on them without him, or his mom, knowing!)
DanceBabe said:Oh dont worry, I wouldnt deflower a mommy's boy like that -he never got into my pants....was a good tease though dont you think???
oh, you're BAD!!!!!!!
Since you don't really know our back story, you are making some judgments here that are not really the way things are with us. First, we met on this board. He was a hobbyist and I was a SP. I never saw him as a client. We would fight on this board like cats and dogs. It was always a war between us. Finally one day, he saw me on another site, non-industry related and replied to me. We met for drinks and almost 15 months later - here we are. He never made me quit the business. I did that on my own and while there are aspects that I miss, I would ever go back.fernie said:
As for the threads here, he loves it. Why? Because he is secure in our relationship because I make him feel that way. It is not that he is open-minded, we have open communication. There is a big difference. When two people meet, they really know nothing about each other, and this is where people will often lie about themselves. We didn't have to, we already knew each other for about 3-4 years before actually meeting.
While laying with each other the couch yesterday, he would joke and call me his little retired SP. How much of an ego stroke for him to know that I am still wanted by many men, but only he has me.
I agree that an old fashion romp is great, we do that all the time. Sometimes we like to spice it up. I don't have to try to be sexy. As I said in the beginning, I was feel a little down last week and was in PJ's and booty shorts and that was all natural, no planning and he was hornier then hell from it. Last night though we wanted to do something a little different and so dress up was the occasion. It started because I was getting him to dress up in something I have wanted him to wear for a few months now. I thought that it would be nice if I did something for him as well, but was stuck on an idea. Only because I have done so many outfits already. You have to think, 15 months, sex at least 2-3 times a week if not more, I have only dressed up maybe 20 times. So it just shows you that it is not boring. It is just want we wanted to do. We can discuss things like this. Different styles of sex we want to try. He knows I want to learn how to squirt. Would you not like a relationship were you can both surf the net to learn how to try this or that. Openly discuss things togeter. Being able to say your wife or GF, I feel like a blowjob right now, care to help out and she actually say yes, not slap you in the face.fernie said:
As for Olympics, LOL - it was a marathon last night!
TBOY - the BF says you were right. The men's dress shirt did it for him. It was perfect actually, because his outfit was of the uniform style, so I went with the business look. We were like to people getting home from work and ready for hours of fun with no phones, computers, people. Just us. Proper skirt, men's shirt and tie. Nice boots. It was fun, there was 3 stages to my outfit. Full outfit - then the men's shirt with the tie, then just the tie. HMMMMMM I was hot and I don't mind saying so, lol.
So thank you for all the suggestions people.
I was only basing the assumption on your own words. Like I said before, I like a girl who is effortlessly sexy. Give me white cotton underpants over crotch less panties any day of the week.Kya_Jean said:
I was involved with an SP who "retired". The problem was that she just craved the spotlight or attention from men. It was like she needed to test herself all the time to see that she was sexy and still desirable. It was tiresome.
Fernie
fernie said:
Did you happen to read the line before the one you quoted.
I like trying new things. Not all the time, but the odd time. I am effortlessly sexy to him. For me, I like to feel sexy for myself by wearing cetain outfits and trying new things. There is a difference here.
So I am sorry for your expereince, but that is your ex, not me. I don't need mounds of attention from men, nor do I need to test someone. I am confident in who I am. I just like to have fun and try something new sometimes. That is what I was requesting and that it what I did. It worked out great and I am happy with the result.
I totally agree here........my SO has all the sexy outfits, from teddies to catsuits (catsuits I have to admitt is an instant woody for me), but to see her in a white tight muscle shirt with a nice pair of half undies (especially with a nice tan), with her hair up is a real turn on, maybe it is the fantasy of coming home and seeing the GND in your kitchen
It depends on the girl. Sometime a look just works for her, if she's petite a schoolgirl outfit works. If she's got a nice juicy ass then booty shorts work. Something that showcases her best feature.
Nothing turns me on like stockings though (and high heels). Even if the girl isn't my type her attractiveness boosts up a couple notches when she's wearing them. The funny thing is, its kind of rare to be greeted by SP's, MP's and even strippers in sheer stockings. I mean, they have them on pictures on the website and they barely wear them in person I don't get it. You pretty much have to ask most of the time.
I'll also never get how some guys are only turned on if she completely naked. Its just so boring to me, the right clothes just make it more exciting.
Nothing turns me on like stockings though (and high heels). Even if the girl isn't my type her attractiveness boosts up a couple notches when she's wearing them. The funny thing is, its kind of rare to be greeted by SP's, MP's and even strippers in sheer stockings. I mean, they have them on pictures on the website and they barely wear them in person
I don't get it. You pretty much have to ask most of the time.I'll also never get how some guys are only turned on if she completely naked. Its just so boring to me, the right clothes just make it more exciting.
more clothes, more sexy
Perhaps I'm in the minority here, but I think sometimes more clothes on can be sexier than skimpy lingerie, that leaves nothing to the imagination. As far as skin is concerned, less is more.
For a woman with a confident sexy body, a nice, feminine business attire - especially a silk white blouse and curve-fitting tube skirt, black stockings and high heels - is a huge turn-on for me. With a couple of the top buttons undone and the skirt showing off all the curves of a shapely ass and legs, it balances nicely between a prim & proper exterior to show others while hinting for me the beauty I'm allowed to taste under the surface.
For me, it's also the undressing part that's part of the fun. Making out, kissing and caressing, with her body pressed against mine, with the touch of soft silk pressed against my body -- that primes my pump in anticipation. And roaming with my hands through her stockings and under her skirt gets her excited. Undressing a beautiful woman is like unwrapping a gift, when you already know what's inside is really cool.
FD
Perhaps I'm in the minority here, but I think sometimes more clothes on can be sexier than skimpy lingerie, that leaves nothing to the imagination. As far as skin is concerned, less is more.
For a woman with a confident sexy body, a nice, feminine business attire - especially a silk white blouse and curve-fitting tube skirt, black stockings and high heels - is a huge turn-on for me. With a couple of the top buttons undone and the skirt showing off all the curves of a shapely ass and legs, it balances nicely between a prim & proper exterior to show others while hinting for me the beauty I'm allowed to taste under the surface.
For me, it's also the undressing part that's part of the fun. Making out, kissing and caressing, with her body pressed against mine, with the touch of soft silk pressed against my body -- that primes my pump in anticipation. And roaming with my hands through her stockings and under her skirt gets her excited. Undressing a beautiful woman is like unwrapping a gift, when you already know what's inside is really cool.
FD
When I used to see Diamond (you guys remember her OMFG) she asked if I had any requests for how she should dress. I thought about it and said "will you meet me wearing nothing but heels a glass of wine and a smile?" She said "sure if it is what you want." It was a real turn on for be being fully clothed while Diamond was naked but I was naked pretty fast as well. I'm having a flashback. OMG was that ever good.
