This lady’s ad has piqued my interest. She offers massage. Has anyone had a session with her? I don’t recall seeing her ad before.
thanks for your feedback.
Same experience. I got the sense that more is on offer but only discussed in person.I emailed her way back, shes 200h for strictly MA limits with hand finish and implied that although light mutual touching is allowed "the focus is mostly on you", so expect maybe a boob grab.
I used to see her once i a while but it has been a very long time. Back then she was just about only MA, but would go a bit further (not very far though) with regulars. I recall enjoying my time with her, but there was not a lot of hot action.Same experience. I got the sense that more is on offer but only discussed in person.
I didn't commit as 200 for massage was steep back then and with add ons on top of that...
anyways she does look nice in pics....
Well I messaged her and I am waiting for a response.....if I get one and will try to see her if she replies with the information I asked about.Saw her twice probably 10 years ago. She was very nice. The experience was very limited.
Congratulations noomar as this is about as perfect a write up about spending some time with Erin as you can get.I recently met Erin. The first communication through email was seamless and friendly. When I asked, she clearly said that she doesn't offer "extras", and that I can expect a sensual massage, touching, kissing, and a happy ending. I appreciated the honesty and was actually intrigued to go and see her. I'm definitely now a regular. She is a hot, beautiful, and classy lady and should be treated as such. I enjoy my time with her so much. She is very sensual, feminine, friendly, and genuine. I leave every time feeling very relaxed.
The average now for a decent MA experience is $160 hh / $200 h no extras (from what I have seen at CMJ, hush etc and other independent MAs).
There is a reason why many women choose to be a MA rather than an escort / sex worker: they simply don't provide the full service. So, if that's what you're looking for, then maybe another cup of tea will suit you more.
I’ve never met Erin but I feel like you can’t have it both ways. If you’re not willing to provide any real world info or even a consistent cellular for a provider to know who you are, it’s only common sense you might be mistaken for someone else including a bad date. And if there are clients using anonymous booking methods as a back door to seeing a provider after they’ve been told no (unfortunately this is a regular occurrence) expect more hoops to jump through at the door. Even if you think you were mistaken for the wrong person, I have to say I find it inappropriate that you tried to rebook.Full disclosure - I have not seen her. But I tried!
First time, maybe 5 years ago now, when I texted her, she seemed convinced I was someone else. I think probably someone she did not have a good encounter with. But she was insistent I was him, and she seemed very perturbed about this. To the point where I was getting texts well after midnight, and hours after I thought our exchange was over, saying things like "I know it's you, stop pretending" and other odd things.
When I saw her advertising again a few months ago, I reached out again. I like her look, she's the right age for me, and she's in my general area. This was a much better exchange this time, and I booked a session for that same day. She would give me the address when I texted her to confirm I was coming. Right before I was going to leave, I texted her to let her know I was on my way, need the address etc. I got a small paragraph in reply with rules to follow. I had to park at such-and-such a place (I guess so she could see me) and call her from a legit # when I arrived and tell her what colour car I was in or something. (I reach out to providers with a "fake" number, always have. My cell shows up with my place of work on the call display, as it's a work phone, so no thanks. If a provider has a "no fake # policy, I have no problem with that, it's for good reason - just tell me right away to text or call from a real number. I'll explain why I can't, and they can accept that or not, as do I. No big deal)
I'll be honest - I get the safety aspect of things, to a certain point. But I don't do these things to feel judged on, I assume, my appearance, or have a picture of me and/or my license plate taken, or park in front of someone else's house for however long, etc etc. I also felt like this would be a sign of things to come during a session. I'm all for providers being careful, 100%. Just given all this plus the weird encounter years prior, I felt there was a high level of paranoia (likely for good reason, unfortunately for her) and I just didn't want to put myself in a position where my picture was taken, or there was a hidden camera, or a boyfriend in the other room or something, never mind her possibly not being able to relax because her senses were heightened. Not saying any of this would happen, but it'd be in the back of my mind the whole time and I wouldn't be able to relax, lol. Basically it kind of killed the mood.
