:-) are half hours appointments long enough on the first date?

[lynn_ha]

Are half hours appointments long enough on the first date?
I have always felt the first date might be more beneficial for both parties if it was an hour which allows for "getting to know you"

Half an hour disappears very fast on a first date but may be all you need on the second date!

Have some experiences about your first date with a new escort? Did you do the hour or just the 1/2 hour did the trick, no pun intended! :-0

 

[einar]

Lynn, I'm in full agreement with you. I don't grasp how anyone can connect with another person intimately in a mere 30 minutes. For me an hour is always appropriate, and if I could afford it, 90 minutes would be even better. But given how expensive escorting is for us guys, I do allow that 45 minutes is not a bad compromise. And one Toronto agency offers 40-minute visits, which might work in a pinch (and is still a third longer than a fleeting half hour!).

Also, there is a difference between agency incalls and outcalls, at least in Toronto. The incalls do not invite much conversation, regrettably. Usually there are not even chairs in the room. An hour's incall might seem long, unless it were in an escort's home, or a fully furnished hotel room.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I agree 45min sessions are perfect for a first time however if Im seeing a well reviewed lady or one Ive seen before then its usually an hr or more. I don't understand why SPs dont advertise 45min sessions more, its a great option for alot of men.

 

[JohnHenry]

Do you give new clients the half hour rqte for an hour?

 

[lynn_ha]

Do you give new clients the half hour rqte for an hour?

hi there JohnHenry!

I'll certainly will give you lots of lovin' for the 1/2 hour which includes a big smile plus a shower before & after & a hug!

 

[lynn_ha]

Lynn, I'm in full agreement with you. I don't grasp how anyone can connect with another person intimately in a mere 30 minutes. For me an hour is always appropriate, and if I could afford it, 90 minutes would be even better. But given how expensive escorting is for us guys, I do allow that 45 minutes is not a bad compromise. And one Toronto agency offers 40-minute visits, which might work in a pinch (and is still a third longer than a fleeting half hour!).
einar
Also, there is a difference between agency incalls and outcalls, at least in Toronto. The incalls do not invite much conversation, regrettably. Usually there are not even chairs in the room. An hour's incall might seem long, unless it were in an escort's home, or a fully furnished hotel room.

Thanks for posting JohnHenry
Was how I had felt to but it's always interesting to read other views to which we may not have thought of.

 

[harryass]

nope. 30min. goes too fast. I like 1h bookings.

 

[lynn_ha]

I agree 45min sessions are perfect for a first time however if Im seeing a well reviewed lady or one Ive seen before then its usually an hr or more. I don't understand why SPs dont advertise 45min sessions more, its a great option for alot of men.

Good evening Mr. Deeds!
45 minute sessions are an excellent compromise both financially & for communications

 

[lynn_ha]

nope. 30min. goes too fast. I like 1h bookings.

harryass, thanks!

 

[Tempted Monk]

I have a bit different view on this. Based on my pretty long experience, I came to the opposite conclusion: I always book HH first time if there is such an option.
I think HH is enough to understand if I like this Lady, if there is some spark between us, if some "click" and some personal connection is possible. And if I feel that there is some potential here, I book an hour next time.
Even if it doesn't go perfect I still can have pretty good one shot sex and leave after HH without making hopeless attempts to establish something on personal level. And if there is no "click" at all I will leave earlier anyway even if I have an hour appointment.
And as many said before, maybe 45 minutes is a good option.

 

[lynn_ha]

I have a bit different view on this. Based on my pretty long experience, I came to the opposite conclusion: I always book HH first time if there is such an option.
I think HH is enough to understand if I like this Lady, if there is some spark between us, if some "click" and some personal connection is possible. And if I feel that there is some potential here, I book an hour next time.
Even if it doesn't go perfect I still can have pretty good one shot sex and leave after HH without making hopeless attempts to establish something on personal level. And if there is no "click" at all I will leave earlier anyway even if I have an hour appointment.
And as many said before, maybe 45 minutes is a good option.

thanks for taking your time to post Tempted Monk!

The 45 minute time frame sounds workable. Maybe more of us should include a 45 minute session in our rates.

 

[Aardvark154]

From a male perspective it largely depends upon what you seek - if "Wham, bam, thank you ma'm" is what you seek and you don't have any ED problems then probably. If you find the seduction process of interest, and/or do need take time to get into the mood, then no a 1/2 hour is indeed too short a period of time.

 

[explorerzip]

I booked for 1 hour the one time and will never do it again because it felt too rushed. Ever since I've always booked at least 2 hours. It's definitely more expensive, but I view it as a way to prevent overspending. I think more carefully when I'm going to be parting with over $600+

 

[Smallcock]

By calling it a "date", it almost sounds legit.

 

[sempel]

I generally contact SP's in advance. There will be some getting to know you time at the beginning but that's not always required. Just had a HH appointment a couple of weeks ago which was fantastic but that's because the provider was very nice and there was a natural chemistry so no chatting took place which was luck because I didn't contact her in advance.

Honestly, if you are having a great time, the date it too short. If you are having a bad time, the date is too long.

 

[renuck]

Good question,

I'm not very experienced yet but I've never done anything other than 1hr appointments so far, which looking back on it seems like a bit of an awkward time slot - at least for me. From a services point of view, I'm either finished off well within the first half hour or 1 hour isn't enough time to finish. Yeah either scenario is a little frustrating. And the times I do finish earlier I'm not quite ready for round 2 by the time the hour is up. I have to give the ladies credit though for trying.

Looking at the personal point of view which is what I think is more to the point of what you're asking about for a first date, a half hour probably isn't enough if the SP wants to chat for a bit. I like to talk (well more accurately I like to joke around and have fun) but not all SPs like to talk. I try to get conversation started but I imagine they have all been small talked to death so that is difficult sometimes. I try to learn something they are into and ask about that. For the most part that is successful but not always, unfortunately the stuff I am into would put most people to sleep. I have had some good talks the times I was done early and during the break before trying for round 2 there was time for conversation so there's one plus for the 1hr appointment. It seems a 45min wouldn't be a bad option to allow some chat and unrushed 'service' but maybe not for a first date.

Hope that helps a bit,
Breww

 

[lynn_ha]

By calling it a "date", it almost sounds legit.

Smallcock, I like to chuckle & grin first thing in the morning, loved your post!

 

[out4fun]

Sometimes they're too long

 

[kherg007]

Agreed did 30 once out of necessity (having a tight schedule and lady was late) and did not like it. Gotta be 60, even on a first meet (should have a sense of compatibility via reviews and your correspondence with the lady)...and if you really connect and genuinely like your business associate, then book 90 or 2hrs etc if ya can. A good lady you wish to savour her company, not guzzle it down...

 

[canman1]

30 minutes is never long enough for all activities. An hour would be the least time for actually enjoying the encounter. You probably spent more time getting and then leaving the booking, then 30 minutes, so staying longer makes sense. I usually go for two or more hours, if I feel this may be an interesting encounter. Where you might meet a couple of duds. The majority are not, and a few may have you thinking you should have booked longer.