at 9 am

Hey papa. My dad passing was the hardest thing I ever went through, so I can feel for what you're experiencing. I don't know your situation, or how much time your dad has, but my biggest regret was not being able to talk to my dad towards the end, he had had a massive stroke. Hopefully you will have some of that time, take advantage of it as much as you can, and talk about your lives and the stories of your family.
 
Thank you to all for the words of inspiration and encouragement.
 
papasmerf said:
this morning at 9 am my dad discivered what we alraedy knew. His cancer is termial.

Life can be very sad . How old is he ? This can be a lesson for us to enjoy life while we can . Best Wishes.
 
Only just read this right now...

Sorry to hear such sad news. My heart and prayers are with you, your family and friends. Having lost family memebers myself to cancer I know there are no words that can comfort right now. So I won't even try. I would like to express as others have... make sure you talk with your Dad and other family members. Don't bottle things up and keep it all inside... as I did... the grief will only come pouring out 10 fold years from now.