lets say you show up to meet a girl at a hotel or whatever. cuz most of these pics dont have a face. or you call an agency and the girl shows up with a busted face. if your not attracted at all. what happens if you want to back out?
are you allowed to back out of an SP appointment?
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It's kind of up to you but how much drama do you want in your life? My rule of thumb:
-- In an incall situation where nobody is naked yet just turn around and walk out
-- In an outcall situation where nobody is naked yet pay the cost of her driver so she isn't out of pocket ("cancellation fee") maybe 20-25%
-- In either situation if somebody got naked, pay the full rate -- you should have aborted before it go that far, your fault
Why is outcall different? One because she incurred cost to get to your place. Two because you really don't want an escort yelling and screaming and pounding on your door drawing attention from the neighbours.
-- In an incall situation where nobody is naked yet just turn around and walk out
-- In an outcall situation where nobody is naked yet pay the cost of her driver so she isn't out of pocket ("cancellation fee") maybe 20-25%
-- In either situation if somebody got naked, pay the full rate -- you should have aborted before it go that far, your fault
Why is outcall different? One because she incurred cost to get to your place. Two because you really don't want an escort yelling and screaming and pounding on your door drawing attention from the neighbours.
Hey these things happen especially when, your first starting out, what you do is up to you, but I would suggest some compensation.
as time goes on this will happen to you less and less. My rule no 1 is, I never see a provider that has no reviews, no matter how attractive she is on her pics.
I find an SP's looks improve tremendously when she has my dick in her mouth.
One tip I can provide is: if you walk in and have doubts about going through with the session, ask to use the bathroom. Go in there and take a minute or two to decide...
One tip I can provide is: if you walk in and have doubts about going through with the session, ask to use the bathroom. Go in there and take a minute or two to decide...
You're married and invite SPs to your home? Impressive. Must have a very understanding wife - or does she join in?
If she doesn't show her face in the ad and it turns out her face isn't attractive, she's not misrepresenting herself.
If you cancel for this reason, you should pay something for wasting her time.
If you cancel for this reason, you should pay something for wasting her time.
If you are not into the SP's facial features, politely leave. As long as you are respectful about it, there should be no problem. I don't think you should feel the need to give any money to the SP if you don't go through with the session. As someone mentioned if it is an outcall situation, then at least $20-$50 for driver cost/cab.
This is why guys like me will stop posting reviews soon. Lots of guys take here, and give little back.
My days of toftt are coming to an end. Going to start PMing info.
If everybody were to follow suit, What's the point of this board then ? I agree with you, that many don't give back but we would be undermining the ones that do.
But I will say that those members who ask for additional information via pm, on a review I've posted, will not get answered, if they have no history.
Meh...I'll answer a lurker, at least if it's a focused question and not something like 'how would rate all of the girls you've seen facially, in order". In that case its like Dude, fuck off.
If her ad is misleading in any way, whether in description of her looks or service, I have no problem saying no thank you. If she has been dishonest already, it is quite possible she won't be overly concerned about the service level either.
If you arrive at an incall and find she has misrepresented herself and you decline to stay and she asks for payment "because you wasted her time", remind her that she just wasted more of your time, and don't feel guilty for leaving.
If you arrive at an incall and find she has misrepresented herself and you decline to stay and she asks for payment "because you wasted her time", remind her that she just wasted more of your time, and don't feel guilty for leaving.
I often wonder how many of these lurkers are under-age ?? I mean its not like rocket science, to join this board.
Btw I just came up with this theory !!
1. I've never walked out on an SP but I generally see providers who have been reviewed and I know what to expect. I have turned around at an MP and left when I didn't like the offerings.
2. Titalian, I agree with you on the response to the Lurkers. DB, you're too permissive (IMHO).
3. Have some compassion jonstreets. When you say "busted up face" are you saying the girl looks like she was just shown a close-up of fists? In that case, I would have asked her to leave but I might have given her a significant portion of the agreed upon rate.
2. Titalian, I agree with you on the response to the Lurkers. DB, you're too permissive (IMHO).
3. Have some compassion jonstreets. When you say "busted up face" are you saying the girl looks like she was just shown a close-up of fists? In that case, I would have asked her to leave but I might have given her a significant portion of the agreed upon rate.
Walked out once as I had my doubts about the age and the reason why the girl was there (doubting the free will)
It was infall, so I did the 2 minutes bathroom thinking break. Big head took the lead and told the girl that I did not think this would be a good idea and that she should be careful and think about the reason why she was getting into this business. Now as far as the compensation, I left the full amount. This is me asking her to take the money and use the time to think.
Slightly different situation that "a busted face" which has not happened to me. In that case I may just walked out saying, I think I'm making a mistake and I am sorry for wasting your time.
It was infall, so I did the 2 minutes bathroom thinking break. Big head took the lead and told the girl that I did not think this would be a good idea and that she should be careful and think about the reason why she was getting into this business. Now as far as the compensation, I left the full amount. This is me asking her to take the money and use the time to think.
Slightly different situation that "a busted face" which has not happened to me. In that case I may just walked out saying, I think I'm making a mistake and I am sorry for wasting your time.
