Ashley Madison

[needinit]

Just wondering what this site is like for actually matching up people or is it more of a 'temptation' site where you get emails and winks from sexy women and when you buy credits, all the messages stop!

From what I know, it seems to be a really good site with lots of press, but I am interested in real experiences form people that have tried it.

This may not really be the right site to get good feedback (as we are pay to play guys) however, I am sure there are many of you also looking for genuine relationships etc as I am (discretely doing).

Feedback or PMs would be good.

 

[raven@mirage]

I use to work for them in the call centre aqt Young and Eglinton, rarely you get matched with someone since your spend your money to use half your time speaking wieth a screening, and the other half of a person who may or may not actually meet you.

I would say avoid using services like that but if its your only choice, then go with the telephone services like lavalife, nightexchange, livelinks, or quest.

 

[anonemouse]

I used AM back about 4 years ago. From it, I had 3 meetings:

a) lunch date, nothing else
b) one night stand
c) ongoing fling for a couple of years before we mutually broke it off

From talking to the women, they get about 100 emails within 24 hrs of putting up a profile.

In my opinion, if a woman contacts you IGNORE THEM. I think it's part of the "temptation" that you mentioned. The women on there get so many emails that none of them need to go sending emails to anyone. That's probably not true 100% of the time, but if you ignore them then you save your credits.

I put together a funny email, which I took my time to write. I then sent it to a bunch of women that looked interesting. I got about 1 in 5 or 1 in 10 back and we started to chat from there.

All of them had some things in common, mostly that they were looking for married / attached men only (single = chance of wanting more out of the relationship and showing up outside the bedroom window at 4 am playing love songs on a ghettoblaster).

If you're looking for a long term affair then this is probably your best bet. It takes some time, but it can be worth it.

A few years ago I stopped going on after I started to get these emails out of the blue from incredibly attractive women. Same with lavalife. I think that AM was very legit years ago but now...not so sure.

My 2 cents. YMMV.

 

[futurelegend]

I tried AM a few years ago and once I started sending real messages (rather then winks) I got a few replies, but nothing that ever lead to anything good. I looked on there again recently and it seems that things have changed, BIG TIME!! The prices for credits are WAY more expensive now and there seem to be more listings of girls that are "too good to be true". When I was on there before, there were maybe a dozen girls that had public pictures posted and the ones that did were often ones that shouldn't have. All-of-a-sudden now, there are dozenS of HOT girls that love to fulfill all of your desires and fantasies with public pictures for everyone to put in the bank.

Ask yourself this, if you were a smokin hot woman that was married and looking for an affair, would you put your picture on the internet for everyone to see? If you were going to be THAT blatant about your infidelity, you probably wouldn't be looking on the intenet for love. You would just walk up to the guy down the street and say, "hey, let's f___".

...IMHO

 

[anonemouse]

Agreed....I'm sure there's women on there still, but a lot of it is a scam IMHO. A couple of years ago, it was pretty good though. Ditto for AdultFriendFinder.

 

[anonemouse]

I agree the plentyoffish is where is would be at right now....it wasn't around back when I was searching online though. But give it another few years, and I'm sure it will work the same way (buying credits and then having amazingly hot women message you).

This is my prediction which I stand behind 100%. Unless Gayos Baltar agrees with it, then I will retract it given his track record for predictions.

 

[4funonly]

Another thread on same topic:
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=200008

 

[Meister]

Thought of using the service as a single person/tried it... but no, that was not for me...
Well, at that time, anyways...

Why would you try AM's service if you are single? That site is geared for attached people.
POF is great for both single and attached people.