After many years of extremely boring, bland, vanilla sex with my ex I want to get into a relationship that offers something that is completely opposite, something that is intense and demanding. Are there really non-pro Doms out there interested in establishing a relationship (no sex/release required for me), even if there is a nominal tribute required and how do you find them? Pro-Doms are expensive to see even weekly and being Pro’s there isn’t the true sense of a relationship, you are just a customer. Craigslist seems to be 99% crap and I just don’t think a Dom looking for a Sub would be trolling those waters. Does anyone have any info they would like to share?