Definitely not saying don't go and see her - just that it's not for me is all.
Very well saidI’ve never met Erin but I feel like you can’t have it both ways. If you’re not willing to provide any real world info or even a consistent cellular for a provider to know who you are, it’s only common sense you might be mistaken for someone else including a bad date. And if there are clients using anonymous booking methods as a back door to seeing a provider after they’ve been told no (unfortunately this is a regular occurrence) expect more hoops to jump through at the door. Even if you think you were mistaken for the wrong person, I have to say I find it inappropriate that you tried to rebook.
It doesn’t seem fair to criticize a provider as paranoid for taking some measures at the door to protect her wellbeing when you don’t want to provide any reassurances before you get there out of concern for your wellbeing. The accusation of paranoia can cut both ways you know?
Something to think about as using a Text App has both the advantage and the disadvantage of being anonymous. Without some other way of verifying yourself, you can’t expect to be shown the VIP line and will likely be treated with a fair amount of scrutiny and scepticism until you can demonstrate your a good client and date.
Hopefully, this gives some greater perspective so that instead of assuming a provider has a bad attitude, you can maybe understand that your approach as a client may not be the best one to get the reaction you want.
Peace
I don't think anything I said was critical. I basically said it's not for me, but I do understand it. As well, I said don't let this stop you from seeing her.I’ve never met Erin but I feel like you can’t have it both ways. If you’re not willing to provide any real world info or even a consistent cellular for a provider to know who you are, it’s only common sense you might be mistaken for someone else including a bad date. And if there are clients using anonymous booking methods as a back door to seeing a provider after they’ve been told no (unfortunately this is a regular occurrence) expect more hoops to jump through at the door. Even if you think you were mistaken for the wrong person, I have to say I find it inappropriate that you tried to rebook.
It doesn’t seem fair to criticize a provider as paranoid for taking some measures at the door to protect her wellbeing when you don’t want to provide any reassurances before you get there out of concern for your wellbeing. The accusation of paranoia can cut both ways you know?
Something to think about as using a Text App has both the advantage and the disadvantage of being anonymous. Without some other way of verifying yourself, you can’t expect to be shown the VIP line and will likely be treated with a fair amount of scrutiny and scepticism until you can demonstrate you’re a good client and date.
Hopefully, this gives some greater perspective so that instead of assuming a provider has a bad attitude, you can maybe understand that your approach as a client may not be the best one to get the reaction you want.
Peace
I didn't wanna reply at first so as to not give your posts any kind of significance. But here we go. Other than the fact the you are lying throughout your whole post (anyone who ever contacted Erin will know right away that you are making all this up), You know what the problem is? That you think you are so important to the extent that you are writing very long posts just to prove your point. People like you are what make the SPs lives more difficult and make them put even more restrictions on who they are willing to meet and what is allowed in a meeting.I don't think anything I said was critical. I basically said it's not for me, but I do understand it. As well, I said don't let this stop you from seeing her.
My only issue was, in reality, that an appointment was booked via a text app, and only at the last minute were the expectations laid out to me. Expectations that were too much for my own comfort level at that time, but I don't disagree with them. I don't think those rules are out of the ordinary at all. I just wish they were laid out at the start is all. And for some of us, they just aren't possible to follow. Like I said, the only number I can call from is a work phone. The display comes up with the name of the place I work.
As well, the exchange from 5 years prior was completely unrelated to anything I said. I reached out with an inquiry of services, to which the first reply was "Is this so-and-so?" To which I obviously said "no". I thought I got the wrong number and apologized and left it and never replied again. I did not have the wrong number. I then got a handful of texts throughout that day and into the next morning (like well after midnight) saying things like "I know it's you, so-and-so". It's not like I tried her again the next week. It was 5 years later, and the text exchange was smooth and she seemed very nice.
