Anyone ever ask a SP for recommendations?

SilentLeviathan

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I was talking about this with some friends tonight and I thought I'd come to the experts. ;) What is your opinion on asking an SP for a recommendation on another SP? Now, I realize that this is a business and they obviously don't want to lose clients. What I'm referring too is a situation where you might be seeing a younger white SP and ask her for a referral for a black SP or you're with a MILF and ask for a recommendation for a younger girl.

I guess the way I see it is that you're looking for an experience that they cannot provide and maybe you want to try something different. That's not saying they're bad, just you want something different.

I realize that's the point of boards like these but I assume that the SP community is a tight one and they probably know each other to some degree so they might know your tatses and be able to refer you to someone else.

It could also be that it's 2:15 AM and the bottle of wine is doing a lot of the talking.
 
I've seen a number of SPs say that they don't offer such and such service, but they can recommend someone who does. I suspect that many girls won't have any recommendations to make, depending on the specifics, and that a few girls who are just in it for themselves won't cooperate. To answer your original question, I don't think there's anything wrong with asking for recommendations, although it's not always the smartest thing to do.
 
cypherpunk said:
I've seen a number of SPs say that they don't offer such and such service, but they can recommend someone who does. I suspect that many girls won't have any recommendations to make, depending on the specifics, and that a few girls who are just in it for themselves won't cooperate. To answer your original question, I don't think there's anything wrong with asking for recommendations, although it's not always the smartest thing to do.
Yeah, I agree. I should clarifiy that I would only ask for a recommendation after I had built a rapport with a SP and maybe seen them a few times. However, most people get a feeling or know when your should or shouldn't ask a question.
 
I have seen SPs make recommendations in threads on here. I don't think I would have balls to ask a SP for a recommendation for another SP after having a session with her.
 
The worst is when they try and pawn off some lame duo that sounds enticing, but ends up being a time wasted, girls whispering when you are out of the room, arms crossed fully dressed saying, "what should we do now" bullshit dead end of a session. They make it sound like it will be the be all end all duo of the millennium, where as you should have thought with your head above, not below.
 
Would you ask a car salesman to recommend another dealership and expect he refers you to a reputable one? If it is asking an outcall girl for an incall recommendation I can see the logic.... but I really wouldnt rely on that without doing my own research.
 
Plus the fact that if you ask an sp you have been seeing for some time already who they would recommend for whatever and if you go and you do not have a good time she will feel somewhat responsible or you could despise her for her choice. Most times an sp only has the information that is on these here boards the same as you guys do. We are all here just as a community and the only difference at times is that it is the men who go and see the sp's not the sp's seeing the sp's for the encounters.

I used to get asked a lot for services of other girls that are more gfe. The men would want the pse services from myself and dependant on the mood they would say would want the kinkier with myself and the other from someplace closer to where I was. It was easier for me when Lynn was close by I would always say to go there as I felt her personality clashed like mine and no man ever came back saying they were not happy. Once she moved I was not in the mood to go researching all the girls as I spent a lot of my time myself researching all the men. :p
 
I've had SP's ask me to check out a new girl at the same agency and phone in to see who the phone person recomends. They feel sometimes they are not getting calls because the phone person is trying to promote someone else. They generally get this feeling when they talk to regulars who make this comment to them.
 
I've also had the same thing happen to me where a girl would ask me to try some of the other girls the next time around...
Maybe they feel bad getting all the biz / attention at that agency and want to spread the clients around.