Anybody ever have a formal arrangement or transaction with a non SP/SB?

[multimedia]

I'm think with an acquaintance, casual friend, maybe employee at a bar you frequent or gym, or cashier. I heard in Thailand, it's pretty much open season on that type of proposition.

Something like "Hey listen, I like you, but don't want anything serious. When we meet, let's say I give you N dollars (maybe it's more subtle i.e. here, make sure to have a nice dinner) and we can do _____. Just between us, and it's with the utmost respect".

The basis being there's already a type of friendship, connection, rapport. And of course, if she likes you or at least highly accommodable, it's just a bit of a stretch, and she feels like she keeps her 'dignity' with some extra benefit in her pocket. Everybody goes home happy.

 

[luvyeah]

Normal women are typically offended at such a proposition, remember that the general public looks down upon and shames sex work. They don't want to be treated like a whore, and all the bad sterotypea that go with it. It wil always have a stigma. Many sugar babies and even strippers think down upon fs escorts! (Its a form of cognitive dissonance, they dont underatand the reality that they are just the same as escorts.) You can always try to do this subversively though, being too open and honest will surely cause trouble.

I would advise against it, but I'd really like to hear a story where this may have worked out.

 

[kstanb]

Unless you met her at a "seeking arrangements" kind of place, it is better if she is the one that proposes it; "civilian" women get offended if you ask them to prostitute themselves

 

[chafien]

I've fooled around with a neighbor and then the next day she asked if she could "borrow" $60.

Does that count?

I'm sure there are ways to insinuate stuff without being that direct. E.g. offer to take her to an upclass restaurant, then tickets to this nice venue, etc...

I mean, asking to pay her to bang her is really no different than asking if you could take her out on a date and then afterwards bang her...And almost nobody would respond to that date request.

 

[kherg007]

I've fooled around with a neighbor and then the next day she asked if she could "borrow" $60.

Does that count?

I'm sure there are ways to insinuate stuff without being that direct. E.g. offer to take her to an upclass restaurant, then tickets to this nice venue, etc...

I mean, asking to pay her to bang her is really no different than asking if you could take her out on a date and then afterwards bang her...And almost nobody would respond to that date request.

Hmm....I can hallucinate this:
"Let's go to dinner. But let's not eat and instead I'll just give you the $100 and we'll go straight to sex."

LOL...

 

[Vera.Reis]

Can you live stream it for our amusement lol

 

[Butler1000]

Lets be clear. The minute a financial arrangement is made they have prostituted themselves. You can give it a fancy name and try to justify it anyway but thats what they are and what they did.

They are just not owning up to being in the profession. Part time its still a job.

 

[Bagilson]

Everybody is a whore if you find the currency they want. It’s not always money.

 

[Jasmina]

I have no trouble accepting gifts from my lovers. But never had a spoken formal agreement. I'd be down for it (with a chosen lover).

 

[bazokajoe]

Sounds like the OP is referring to what most people call a girlfriend.