Are there escorts specializing in teaching men how to be better in bed?
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Ask questions - and here's the really tough part for a lot of guys - actually listen to the answers.
Just like the ridiculousness of there being a pick-up line that works with all women, they are all different sexually.
I am sure there is a narcissist sex worker out there somewhere who thinks that what she likes in universal, but learning what she likes would not carryover well.
That is why we have reviews and many escorts have menus.
Some ladies love a hard pounding, vaginal fingering, anal fingering, and getting spanked really hard.
Another lady might threaten to call the police if you even ask for those things, let alone try to do them.
I am sure there is a narcissist sex worker out there somewhere who thinks that what she likes in universal, but learning what she likes would not carryover well.
That is why we have reviews and many escorts have menus.
Some ladies love a hard pounding, vaginal fingering, anal fingering, and getting spanked really hard.
Another lady might threaten to call the police if you even ask for those things, let alone try to do them.
As Patron says, all women are different.
The best way to be better in bed is to ask what she likes, really listen to her answers, pay attention to her body language and adjust accordingly.
All women are different but I can usually tell a man that doesn't have a girlfriend and only sees prostitutes by how bad they are with sex.
I would talk to people that are more open to telling you they don't like stuff. You can ask them what they do like.
I feel like most of us can't be honest and we have to walk a fine line between being hurt and standing up for ourselves.
People who are terrible at sex are a guaranteed income so we just put up with the inept pussy rubbing and painful nipple tugs. When they're REALLY bad we have to say something, but run the risk of them not repeating because everyone wants to believe their some kind of stud. The truth is most of them are terrible at sex.
So going to a sex worker to tell you the truth is a hard pill to swallow. When the expectation is that we lie the whole time and say we enjoy it and men get all butt hurt over the truth... there's no benefit to being honest. If I told everyone off that hurt me during sex and made in unenjoyeable I'd have no clients. Lol
I would have an honest conversation with someone genuine that you hit it off with.
If you want authenticity make sure you're dealing with someone authentic.
I would talk to people that are more open to telling you they don't like stuff. You can ask them what they do like.
I feel like most of us can't be honest and we have to walk a fine line between being hurt and standing up for ourselves.
People who are terrible at sex are a guaranteed income so we just put up with the inept pussy rubbing and painful nipple tugs. When they're REALLY bad we have to say something, but run the risk of them not repeating because everyone wants to believe their some kind of stud. The truth is most of them are terrible at sex.
So going to a sex worker to tell you the truth is a hard pill to swallow. When the expectation is that we lie the whole time and say we enjoy it and men get all butt hurt over the truth... there's no benefit to being honest. If I told everyone off that hurt me during sex and made in unenjoyeable I'd have no clients. Lol
I would have an honest conversation with someone genuine that you hit it off with.
If you want authenticity make sure you're dealing with someone authentic.
Honestly, all women are different and the biggest thing is gonna be taking feedback in that moment and applying it to what you’re doing. You could see three different girls who like things three different ways. So it’s not just necessarily about meeting someone who teaches you things unless you have like specific things like kinks you’d like to learn or stuff like that but if it’s just like general stuff, you have to just be open to feedback.
There is nothing to teach anyway.
Practice makes perfect.
I stick to a few regulars who are very comfortable with me and are open to saying what they like.
Just listen and do that lol.
I would suggest Tantric sex practitioners
I have gone to a group lesson, no nudity just a lesson, and learned
about the beautiful healing power of multiple orgasm so tantra ,
while being more than just sex, is a legit way to learn about sexuality
I have gone to a group lesson, no nudity just a lesson, and learned
about the beautiful healing power of multiple orgasm so tantra ,
while being more than just sex, is a legit way to learn about sexuality
This might sound counter-intuitive, but if you really want to go down the learning how to get better in bed, you'd probably have better luck learning from an experienced guy. If you take lessons from a female, chances are she will only tell you what works well for her body. Since what turns one woman on and another could be quite different, a guy will be able to help you out with this a lot more as they will have had experiences with a lot more woman and be able to generalize as well as get into specifics a lot better. So if you'd like to learn from an escort, I recommend booking a male escort (and maybe having them bring a female partner along for demonstration).
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The best is to never care. Your girlfriend/wife will be happy that it can only get better. But it's a long process.
It's like golf. I have been practising for 30 years and I still kind of suck. But I enjoy every minute of it
It's like golf. I have been practising for 30 years and I still kind of suck. But I enjoy every minute of it
Oh something I just thought of after getting a notification for this was... one of the best lovers I've ever had didn't have sex with a lot of women. He made it his focus to please ONE woman VERY well for MANY years. He googled how to be better and studied things online. Let me tell you how he studied diagrams and read up on sex moves like he was reading current events. He's modest and thinks other men are better than him, but he's a sex god! He's constantly trying to improve and he can't get better than he already is.
The best lovers I've ever had used Google. They used their experience with long term partners to get better. Every woman is different but it doesn't take much to figure out what each woman likes if you know what you're doing. They move different. They breathe different, they sound different when you're truly pleasing them.
Do not take advice from the women who deal with men that think a urethra is a clitoris. We don't even know what good sex is anymore because all we do is have sh*t sex all day.
The best lovers I've ever had used Google. They used their experience with long term partners to get better. Every woman is different but it doesn't take much to figure out what each woman likes if you know what you're doing. They move different. They breathe different, they sound different when you're truly pleasing them.
Do not take advice from the women who deal with men that think a urethra is a clitoris. We don't even know what good sex is anymore because all we do is have sh*t sex all day.
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