After many years of extremely boring, bland, vanilla sex with my ex I want to get into a relationship that offers something that is completely opposite, something that is intense and demanding. Are there really non-pro Doms out there interested in establishing a relationship (no sex/release required for me), even if there is a nominal tribute required and how do you find them? Pro-Doms are expensive to see even weekly and being Pro’s there isn’t the true sense of a relationship, you are just a customer. Craigslist seems to be 99% crap and I just don’t think a Dom looking for a Sub would be trolling those waters. Does anyone have any info they would like to share?
Are there really any non-Pro Dommes?
- Thread starter hushb1
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Of course there are. But they are VERY picky. And if they look human let alone attractive they are EXTREMELY picky.
So do you have six pack abs? Are you well over six feet? Are you the age she likes? Do women stare at you face because you are so hansom? Can you make any women laugh? Do you dazzle with your conversation? If you have a positive response to all of the above, it will be easy to find one.
No. For a lot of guys, being dominated by a woman is happiness. In many cases, it's a guy who needs a mother figure in his life, someone to cook for him, clean for him, do his laundry, and give him permission to do things he enjoys. In return, he surrenders to her his balls, figuratively, and metaphorically. He knows his place, and is comforted in the knowledge that he is no worse off than his peers.
The more hardcore guy needs the paraphernalia. Typically, he would be someone who earns a lot of money amorally, (stock broker, divorce attorney, corporate raider, hockey goon, etc.), who feels some guilt, but no remorse for how he maintains his standard of living. He wants to be treated like shit, to know how bad it feels, so he can enjoy it more when he treats someone else like shit.
