As For Me Missing The Party....

Bella6969

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I have recieved numerous calls at my home from ppl in this business
telling me, i am now being slandered and demeaned etc.. in regards to me not being there. Well, there are some PPL on this and other boards that know where i was , and was relesed this afternoon, Now, i really dont feel i should have to explain my personal life but due to this i will. I have a Stomach condition, which acted up on Wedsday , Members of the boards that know me personally have seen wheat i go through with this pain , I was not about to sign my self out of hospital and continue being dehydrated in order to be there,, Now it has been said that i purposly didnt come ..... Give me a break & some credit, this party was my baby , and my reputation ... I even went as far as to keep calling the bar when i was in hospital Talked to romeo & bar owner and even the DJ .... they all knew where i was , and agreed it was better not to go. Now for those that didnt and dont have faith in me, i respect your opinion and are intitled to it. Just clearing the air and rumor mill
I am home now resting , felling brutal , but i felt i should at least be heard as everyine was and is .
Thank you for taking the time to read this post ,
Bella*
 
We missed you and your party enthusiam, Bella!

I hope you're feeling better soon. :)
 
It's funny how quick people turn on you and slow they are to apologize.

I'd offer a get well but I already posted one in the other thread.
 
Bella..wome people will always find a reason to gripe. Ignore them. If you had an issue with your health..then thats the priority. There will be other parties etc you can attend.

Be well.

M2
 
sorry to hear about your situation Bella





sometimes the more open n honest one is ... the shittier others can be in return .when it comes to your health IMO people should be asking if your ok instead of adding more aggravation to your health situation :rolleyes:some people are so selfish ..what else is new lol its there problem they have no compassion not yours ..
 
I know most people on this board are decent, but the few AHOLES ruin it for the rest. No wonder many ladies leave this board. Bella is a very nice lady, always gives her best and is sincere, but sometimes things happen beyond her control, now you know why. I can't believe someone has to post personal and sensitive info on this board in order to justify their actions and to defend themselves. If some of you can't believe her, STFU and move on.

To those few people that are so quick to accuse and judge without thinking, you should be ashamed of yourself.:mad:
 
Just hope you are feeling better and of course I know all the work that you did prior so I am sure you were upset.
As far as the bad things people say move on and dont worry...
 
All the best in your recovery, sweetie.
 
Another post in the "Who Gives a Fuck?" category.

Who gives a fuck about about Bella and who gives a fuck about another industry party?

If you didn't show up...Who gives a fuck!

Why should anyone care? If it bothers them that you didn't show up, then...Who gives a fuck!!!
 
Having a bad night, Ref? :rolleyes:
 
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Having a bad night, Ref? :rolleyes:

No, quite the opposite.

Why should she or anyone really care about a TERB/Industry party?

What's the point?

Do not look at this post in the negative. Stretch your thinking outside of your controlled thought process and realize that I did not expect her to explain why she could not make it. I was trying to remind the few simpletons on this board that, quite frankly, it is none of their fucking business if she was there or not!

Hopefully you will be able to comprehend my message.

If not....Who gives a fuck!
 
I see your point better now. Thanks for clarifying.

On the other hand, Bella wasn't just someone who might show up for the party. She was the one who planned it, marketted it, and was responsible for it. Her not being there put a lot of pressure on her partner (Catherine), and probably lowered the overall energy level.

And she is planning more parties in the future, as a business. So there are legitimate reasons people want to know why she "was a no-show at her own party".

Having said that, her personal life is her personal life and she doesn't owe anyone an explanation (except maybe Catherine). But giving an explanation as she did will quite likely help her future business.

-V
 
Never mind the all the BS.

Get well soon and I look forward to seeing you at the next party.
 
Hope you are feeling better Bella. Just ignore the idiots out there.
 
I heard a rumor you went to Maryland's house party instead with Alien and Goober, wearing an "I Hate Fred" shirt.


But don't let me start anything. :rolleyes:
 
Bella Darling, may be the good doc needs to come over to examine you and make you feel better. ;) Be well, sweet babe.
 
I'm just glad you are home and out of the hospital now Bella, we missed you at the party.