To sum up lol - no criticism, no judgment, I did not say "do not try her", I do not disagree with hers, or any other providers safety rules, and I was not complaining. I was merely sharing my experience so people can have an idea of what to expect if reaching out to her. Had I known what was expected before I booked, I would have been able to decide ahead of time whether I could accommodate her perfectly reasonable requests. With 15 minutes notice, I could not. And I was not mad or bitter. I was not able to accommodate her (very) last minute requests which were simply not possible for ME to agree to at that time. Has nothing to do with her or her rules - apart from not laying them out until 10-15 minutes before the appointment time.
You are correct, in that it was probably email (one of the few or last remaining providers who use only email). My bad. Was several months ago now, I just remembered reaching out to her to book. 5 years ago was definitely via text however.Hello Dude35
I had a feeling that when I came back on here this morning I might see a reply from you regarding Ruby's post and justifying your own.
My full disclosure is that I have met Erin. She is one of the first if not the first independent MPs I saw many years ago and did see repeatedly over a period of at least 5 years. Although not currently a client we still keep in touch. That happens when you connect with someone and I have been fortunate enough to have had similar experiences with some of the other beautiful women In Ottawa.
So obviously some issues stood out with your initial post.
How did you contact Erin by an anonymous text app when her only points of contact are through her web site or email ??
Please don't tell me you saved that rant number from 5 years ago which is a story completely out of character with the sweet Erin I know. She has been able to maintain a discreet presence in Ottawa by avoiding these types of interactions.
It is disheartening for a provider to make an attempt to remind or invite new clients by posting an ad only to have it disintegrate on a thread filled with innuendo, very old experiences or just plain falsehoods.
Just another reason why Terb remains a wasteland for providers interacting on here.
I was fortunate to have started this journey back in the heyday of CERB/Lyla and despite all the detractors of the Pink/Red board it worked for a while as a great place to post, meet, recommend and yes even socialize at meet and greets.
I'm not sure how you think anything you said is not critical when you attribute paranoia to someone and pile it on with possibly being surveilled, lurking boyfriend or, or, or maybe even a cavity search. Just kidding as that would be an upcharge
Anywho I was hoping to not have to write on here again but maybe this is all just a dream
There's no place like home, there's no place like home, there's no place like home
I find this response minutiae to obfuscate being honest. If we cut through all the words, your initial post derailed and otherwise positive thread about a provider by implying she was paranoid, boundary crossing, and had irrational last minute screening which led you to conclude, she likely has a bad attitude, even though you don’t know her, and you’ve never seen her. This is how it reads.I don't think anything I said was critical. I basically said it's not for me, but I do understand it. As well, I said don't let this stop you from seeing her.
My only issue was, in reality, that an appointment was booked via a text app, and only at the last minute were the expectations laid out to me. Expectations that were too much for my own comfort level at that time, but I don't disagree with them. I don't think those rules are out of the ordinary at all. I just wish they were laid out at the start is all. And for some of us, they just aren't possible to follow. Like I said, the only number I can call from is a work phone. The display comes up with the name of the place I work.
As well, the exchange from 5 years prior was completely unrelated to anything I said. I reached out with an inquiry of services, to which the first reply was "Is this so-and-so?" To which I obviously said "no". I thought I got the wrong number and apologized and left it and never replied again. I did not have the wrong number. I then got a handful of texts throughout that day and into the next morning (like well after midnight) saying things like "I know it's you, so-and-so". It's not like I tried her again the next week. It was 5 years later, and the text exchange was smooth and she seemed very nice.
To sum up lol - no criticism, no judgment, I did not say "do not try her", I do not disagree with hers, or any other providers safety rules, and I was not complaining. I was merely sharing my experience so people can have an idea of what to expect if reaching out to her. Had I known what was expected before I booked, I would have been able to decide ahead of time whether I could accommodate her perfectly reasonable requests. With 15 minutes notice, I could not. And I was not mad or bitter. I was not able to accommodate her (very) last minute requests which were simply not possible for ME to agree to at that time. Has nothing to do with her or her rules - apart from not laying them out until 10-15 minutes before the appointment time.